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scsi drv1

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All seemed well in my vicinity last nigth til about 5 A.M. this morning when my ex-girlfriend imed me to tell me that earlier in the evening she got drunk cause she was told by some random chick we know that I said I was hanging out with her cause she was lame. She proceeded to pretty much rant and rave about how I shouldnt talk behind her back and what etc..... I finally got to the point where my anger caused me to instantly strike out and start yelling.
Even though we were only speaking on aim those were probably some of the most aggrivating moments of my year thus far and to make it all worse. The random chick who communicated this to my ex is a 16 year old delinquent!
I have honestly come to a point where I dont know how to communicate to women because selective hearing tends to take hold and what I said turns into nothing remotely close.
Honestly, I am just tired of fighting with women about dumb stuff. Cant we all just get dictionaries and translators to make communication between the sexes more conducive? PLEASE!
 

PingSpike

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Why are you talking with your exgirlfriends. Just block her off aim. No way I'd be putting up with naggy sh|t from some girl I wasn't at least fvcking or planning to fvck.
 

hevnsnt

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Originally posted by: InstincT
There's a reason she's your ex...

yup and you should have said that..

"Man, there is a reason you are my ex.. I made the right call on that one. Go me!"
 

Kadarin

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You're complaining about a communication problem, when you're talking with her over AIM? That's not exactly the best mode of communication to begin with...

And besides, "my ex-girlfriend imed me to tell me that earlier in the evening she got drunk cause she was told by some random chick we know that I said I was hanging out with her cause she was lame" is just utterly stupid. Why even bother with this immature, childish idiot?
 

gigapet

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instead of playing into the drama and arguing be a man.

"Listen Call me tommorow when you want to talk rationally. I have to go now. Bye"

Now listen this is the crucial part, do not under any circumstances answer her phone calls until ......TOMMOROW!!!!!

Tomorow she will call you and be apologetic for her behavior. You win.
 

Scarpozzi

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Grab hold of your penis and give your woman a reason to shut up. It's funny, but if you take care of business in the sack, all the insignificant other problems go away pretty quick.
 

scsi drv1

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Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
Grab hold of your penis and give your woman a reason to shut up. It's funny, but if you take care of business in the sack, all the insignificant other problems go away pretty quick.

Are you serious. This was more of complaint since it is in off topic. I wouldnt make sex comments were I to be in your shoes, you probably still have a curfew.
 

scsi drv1

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
You're complaining about a communication problem, when you're talking with her over AIM? That's not exactly the best mode of communication to begin with...

And besides, "my ex-girlfriend imed me to tell me that earlier in the evening she got drunk cause she was told by some random chick we know that I said I was hanging out with her cause she was lame" is just utterly stupid. Why even bother with this immature, childish idiot?

For me it isnt just a communication problem of a chat client. Its a life lesson! A good portion of the women I have dealt with in recent times have developed a severe case of selective hearing and it drives me crazy. As a person I can ignore but as someone who cares I must respond.

Anyone out their can claim to be a man and stay silent in order to maintain ur so-called masculinity but when push comes to shove a problem is a problem and problems need resolution!
 

Kadarin

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Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: scsi drv1
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
You're complaining about a communication problem, when you're talking with her over AIM? That's not exactly the best mode of communication to begin with...

And besides, "my ex-girlfriend imed me to tell me that earlier in the evening she got drunk cause she was told by some random chick we know that I said I was hanging out with her cause she was lame" is just utterly stupid. Why even bother with this immature, childish idiot?

For me it isnt just a communication problem of a chat client. Its a life lesson! A good portion of the women I have dealt with in recent times have developed a severe case of selective hearing and it drives me crazy. As a person I can ignore but as someone who cares I must respond.

Anyone out their can claim to be a man and stay silent in order to maintain ur so-called masculinity but when push comes to shove a problem is a problem and problems need resolution!

Ok.. then let's look at the problem:

She got drunk: "cause she was told by some random chick we know that I said I was hanging out with her cause she was lame"

Have you told her that this makes no sense whatsoever? Why would you ever hang out with someone because they're lame?

Is there more to this story?
 

scsi drv1

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Excuse me, I should've said wasnt hanging out with her because she was lame and it was boring to do so.