most modern DDR will be double sided. there are two types of densities, the size of each of the memory chips on the module, and the cell arrangements.
this is from the anandtech FAQ.
"The second factor to consider is the organisation of the RAM cells inside each chip. There are a number of configurations available for the organisation of a single chip. Take the 128Mbit chip as an example. It can be organised as 8mbit x 16 cells, 16mbit x 8 cells, or 32mbit x 4 cells. The last configuration is classed as high density.
Much of the very cheap RAM that you see today is in the form of the final organisation (?? x 4). No Intel chipset is compatible with this RAM, regardless of the overall Mbit size of the RAM chip. VIA Apollo and K?133/266 chipsets ARE compatible with this type of RAM"
im pretty sure sellers don't tell you what the cell arrangements are which sucks