Mellissa Estridge's Shocker! Are only women are capable of this?

StormRider

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OMG. I just watched Access Hollywood where they interviewed Mellissa Estridge(sp?) and she said that her "wife" told her a "shocker" during one of their marital counseling sessions.

Apparently, Mellissa's "wife" looked her in the eye and said, "I'm not gay."

Are only women capable of living 10 years in a gay relationship with another woman, artificially conceiving 2 children with her and then discover that they are not gay? I can't imagine a man doing something like this.
 

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Julie Cypher WAS married to Lou Diamond Phillips and then took up with Melissa.

Anne Heche dated Steve Martin before the whole Ellen thing and is now engaged to a MAN.

Gays insist that they're born that way and it's not just a lifestyle choice.

Discuss.
 

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<< Apparently, Mellissa's &quot;wife&quot; looked her in the eye and said, &quot;I'm not gay.&quot; >>



At least it was during counseling, and not munching. (Dinner) ;)
 

Mrburns2007

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{scenario}woops been takin it up the *** for years and suddenly I realize I'm not gay...my bad....oh well same as paying taxes{end senario}
 

edwooten

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I don't know how anyone can be shocked at anything these people say... I mean look at the lifestyle. Why does it shock you?

It's not a disease, and you're not born with it... It's just a way of attracting attention. Ignore them and they'll change.
 

Stark

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Now she's dating one of the girls from &quot;Popular&quot; (I got bored at the in-laws and read this months People magazine). ;)
 

ChrichtonsGirl

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You know, you could interpret Ms. Cypher's comment to mean she's not gay, but bi. I'm sure it still shocked Melissa, since she'd probably assumed being in a monogamous 10-year relationship meant she was gay, but since she'd been with a man for a long time before this relationship, I wouldn't have been too surprised if she'd said she liked men and women.
 

StormRider

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You know, you could interpret Ms. Cypher's comment to mean she's not gay, but bi.

Shhhhh, we're not supposed to use reasoning here --- remember this is ATOT forums. ;)

But seriously, in the rest of the interview Mellissa Etheridge said that she now knows how to tell when someone is sincere. She will not have a relationship if the girl says that this is her first time doing this because it indicates to her it is probably a phase or experimentation on the part of the girl.

Anyways, I find the whole thing strange as well as Anne Heche's relationship with Ellen Degenerous(sp)...

 

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I dunno, if a guy realizes that he isn't gay after 10 years of taking it up the ***, he better continue pretending.
 

NFS4

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I bet Steve was feeling pretty bad when Anne dropped him for Ellen...ugh:Q Maybe it wouldn't have been so bad for him if Ellen wasn't so gawd awful hairy butt-crack ugly.
 

KevinH

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- Starks which girl from Popular was it? Damned if it's one of the two main actresses...
 

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I had a friend do the same thing in college...we were all sitting around drinking and enjoying some other recreational ummm....anyway he suddenly said &quot;You know guys, I'm gay.&quot; We laughed thought he was full of shazbot the continued to enjoy ourselves. He then told us again and was very serious about it. He was &quot;gay&quot; for about 2 years then one day decided he liked women again. Now he married to an AMAZING hottie.

edit...just for clarification...the hottie is a female.
 

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<< It's just a way of attracting attention. Ignore them and they'll change. >>



Ignorance is sad sometimes.
 

Mday

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i am sure only women can do that...

you know, carry on a lesbian affair, and say that she is not a lesbian...
 

reitz

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What's even more shocking (to me at least) is that any of you actually care...
 

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<< What's even more shocking (to me at least) is that any of you actually care... >>



I agree....
Melissa who???
 

wolf550e

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well yes, women can orbitrary(sp) choose to have a lesbian lifestyle, but men have to be born that way, because hetrosecsual men absolutely cant be in a gay relationship...
 

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<< well yes, women can orbitrary(sp) choose to have a lesbian lifestyle... >>



Exactly. It's a universal statement.














;)
 

ChrichtonsGirl

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<< - Starks which girl from Popular was it? Damned if it's one of the two main actresses... >>



KevinH, it's not one of the main actresses. I don't watch the show, so I don't know if she's recently cut her hair, but the woman is very blonde with very short spiky hair.
 

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<< Julie Cypher WAS married to Lou Diamond Phillips and then took up with Melissa.

Anne Heche dated Steve Martin before the whole Ellen thing and is now engaged to a MAN.

Gays insist that they're born that way and it's not just a lifestyle choice.

Discuss.
>>



I agree 100%. They whine and cry and even get scientists to drum up ridiculous data to put forth the point they are born that way. Which is a bunch of crap? Its a choice who you sleep with and always will be a choice.