- Jun 10, 2005
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So this was my high school sweetheart....we were together for like 3 years. Since then we've been sort of friends...we talk 2-4 times a year. I haven't seen her for 4 years. But she wants to get dinner and needs help working on a business plan thing that she's trying to do ( a non-profit venture to help children in need).
Obviously, she's not looking to like get back together or hook up or anything, but it still makes me a bit nervous...she's way hot and the idea of getting with her is exciting. lol...
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Update (copied and pasted from later in the thread)-
Hi guys....sorry about the lack of update. It was for three reasons: 1. She ended up bailing that night (it was last friday. We had plans to meet at about 7:30....on my way home from work at 5 she called and said that she had an emergency at work (that she later explained) and said that she had to do a meeting that got pushed back because of the work emergency and that she could cancel the meeting if I wasn't going to be available at a different time, but i said Sunday would be fine) 2. After the dinner on Sunday, nothing really exciting and worth posting happened (but since you all seem interested, I'll tell the story here in a sec) and to be honest-I wussed out...big time (but with reason!) and 3. Really didn't think anyone would care! lol
Ok, to get the obvious ATOT questions out the way first: Yes, she is still smoking hot. Call shens, call me a liar, promise to stop reading my threads-I don't ****** care...but she's 5'9", 24" waist and 34D chest. She looks just as hot as she ever did. And NO i'm not posting pics (and yes, i have heard of a scanner). If she was my girlfriend, I'd tell her "Hey some friends online (i'm gonna go ahead and call you guys friends even though we dont know each other lol) want to see you. Do you mind?" BUT since she isn't my gf and I dont feel comfortable telling her about it, i'm not going to just post pictures....it feels creepy. So-sorry. There are plenty of hot girls' pics u can see...my suggestion is to try google.
Ok, so dinner- we met at a sushi restaurant and the first thing I noticed was that she was at least as nervous as I was, if not more so. That seemed a bit strange to me, cuz, as I said, she's really hot. In fact, I'd say she's out of my league now. But I was her "first" and I guess you feel a sense of attachment to your first always, so maybe those feelings she had for me never got all the way out or something (or maybe, like most women, she has a lack of self confidence and doesn't quite realize how hot she is...beats me...whatever). Anyway, dinner was a bit awkward...strange silences, odd conversation. I dunno....i guess it was cool, but it was kind of strange.
Really, though, i wussed out- We talked about why don't we hang out more often and I said it was because she was always so busy and not great at returning calls, and she said, "Well, what are you up to tonight?!?" and it was already almost 9 oclock. I said I was going to watch entourage and go to bed, then changed the subject to TV shows.
BUT i had a reason for pussin out....see, my best friend just returned this past week from Japan and he's living with me. He was at home. She and he were friends when I dated her and they get along really well (in fact it was him that introduced me to her). I knew that if we went back to my place that it would have ended up them talking and chatting and catching up for the next couple hours and would have been pointless.
She paid for dinner since I was helping her with her stuff.
We are going to see each other soon. Really doubt any "stuff" will go down.
Obviously, she's not looking to like get back together or hook up or anything, but it still makes me a bit nervous...she's way hot and the idea of getting with her is exciting. lol...
EDIT-
Update (copied and pasted from later in the thread)-
Hi guys....sorry about the lack of update. It was for three reasons: 1. She ended up bailing that night (it was last friday. We had plans to meet at about 7:30....on my way home from work at 5 she called and said that she had an emergency at work (that she later explained) and said that she had to do a meeting that got pushed back because of the work emergency and that she could cancel the meeting if I wasn't going to be available at a different time, but i said Sunday would be fine) 2. After the dinner on Sunday, nothing really exciting and worth posting happened (but since you all seem interested, I'll tell the story here in a sec) and to be honest-I wussed out...big time (but with reason!) and 3. Really didn't think anyone would care! lol
Ok, to get the obvious ATOT questions out the way first: Yes, she is still smoking hot. Call shens, call me a liar, promise to stop reading my threads-I don't ****** care...but she's 5'9", 24" waist and 34D chest. She looks just as hot as she ever did. And NO i'm not posting pics (and yes, i have heard of a scanner). If she was my girlfriend, I'd tell her "Hey some friends online (i'm gonna go ahead and call you guys friends even though we dont know each other lol) want to see you. Do you mind?" BUT since she isn't my gf and I dont feel comfortable telling her about it, i'm not going to just post pictures....it feels creepy. So-sorry. There are plenty of hot girls' pics u can see...my suggestion is to try google.
Ok, so dinner- we met at a sushi restaurant and the first thing I noticed was that she was at least as nervous as I was, if not more so. That seemed a bit strange to me, cuz, as I said, she's really hot. In fact, I'd say she's out of my league now. But I was her "first" and I guess you feel a sense of attachment to your first always, so maybe those feelings she had for me never got all the way out or something (or maybe, like most women, she has a lack of self confidence and doesn't quite realize how hot she is...beats me...whatever). Anyway, dinner was a bit awkward...strange silences, odd conversation. I dunno....i guess it was cool, but it was kind of strange.
Really, though, i wussed out- We talked about why don't we hang out more often and I said it was because she was always so busy and not great at returning calls, and she said, "Well, what are you up to tonight?!?" and it was already almost 9 oclock. I said I was going to watch entourage and go to bed, then changed the subject to TV shows.
BUT i had a reason for pussin out....see, my best friend just returned this past week from Japan and he's living with me. He was at home. She and he were friends when I dated her and they get along really well (in fact it was him that introduced me to her). I knew that if we went back to my place that it would have ended up them talking and chatting and catching up for the next couple hours and would have been pointless.
She paid for dinner since I was helping her with her stuff.
We are going to see each other soon. Really doubt any "stuff" will go down.
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