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Captante

Lifer
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Originally posted by: n7
I don't feel enhancements of any kind are necessary, but i think those of you ragging on Lola, etc. are a bit out of line.

She has a right to do what she wants, & it sounds like she's very happy with the results, which is what matters. It also doesn't sound like iamwiz82 minds at all either :p

My ex had small breasts, very small in fact, but i loved them as they were. That being said, if she wanted larger (not excessively much larger of course :p), i see no reason why i wouldn't have been supportive.

Even though I voted no, based purely on my personal opinion, I couldn't have said it better myself! :)
 

feelingshorter

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Originally posted by: LikeLinus
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I have realized something. I have seen a lot of breasts, natural and fake, and i realized that if breasts are done "right" i prefer the look of nice perky breasts than droopy ones.
Even when i had "none" they were perky, but not as perky as they are now.
They are very squishy yet firm (in a good way).
Plus, just an FYI, if your GF, OP, decides to get them, if she goes under the muscle, they tend to feel a bit more natural.
It is amazing because i started with no skin there, and my body has gotten used to everything and skin has stretched with NO strech marks at all.

Nothing shallow about wanting to feel feminine. There are so many advances with surgery now, as long as you have a good dr. it is quite safe (but there will always be complications during surgery and after.)

Good luck!
PM me if your GF wants some good websites and message boards to go to to help her get more information :)


Thanks for proving my point. They are firm compared to natural fatty boobie tissue :)

i agree
 

AreaCode707

Lifer
Sep 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: m2kewl
Originally posted by: MikeyIs4Dcats
Originally posted by: Zenmervolt
Am I the only one who notices the amusing shallow-ness of guys saying they'd never agree with their SO having plastic surgery? And the even more amusing irony of them all calling the women shallow when they are judging based solely on the presence or absence of cosmetic surgery?

Just saying...

ZV

consequently all the same guys drooling over fake titted girls in porn.

what's wrong wit that? it's not my girl :p

What if your girl wants to be drooled over like you drool over the pr0n girls?
 

DAGTA

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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Now for the guys. If YOUR girlfriend wanted to get it done, would you encourage her, object, or be neutral about it? Explain why.

I would talk to her and tell her that I would prefer she didn't. However, it is her body = her decision. If she chose to get implants: if I loved her, I would stay with her but I suspect I would have a difficult time wanting to touch her chest. If I wasn't in love with her, I would end the relationship.
 

Philippine Mango

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Only problem I can see with breast implants is the fact that apparently (I can't confirm this), you have to be sure that when you fall, you don't land on your breasts because they could "pop", litterally...
 

hdeck

Lifer
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i would want her to stay natural, but it wouldn't exactly be a deal breaker if she insisted. i'm not paying for it, though.
 

DAGTA

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Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Only problem I can see with breast implants is the fact that apparently (I can't confirm this), you have to be sure that when you fall, you don't land on your breasts because they could "pop", litterally...

Ever hear of the wrestler China ?
 

hdeck

Lifer
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Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Only problem I can see with breast implants is the fact that apparently (I can't confirm this), you have to be sure that when you fall, you don't land on your breasts because they could "pop", litterally...

Ever hear of the wrestler China ?

sable's busted during a match too
 

sdifox

No Lifer
Sep 30, 2005
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I don't see why there is such an obsession about bigger boobs. Just live with what you got. Or look for food recipes that help growth :) There is apparently massages that can help. Bottom line, if you are that insecure, a shrink is a better investment.
 

Looney

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They don't feel very real. Much stiffer, although i silicon feels better than saline. They're still fun, but i would definitely prefer real. Anything more than a handful is a waste anyways. It's all up to her though, if she'll feel better getting them done, then it's her decision.
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: sdifox
I don't see why there is such an obsession about bigger boobs. Just live with what you got. Or look for food recipes that help growth :) There is apparently massages that can help. Bottom line, if you are that insecure, a shrink is a better investment.

massage does not help. there are no creams or potions that will work either.
And, i didnt want to get fat just to get larger breasts.

you men need to get it through your head that it is NOT about being insecure. :roll:
 

ATLien247

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Originally posted by: iamwiz82
No, I'm not ignorant, I'm thinking about now. I realize both of us will change in 20 years, but we will change together, and that makes it OK.

First off, I'm not for or against breast augmentation.

I have some questions though:

How many adjustments will need to be made in those twenty years?
How much do you estimate each adjustment will cost?
Will there be any post-adjustment recovery time?
 

iamwiz82

Lifer
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Originally posted by: ATLien247
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
No, I'm not ignorant, I'm thinking about now. I realize both of us will change in 20 years, but we will change together, and that makes it OK.

First off, I'm not for or against breast augmentation.

I have some questions though:

How many adjustments will need to be made in those twenty years?
How much do you estimate each adjustment will cost?
Will there be any post-adjustment recovery time?

They say every 15 years or so they should be replaced, however there are many women who got them in the 60 and never had them redone. I believe the implants themselves came with a lifetime warranty and a 7 year warranty on surgery costs.

Cost really depends on what kind of technology will be around at the time.

I'd suspect it will be less than the initial recovery, as the pocket is already there and will just be refilled.
 

PricklyPete

Lifer
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I like them natural, and I've told her that, but if she insists that she wants implants, I wouldn't make a big deal about it.
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: ATLien247
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
No, I'm not ignorant, I'm thinking about now. I realize both of us will change in 20 years, but we will change together, and that makes it OK.

First off, I'm not for or against breast augmentation.

I have some questions though:

How many adjustments will need to be made in those twenty years?
How much do you estimate each adjustment will cost?
Will there be any post-adjustment recovery time?

1. my dr said that many woman have kept their implants their whole lives. otherwise it could be once.
2. i have no idea how much plastic surgery will cost in 20 yrs.
3.right now, there are groundbreaking safe and effective new procedures that have a recovery time of just one day.
EDIT... WAS BEAT TO THE PUNCH :eek:
 

ATLien247

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Feb 1, 2000
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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: ATLien247
First off, I'm not for or against breast augmentation.

I have some questions though:

How many adjustments will need to be made in those twenty years?
How much do you estimate each adjustment will cost?
Will there be any post-adjustment recovery time?

1. my dr said that many woman have kept their implants their whole lives. otherwise it could be once.
2. i have no idea how much plastic surgery will cost in 20 yrs.
3.right now, there are groundbreaking safe and effective new procedures that have a recovery time of just one day.
EDIT... WAS BEAT TO THE PUNCH :eek:

I'll reply to LolaWiz since they are her breasts we're referring to afterall. Sorry, iamwiz82. :p

Anyhow, I didn't really have implant replacement in mind when I was asking those questions. I was thinking more along the lines of cosmetic adjustments. Obviously, the older you get, the more you're going to sag. Do you anticipate any adjustments in that regard? Like, having them lifted or whatever?
 

loic2003

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My ex had huge baps (DD) but was really skinny (28" waist) which means she found it really hard to find clothes that fitted well and the tats were generally a nuisance to her. I liked them but didn't have to live with the weight of the things (>1.5Kg each I estimate). She wanted to go for a reduction whihc was fair enough in my eyes, although there were issues concerning breast feeding later in life and scarring.

We split up and ASAIK she hasn't had the op done just yet. I suggested waiting until any kids she plans are having are weined off the milk (I hear a m other's breast milk is fantastic for a beby's immune system).

In a word: let the woman do as she feels in order for her to feel confident with herself. However, do err on the side of caution, check the risks, cost and damage done to the body in the course of such operations.

Finally, can we have a pic of your g/f's wobbly bits so we chan all oggle at them? Thanks.
 

Conky

Lifer
May 9, 2001
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I'd prefer them to be real but my gf wants to have them done and I think it would make her feel better about herself and so I will just learn to suffer with her surgically improved breasts. :laugh:
 

sdifox

No Lifer
Sep 30, 2005
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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: sdifox
I don't see why there is such an obsession about bigger boobs. Just live with what you got. Or look for food recipes that help growth :) There is apparently massages that can help. Bottom line, if you are that insecure, a shrink is a better investment.

massage does not help. there are no creams or potions that will work either.
And, i didnt want to get fat just to get larger breasts.

you men need to get it through your head that it is NOT about being insecure. :roll:

So what is it about?
 

jamesbond007

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Dec 21, 2000
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I say real or no deal! :p The polls speak for themselves.

Lola, I do have a question for you. You stated earlier that you do not have children yet, but women's breasts get bigger when they get pregnant and start lactating. After the baby is born and say a year goes by, do the breasts go back to normal size ever or are they bigger from that point on? I'm guessing if they are, it won't be as much because a woman will stop lactating after a while.

Thanks in advance!