Married Men: What is the most important attribute when looking for a wife?

[kage69]

My requirements?

1) Double jointed
2) Ex-aerobics instructor
3) No gag reflex


Seriously, a woman who isn't psycho and who has a sense of humor. A healthy libido to match my own wouldn't hurt. I've always had a thing for girls I train with. Girlie girls don't interest me in the slightest, but one who knows how to grapple or handle a bokken is tres sexy in my book.

 

[SandInMyShoes]

Other: Charecter (sp?).

Sure, beauty matters a bit... Compatibility matters alot... But she's gotta have a good heart, or it won't last with any meaning.

Coming from an unmarried 16yr old.

 

[Yax]

All these stupid ass responses. I take it most of you aren't married yet. As someone who's in a healthy marriage, let me tell you what's the most important:

1. She puts out whenever and where ever you want it.
2. She turns you on so you do want it.

Everyone who just says she's got to be hot, large breasts, etc. You're headed for divorce because all that does you NO GOOD if she doesn't put out. It'll only frustrate you, duh.

I don't suggest getting married till you've lived with her for at least a year and she puts out whenever you need it. Make sure she knows it too.

Remember, if she's the type that doesn't put out much or thinks twice a week is too much, she could cry rape on you if you try to pork her after she says no, then some Jail time and your life will be ruined, RUINED! (All that from a previous post: something about porking while she's asleep).

 

[Lalakai]

She should be your best friend, a mistress that keeps you daydreaming while at work, a great companion, someone that is independent but loves being with you.

and yes, i'm married. Have known her since 6th grade, got married at 28, been that way for 17 years, and i still smile when i think of her. Oh yeah, two kids, plus 2 more adopted.

 

[Nitemare]

The ability for them to be able to hold their breath for four minutes while humming?

 

[Geekbabe]

I'm not a guy but it seems to me that a sense of humor and the abil.ity to recognise that your spouse isn't the enemy are probably the two most important qualties in a spouse.

 

[Bateluer]

Has anyone said tolerance?

Not sure if I would ever get married, but . . . you never know I guess.

 

[classy]

Loyalty

 

[Koing]

We have to be able to chat and get along. Convosation can last a life time. Everything else goes away...........

Sense of humour is also high on my list.

Not so bothered if shes intelligent or not as long as she is good at talking and listening, which to me would be more important then how high her IQ or her SAT scores were. Also it would indicate some sort of intelligence........

She still has to be good looking though. I don't care if that fades away later but dam I wouldn't go out with a girl that I did not FANCY like crazy.

Money I don't care. As long as I have enough we have enough. House, car and a few things is all that is needed. Anything else is a bonus to me. Obviously more is better.........

Ability to overlook my fauls? I don't have many............maybe too competitive or aggressive though..........hmm.....

Koing

 

[bootymac]

Looks is always a factor. Sure, you get along with her really well, but would you marry a women that looked like a donkey's ass?!

For me: Understandable, not a bitch, fairly decent looks, brains, sense of humour. Mainly someone that shares things in common with me.

 

[Bateluer]

Originally posted by: Koing
We have to be able to chat and get along.

Ability to overlook my fauls? I don't have many............maybe too competitive or aggressive though..........hmm.....

Koing

Have you considered arrogance?

 

[Chunkee]

Originally posted by: Macro2
Nice disposition.
Not lazy.
Look at her mother- you can learn a lot there.
Pre nup unless you are poor.

GREAT ADVICE.....CHECK OUT HERE MOM....THAT WILL BE HER IN 20 some years

chemistry is very important, imagination, smarts and a little naughtyness

JC

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Bateluer
Has anyone said tolerance?

Not sure if I would ever get married, but . . . you never know I guess.

A very good point! Everybody screws up,they do things that might hurt you or cause you problems but tolerance helps you to remember that your spouse is human and that such incidents were accidental and hopefully not intentional.

 

[BaDaBooM]

I'm not married but I voted Other, which would be all of the above. To me it would have to be the person as a whole. Call wishfull thinking but I want it all, looks, personality, etc. I should say though that is not to mean I have to have someone who is perfect (as this comes to mind to most). Just perfect for me. I don't necessarily have the same definitions for quality of looks, personality, etc as everyone else. For example, some women are just flat out physically attractive (popular definition) and I can recognize that but many times I find some women unbelieveably attractive (more so than the former)because of their special combination of their look, personality, and other characteristics, and meanwhile my friends are wondering what the big deal is. I guess I'm saying I don't limit one characteristic over another.... kind of what the whole package is.

 

[odz]

Great, thanks for the replies. Any more thoughts?

 

[jjones]

A flat head and handle grip ears.