Married life is pretty good.

[djheater]

I got my girlfriend of 3 months pregnant when I was 22, she was 20. We'd known each other since High School and were pretty good friends before hooking up.

It's been almost 8 years now and even though we have a lot of stress we still love each other very much and are very close emotionally. She's my best friend, my partner and I trust her implicitly. She's the mother of my three children (8,4.5,1) and she's incredibly awesome at raising our kids, they're really lucky to have such a sweet, sincere, selfless Mother, and I'm always impressed by her intelligence, intuition, humor, and sexuality.

I am truly grateful that I have had the good fortune to be so happy and fulfilled in my marriage and partnership.

She's a crappy housekeeper.
Money sucks ass.
Being over-worked to support a 1 income family sucks ass.
Having to put every single personal goal and aspiration behind the betterment of your family, while being the right thing to do, sometimes sucks ass.

Just wanted both sides presented.

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[dquan97]

I'm with you there on the struggle on supporting a family on one income, but we're getting by.

 

[Koing]

:thumbsup:

Koing

 

[alphatarget1]

cute kids, all girls?

 

[Miramonti]

Honestly, you guys look like a really nice couple. You mentioned trust and friendship - it just seems to emanated between you both in the photo.

 

[aidanjm]

your wife is very attractive. lovely, interesting face.

 

[Conky]

So, it seems your point is that marriage "sucks ass". :laugh: I won't argue as I have dodged that bullet repeatedly. 😛

 

[alimoalem]

good luck with the family thing and your marriage. hope you get a raise soon!

 

[blackdogdeek]

she's reading over your shoulder isn't she 😉

 

[mcveigh]

you're doing the right thing, keep it up.

 

[Amplifier]

You may have a loving wife and kids, but I have my computer running in SLI. I win!

 

[Goosemaster]

for living the american dream and for having pride in the american archetype:thumbsup:

 

[Goosemaster]

Originally posted by: blackdogdeek
she's reading over your shoulder isn't she 😉

so how much of mr. heater's story is true woman?? :laugh:

 

[chiwawa626]

🙂 Cute family

 

[Goosemaster]

Originally posted by: chiwawa626
🙂 Cute family

jsut tell them to smile a bit more😉

 

[Ultralight]

I wouldn't trade my marriage and my kids for anything. I am one lucky guy.

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: Goosemaster

Originally posted by: chiwawa626
🙂 Cute family

jsut tell them to smile a bit more😉

My wife's twin is a photographer, there's eleventy-billion pictures of them.. At some point they learned the picture was going to be taken regardless so they just stopped.

 

[remagavon]

Bad Command or File Name:

8, 4, 5, 1, three children?

[A]bort/[R]etry/[F]ail?

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: remagavon
Bad Command or File Name:

8, 4, 5, 1, three children?

[A]bort/[R]etry/[F]ail?

:LOOP
Ren "4, 5," "4.5,"
If Errolevel=0 (Exit) Else (Goto :LOOP)

 

[Dissipate]

Three kids on one income? Indeed, that would suck.

 

[Lola]

That is wonderful that you realize the good and the not so good in your life and relationship.
Best wishes to you!

 

[marmasatt]

I'm happy for you. Anyone that appreciative and happy about it to randomly post about it gets a :beer: :thumbsup:. Come to think of it, I feel the same. Two girls, maybe one more, one income, great wifey.....Cheers.

 

[remagavon]

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: remagavon
Bad Command or File Name:

8, 4, 5, 1, three children?

[A]bort/[R]etry/[F]ail?

:LOOP
Ren "4, 5," "4.5,"
If Errolevel=0 (Exit) Else (Goto :LOOP)

:beer:😀

As an aside, it is great to hear someone around here actually appreciate what they have in life. We need more people to be positive. I'm happy for you. 🙂

 

[ultimatebob]

Keep up the good work, but make sure to put her lazy ass to work once all those kids are in school 🙂

 

[fireontheway]

I wish you and you family the best of luck.( i am in the same boat)