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Married friend just found out his mistress is pregnant

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Dari said:
I wish. I don't watch law and order or any television except on Sundays (football and 60 minutes). People keep bringing up this law and order but I have no idea what it is. Honestly. The Californian story is interesting though. I have no interest in getting my engineer friend in trouble over a dirty slut. And I won't subject my friend to any legal mess. One idea was to deport her but I just found out she is Puerto Rican, not Brazilian. So it is a different woman. Now I have to think of a new scheme. You guys are not helping with your moral criticism. We can deal with morals later. Right now a good man is being held hostage by a slut but all I here is jeers...
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If he was a good man he would have;

  1. Not had an affair
  2. Used contraception
  3. Taken responsibility for his actions
  4. Come clean to his wife.

As it is he sounds like a whiny child thats caught stealing cookies and wants to blame anyone apart from himself.
 
WelshBloke said:
Its not so much there are trolls its that there are hateful trolls.

I kinda like the entertaining trolls the race baiting, women hating ones not so much. D:
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True, but any more it's just played out and trite. Why the mods let this shit happen constantly, even to go as far as to remove posts that derail obvious troll threads in order to let the trolling continue really makes no sense. I scarcely believe there are any members here who aren't trolls or returning banned members at this point.
 
Platypus said:
True, but any more it's just played out and trite. Why the mods let this shit happen constantly, even to go as far as to remove posts that derail obvious troll threads in order to let the trolling continue really makes no sense. I scarcely believe there are any members here who aren't trolls or returning banned members at this point.
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You're right but on the plus point it shows us what a whiny child the OP is.
 
Dari said:
I didn't know Brazilians were Americans😱
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Thanks for paying attention. I misread the post I quoted (read "cannot" as "can")... Puerto Ricans are US Citizens, which after clarification of what I misread I assumed you understood. But I'm guessing by the general nature of this reply you're either stupid or ... stupid. I'm going with the former.
 
SunnyD said:
Thanks for paying attention. I misread the post I quoted (read "cannot" as "can")... Puerto Ricans are US Citizens, which after clarification of what I misread I assumed you understood. But I'm guessing by the general nature of this reply you're either stupid or ... stupid. I'm going with the former.
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i think you got it...

WelshBloke said:
If he was a good man he would have;

  1. Not had an affair
  2. Used contraception
  3. Taken responsibility for his actions
  4. Come clean to his wife.

As it is he sounds like a whiny child thats caught stealing cookies and wants to blame anyone apart from himself.
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add in they are trying to figure out how to cause an abortion. they tried to get her deported.

both are steaming piles of shit.
 
jagec said:
Oh, I don't know about THAT. She could have picked Dari.

If she didn't already. I'm always suspicious of threads that begin with "So, a friend of mine..."
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I doubt there's any significant difference between the two, if any, so I'll stand behind my statement.
 
Dari said:
I wish. I don't watch law and order or any television except on Sundays (football and 60 minutes). People keep bringing up this law and order but I have no idea what it is. Honestly. The Californian story is interesting though. I have no interest in getting my engineer friend in trouble over a dirty slut. And I won't subject my friend to any legal mess. One idea was to deport her but I just found out she is Puerto Rican, not Brazilian. So it is a different woman. Now I have to think of a new scheme. You guys are not helping with your moral criticism. We can deal with morals later. Right now a good man is being held hostage by a slut but all I here is jeers...
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your "good man" of a friend cheats on spouse, knocks-up mistress....and now she is the "dirty slut."

what the holy fuck are you on about? You and your friend are pathetic creatures. t'would be best if you were both deported, if that is possible.
 
SunnyD said:
Thanks for paying attention. I misread the post I quoted (read "cannot" as "can")... Puerto Ricans are US Citizens, which after clarification of what I misread I assumed you understood. But I'm guessing by the general nature of this reply you're either stupid or ... stupid. I'm going with the former.
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Well technically you are right as they do live in south america. 😉
 
Arkitech said:
what?

so she should just destroy a child she wants to keep because the guy does'nt want the complications? and why should she raise the kid on her own? did she create the kid on her own?
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does the women have or not have more say in abortion than the man. answer that question. since she has the power, she has the responsibility. stop trying to pretend its all the same
 
0roo0roo said:
does the women have or not have more say in abortion than the man. answer that question. since she has the power, she has the responsibility. stop trying to pretend its all the same
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Yes, they have more power. IT'S THEIR BODY! You can't force someone to do a medical procedure. If you want that to happen, go to China.
 
SunnyD said:
Thanks for paying attention. I misread the post I quoted (read "cannot" as "can")... Puerto Ricans are US Citizens, which after clarification of what I misread I assumed you understood. But I'm guessing by the general nature of this reply you're either stupid or ... stupid. I'm going with the former.
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You edited your post right before I quoted. Don't act so frustrated.
 
First of all, what's with the double standard? If she's a "slut," then he's a manwhore scumbag slut. :colbert: At worst, they were both equally promiscuous, but as far as we know he was her only partner and he was MORE promiscuous.

Second, it's truly ignorant to assume that believing a fetus has a right to life is purely religious. Dismissing her choice purely because she is not committed to her religion in sexual matters is irrelevant. I believe a fetus should be a protected human life with absolutely no religious reasoning. I believe it should be a protected human life from conception in most circumstances because birth is an entirely arbitrary point in development to distinguish that. Religious people including Christians have abortions all the time and have beliefs that fall on both sides of the issue. Where does the Bible even talk about that? So, let's say that an atheist believes abortion is wrong for the same reasons murder is wrong and then has premarital or adulterous sex and refuses to have an abortion. Are you still going to flip out about this person's "religious" views? THESE ARE TWO SEPARATE ISSUES!

Third, all of you calling her a "scumbag gold-digger" have no idea how it was that she might be ruining his life and just assume that to be the case. It sounds FAR more likely to me that having the baby means his wife would find out and he will lose half of everything in a divorce. As far as you/I/we know, she has no intentions of having him pay for anything and is doing this for all the right reasons.

Oh, and it looks like something came of this:
http://forums.anandtech.com/showthread.php?t=2287958
 
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What a fucking dirtbag. I hope she calls her pimp and blackmail the shit outta your friend to the point of him losing everything. EVERYTHING.
 
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