Originally posted by: maluckey
I feel for the man, but disagree with his assumptions, and those of the common perception that people don't talk about painful wartime memories. My old man, who spent three tours of duty in Vietnam (all in First Cav) one tour as a grunt, and the next two as Air Cav, put it this way. "Bad war experiences are like losing a parent, wife or child. You can either let it ruin your life, or deal with it move on and start anew".
Various members of my family, and the community (I grew up for a while on an Army base) also had bad/painful combat experiences. They for the most part talk about it if asked. They have just moved on and it's not the most important thing in their life anymore. They have dealt with the emotions, and put it to rest. If you asked them, they would tell you whatever you wanted to know
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For some yes, For most no, When you have no legs and arms, When you have no eyes and you scare people that look at you, When you have to spend the rest of your life locked in a VA home, When your hole life has changed and you live in pain from the time you get up till you go to bed and all you have wanted since you were 18 was a fast painless death, When you would give all the money you have just to get up and walk out and nobody would even look at you, It is NO, Them are my friends