thx guys, i really reall apprieciate it. my grannie was a strong woman, she got real sick about 3 weeks ago and was rushed to the hospital not expected to make it to the next day. i knew her health was gonna get worse before it got better. we thought we were gonna lose her on thanksgiving day, she made it through and since then, she has been pretty good, talking, even answering the phone and off her support. well 2 days ago s he started throwing up and the same stomach problem got her again. i saw her friday night but she didnt wanna see anyone, i went in there and told her that i was atleast here and loved her, she said she said "i love you angel"
the doctors, well i dont know much about hospitals but to me it seems her doctor only cared enough to get by. he always came in late in the night for a few minutes i assume to dodge talking to the family. they NEVER foudn a legitimate cause or problem to her, alth ough she has had a history of blood clots and other stuff but for 3 weeks they just told us she has something in her stomach wrong. we were very patient with them even when they pretty much just lost interests in her about 2 weeks ago.
the doctor that was there last night came to us(all the family i just got there) and said "she is a very sick woman, what is her medical history
im not blaming the doctors or any nurses for her death but wtf??? why are you on call with her if you dont know her history. exactly a minute after that he went and checked on her and came back and said she has passed.
now i know im from arkansas, etc, etc but down here ALL of my family are very close, we do everything together and there are alot of us.
my grannie started a tradition with all her kids names start with a D. we have her 5 kids, debbie(my mom), darla, denise, david, dennis. now all the grandkid- me, daniel(bro), daylon,deanne, dustin, danielle, destiny, devon, daily, dalayna, dana, dalton, and maybe a few more but i cant think to good right now.
we all loved my grannie, she kept us in line and will now be in my heart helping me make right decisions because she always knew what was right.
now one of my uncles, uncle dennis is an alcoholic and has put the family through tons of stuff. i heard last night after she died, we went in and saw her, he kissed her and said "ill see you soon"
i dont know what to think of that other than bad news, he doesnt have really anything to live for(in his eyes atleast) and still lives at home on and off.
my grannie and papa were married 50+ years. that was the first time i ever saw my papa cry last night.
I LOVE YOU GRANNIE:heart:
we still dont know much about my friend but we are thinking it was an accident, i havent talked to his parents yet but his gf's birthday was yesterday too, that has to be hard on her.
much love AT
im sorry to keep it so long, its a small vent from my clustered mind right now.