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Mama's boy=Girls worst nightmare?

girls like mama's boys that act like assholes. guy that shows them a nice time, but takes control.
 
Because they are wussy, generally really whiny, cave in on demand (which is a plus to the manipulative ones), and lack even the tiniest bit of machismo to make them appealing to most women.

On the opposite spectrum there are women-abusing, gutless a-hole morons, but strangely enough they get more women (the ones with no self-esteem).

The best recipe for snagging high-quality arm candy is a healthy amount of cojones with a side of sensitivity and maybe a dash of hopeless romantic.
 
I spend a lot of time with my mom; however, I don't believe it's what constitutes a "mama's boy". I believe the perceived social incongruence of being a "mama's boy" is that of dependence. One who can't make a decision w/o first calling "mama" would be considered a "mama's boy", for instance.

I talk w/ my mom about a lot of things simply because I like her input. Most women I've known thought it was nice that I spent time w/ my mom...

Who really cares.
 
Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0
Because they are wussy, generally really whiny, cave in on demand (which is a plus to the manipulative ones), and lack even the tiniest bit of machismo to make them appealing to most women.

On the opposite spectrum there are women-abusing, gutless a-hole morons, but strangely enough they get more women (the ones with no self-esteem).

The best recipe for snagging high-quality arm candy is a healthy amount of cojones with a side of sensitivity and maybe a dash of hopeless romantic.
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of all the guys i know the one that got the most exuded confidence and had winnie the pooh sheets. sounds like the formula works.
 
Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0
Because they are wussy, generally really whiny, cave in on demand (which is a plus to the manipulative ones), and lack even the tiniest bit of machismo to make them appealing to most women.

On the opposite spectrum there are women-abusing, gutless a-hole morons, but strangely enough they get more women (the ones with no self-esteem).

The best recipe for snagging high-quality arm candy is a healthy amount of cojones with a side of sensitivity and maybe a dash of hopeless romantic.
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Listen to this man! That's how I snagged my wife! 🙂 Good women want a confident man with good self esteem, a sensitive side and who is into giving them a little romance.
 
Originally posted by: Ime
Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0
Because they are wussy, generally really whiny, cave in on demand (which is a plus to the manipulative ones), and lack even the tiniest bit of machismo to make them appealing to most women.

On the opposite spectrum there are women-abusing, gutless a-hole morons, but strangely enough they get more women (the ones with no self-esteem).

The best recipe for snagging high-quality arm candy is a healthy amount of cojones with a side of sensitivity and maybe a dash of hopeless romantic.
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Listen to this man! That's how I snagged my wife! 🙂 Good women want a confident man with good self esteem, a sensitive side and who is into giving them a little romance.
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I'm telling you, it works. I seriously have a waiting list of potential girlfriends, and all my "girl friends" wanted to hook me up with their best friends as soon as I became single a couple weeks ago. 😀
 
I'd rather a mama's boy than some jerk who talks crap about his Mother.One thing I got advised of when I started dating was that a guy who had no respect or liking for his own mother would treat a woman like dirt,that piece of advice has never been proven wrong in my experience.
 
<-- momma's boy. You can't get away from it if your mom is the loving type and you don't want to hurt her feelings by yelling at her to stop nagging, etc. My fiance makes fun of me all the time about it, but she likes me just the same. I don't think it was a factor at all when we hooked up.
 
'd rather a mama's boy than some jerk who talks crap about his Mother.One thing I got advised of when I started dating was that a guy who had no respect or liking for his own mother would treat a woman like dirt,that piece of advice has never been proven wrong in my experience.
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I rather dislike my mom. I treat my girlfriend very well.
 
sometimes a mama's boy's mama doesn't think any girl is good enough for her boy so consequently they turn into bitchy mother in laws.
 
Originally posted by: baffled2
I'd rather a mama's boy than some jerk who talks crap about his Mother.One thing I got advised of when I started dating was that a guy who had no respect or liking for his own mother would treat a woman like dirt,that piece of advice has never been proven wrong in my experience.
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Baffled speaks the truth. Mr Isla has had a lot of repressed anger and resentment towards his mom (and for good reason) and it has taken a lot of marital counseling for us to keep it together. If I even breathed in a way that remotely reminded him of his mother, he'd go ballistic on me. And of course I had no self esteem so it took a while for me to learn to stand up for myself, but I finally did. 🙂

Now I tell my girls that they should look for someone who has a good (but not stifling) relationship with his mother, and I am trying to raise my son to be the kind of guy who would make a good husband.

Hard work, this thing called Life.
 
Originally posted by: Deeko
'd rather a mama's boy than some jerk who talks crap about his Mother.One thing I got advised of when I started dating was that a guy who had no respect or liking for his own mother would treat a woman like dirt,that piece of advice has never been proven wrong in my experience.
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I rather dislike my mom. I treat my girlfriend very well.
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'Rather Dislike' is probably not a big deal. "Despise" and "Resent Deeply" would be a problem.

And I chose not to see the warning signs... some people are VERY good at hiding their family problems. My in-laws are masters at looking like "The Perfect Family" 😛

 
My mom always told me, watch how a man treats his mother, because he'll likely treat you in a similar manner. However, if a guy is so wrapped up in his mom (definition of a mama's boy), a girl gets the impression that there's no way she'll ever be more important to him than his mother, that every conflict the gf and mother get in, the mother will win.
 
'Rather Dislike' is probably not a big deal. "Despise" and "Resent Deeply" would be a problem.
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Oh I'm only 18, if my mom keeps getting bitchier by the day like she is now, I'm sure it will progress to that. But I don't equate that with how I treat my girl...I treat her like the princess she is.
 
Originally posted by: spp
how about daddy's little girl?? :Q
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Every g/f I've had except my last one has been a "daddy's girl" and I find I get along a LOT better with them, because they're not nearly as fragile or clingy as momma's girls (IMO). My last g/f was waaaaaaay to dependent on her mother and being with her was like holding together a cracked faberge egg. Too much trouble.

However, my current g/f is also a momma's girl but a lot more independent due to a good upbringing.
 
Originally posted by: baffled2
I'd rather a mama's boy than some jerk who talks crap about his Mother.One thing I got advised of when I started dating was that a guy who had no respect or liking for his own mother would treat a woman like dirt,that piece of advice has never been proven wrong in my experience.
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I love my mother, but I don't like my mother. Our viewpoints are 180 degrees from each other and the only trait we have in common is stubbornness. I do not, however, believe that I treat women poorly in any way, and certainly not "like dirt".
 
Being a moma's boy SOMETIMES makes guy's soft. Try calling Eddie George soft though, having no father his whole life has made him a total moma's boy, but he's a complete hard ass. He's been in the military and now plays one of the most physically demanding and painfull sports in the world for a living. It all comes down down how much confidence you exude(have). Some(stupid) chicks see Billy bad ass with his care free attitude, blatant disrespect and belittling of others as confidence. In reality Billy is a lazy asshole who is easily intimidated by other males. Unfortunately ALOT of young girls are not smart enough to see this in a guy right off the bat. Moma's boy's tend to gain confidence with age. It may not seem like it at an early age, but a moma's boy with good morals is far better off as a person than the guy's getting all the ditzy chicks, IF, that moma's boy learns how to take things into his own hands. We are living in really odd times though. Guy's who just want a peice of a** get what they want these day's, and guy's who want something deaper and meaningful get the shaft. Everytime I hear a chick b*tch about how guy's are horn dog's I want to slap her(I'd never hit a girl), there are just as many chicks out there that think just like billy.

Bottom line, the chicks you see these guy's getting are the girl's you want to stay away from.
 
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