Do they refract through or reflect off of massive objects?
Neither. Gravity is essentially the "dimple" made in the fabric of space/time. All matter creates a dimple, and the more massive an object, the deeper the dimple. This dimple is why smaller objects orbit around larger objects in space. We've not found a process that can reflect or refract gravity.
Einstein predicted that the fabric of space-time should act like a fluid, and with a big enough disturbance, you would see ripples in that fluid (like throwing a rock in a pond). The fabric of space-time is very rigid and difficult to manipulate though, so it would take VERY massive objects to make a detectable signal. There's nothing more massive than black holes, so they became the first target to test. In theory, all matter should make gravitational waves to some degree, but the signal from these waves would be much to faint to detect. As we refine the technology, we may be able to see waves from smaller sources. These signals can be used in a similar way that submarines use sonar, meaning we've just gained a brand new sense to study distant objects. It's sort of like being able to see, touch, and taste something, but suddenly you grew ears and are now able to hear it.