I know how you feel, so many lame asses in online football games last year it was very sad. Like someone would run with the quarterback everytime, in at least every other game you played, which used to be unstopabble.
I've been very impressed with Madden 2k6 online so far though, you might wanna give the PS2 version a try. I thought it would be the same ole' crap all over again, but everyone plays fair and it's not easy to cheat via PS2 online. Played about 30 games of online madden 2k6, all but a couple of games were totally sim football games, people play how they should, I can't believe it. Get a lot of quitters still, but that's to be expected. I've been having a great time playing, even though i lose most of the time, at least people play real football on there.
I agree that it's also stupid to have stats in most online games. No one will play unranked games either, it's pretty funny.
Also with the PS2 version (maybe they have this on PC as well) they have a feature called "fair play" when you make a game online, which forces people to play sim football, and not be able to go for it on 4th down everytime.