This is the last time I allow a FHA loan to purchase my house. Next time they'll need at least 10% down."
House is collateral for loan.
Lender is probably conservatively looking at what the house may be worth down the road, and is adding in "equity" (e.g. will only lend for 80% or less of anticipated value of home down the road) so if borrower defaults, they can hopefully at least break even after all transaction costs and liquidation of home.
EDIT: what did your realtor think about purchase price? Was it wow you got a great price, that was a fair price, or the buyer is getting a great deal?
More importantly, what does that person think you would have to drop price to get a quick sale? Do you have another home lined up to purchase, and what type of value does it represent? (are you basically trading up where both properties may be % discounted from fair market value)
And have you lived in current house for at least 2 years so all proceeds from sale won't be subject to federal income tax?
Take the emotion out of it and just view it as a pool of capital to be redeployed? What is my rate of return and carrying costs of holding property till fall selling season? Is property I currently have lined up for purchase and mortgage terms I got represent really good value?
How much is current buyer's lender willing to let him borrow? If he comes up with some more downpayment, and you come down in price slightly, will lender accept that? Or is borrower bundling 3 - 6% of closing costs into loan amount? If so, perhaps, you can offer closing cost assistance instead so loan amount goes down and perhaps overall ratios become acceptable to bank? (don't make this an open ended I'll pay all closing cost because that may just tempt lender to really pad closing costs to maximize their profit; ask your realtor what fair amount of maximum closing cost assistance is)
And if after rejigging everything (seller brings up bid, you essentially drop price, either overtly or via paying for closing costs), you are very close to amount lender will lend, what is commission your realtor and buyer's realtor were expecting? If full 6 %, perhaps, they could each cut their 3% cut to 2% to make deal work for everyone?
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