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Darkstar757

Darkstar757

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Ok Here is the quick and dirty version of what is going on.


My ex girlfirend in High School cheated on me with this other guy. She then later said sorry in college but then I called her a B*&^%. She was so mad at me she didnt talk to me for along time. Now that im out of school and working I cant seem to stop thinking about this girl. Its been like 5 years and im still not over her. I wrote her a email yesterday and she wrote back. Should I continue to persue this woman? I have no idea if she has changed at all. I dont want to have my heart brokern again but, I still love her and I havent gotten over her. I need some help here :brokenheart:
 
Where does she live in regards to you? How do you know she isn't married already?

Firstly I'd like to say that you need some professional help or a book at the least. 5 years and still not over her. Man oh man.

But secondly I'd like to say that if she is local to you (if not refer to my second line) go for it. Maybe you'll marry her afterall.
 
i dont know why, but this reminded of the movie 'clerks' oh wait, yes i kno why now, lol, its the same relationship plot line IN clerks!

advice (taken from the movie), let the past be the past.
 
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Where does she live in regards to you? How do you know she isn't married already?

Firstly I'd like to say that you need some professional help or a book at the least. 5 years and still not over her. Man oh man.

But secondly I'd like to say that if she is local to you (if not refer to my second line) go for it. Maybe you'll marry her afterall.
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Well that the problem she is in Law school in Chicago and im living in TN now. I sometime think mayber i do need some help. But I have never met another girl who made me feel the way she did. I mean it felt like she completed me.
 
Find someone better and move on. 🙂 there are lots more fishes out there. If you cant fine any chances are you're not looking hard enough.


--Scsi
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Where does she live in regards to you? How do you know she isn't married already?

Firstly I'd like to say that you need some professional help or a book at the least. 5 years and still not over her. Man oh man.

But secondly I'd like to say that if she is local to you (if not refer to my second line) go for it. Maybe you'll marry her afterall.
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Well that the problem she is in Law school in Chicago and im living in TN now. I sometime think mayber i do need some help. But I have never met another girl who made me feel the way she did. I mean it felt like she completed me.
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Law school? Run.
 
Well that the problem she is in Law school in Chicago and im living in TN now. I sometime think mayber i do need some help. But I have never met another girl who made me feel the way she did. I mean it felt like she completed me.
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Hmm...well first you have to realize that unless you're on a movie set you don't have a future together. The reason she seemed so good is that over the past HALF DECADE. 1800 freaking days for the love of GOD, you've convinced yourself that your relationship with her was perfect. Maybe you have a picture from then. Well she is fatter now. She was just another girl - perhaps your first. Grass is greener on the other side. Remember those 7 words and pound them into your skull! Buy a book on getting over girls or something.
 
it worked for the dude on Something About Mary 🙂 (the love of his life for years before he pursued it)

Give it a shot.
 
I think you should get over her. I don't see how you can believe you still love her. Perhaps you are just nostalgic.
 
Originally posted by: nitsuj3580
it worked for the dude on Something About Mary 🙂 (the love of his life for years before he pursued it)

Give it a shot.
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That was a MOVIE. Like I said unless he lives in a movie it's not gonna happen. The live in seperate areas of the country for pete's sake. She probably rarely thinks of him at all because it's been five fuggin years.
 
No I dont feel like I love her. But she was the only girl that was on my level mentally and physically.


I just dont know what to do.
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
No I dont feel like I love her. But she was the only girl that was on my level mentally and physically.


I just dont know what to do.
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Cheating on me isn't something that is mentally on my level. I don't know about you...
 
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Originally posted by: nitsuj3580
it worked for the dude on Something About Mary 🙂 (the love of his life for years before he pursued it)

Give it a shot.
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That was a MOVIE. Like I said unless he lives in a movie it's not gonna happen. The live in seperate areas of the country for pete's sake. She probably rarely thinks of him at all because it's been five fuggin years.
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Listen to the smart man.

Go find someone else. A girl who cheats on you isn't one you want around.

- M4H
 
yea i know that what makes it so wierd for me. I dont know why im stuck on this girl. ive dated many women and NONE of the stuck with me like her. I MEAN none
 
Well damn go ahead an email her and tell her everything. Either she'll be like "Wow I'm the same way" or "Stalker don't email me again", in which case you get closure, right? You need to move on with your life one way or the other.
 
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