lol, I had a strange dream today.

[shud]

Originally posted by: jEct2
In the dream, I woke up to my friend touching me sexually and doing sexual acts. At first I was like WTF & Nooo simuntaneously as I'm not personally attracted to her in real life.

But like any guys, I went along with it eventually.

I just found it hilarious.

We are truly the weaker sex.

 

[Quixfire]

Originally posted by: HamSupLo
a wet dream?

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: PingSpike
So basically what your saying is "a mouth is a mouth"?

Lol, or a hand is a hand. But I'm not sure if that's true. What would you say?

Whether its because of social norms/conditioning or that I just really that not-into-the-dudes I cannot say with absolute certainly, but I find the idea of a dude sucking away down there almost as undesirable as the idea of doing the sucking. Its not that I find men repulsive. If a guy is good looking, I'll say so. And a guy with a good body is sort of a source of envy. But I look upon them the same way I would admire a horse or a tiger...which is entirely different from the way I look at women. There's less gawking and tent pitching with the horse mainly. And I wouldn't let a horse or a guy go to town on me.

Alcohol might make me more receptive to doing fat/ugly chicks, and certainly allowing them to do things to me...but thats not because I would have found the whole situation entirely undesirable, I am in fact a shameless horndog with relatively slack standards...its more like I "forgot" I was going to get teased incessently by others or the girl might turn out to be a nutjob. The desire was there...its just the reasons that overcome previously it became "blurry".

I would think any guy that let another guy go down on him had that desire in the first place, whether he admits it to himself or not. Not that I personally find anything wrong with it, I think my position as being a big proponent of gay rights is fairly clear. I'm just saying...if the guy said "whoa I was so drunk that I turned gay a little" is most likely full of it.

But from a strickly logical standpoint a mouth is in fact a mouth and you could argue with validity that if you close your eyes and tell him to shut up its just as good as a girl down there. Although, I would tend to disagree.

 

[GasX]

Since when is a guy having a sexual dream about a female acquintance a wierd thing?

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: PingSpike
So basically what your saying is "a mouth is a mouth"?

Lol, or a hand is a hand. But I'm not sure if that's true. What would you say?

Whether its because of social norms/conditioning or that I just really that not-into-the-dudes I cannot say with absolute certainly, but I find the idea of a dude sucking away down there almost as undesirable as the idea of doing the sucking. Its not that I find men repulsive. If a guy is good looking, I'll say so. And a guy with a good body is sort of a source of envy. But I look upon them the same way I would admire a horse or a tiger...which is entirely different from the way I look at women. There's less gawking and tent pitching with the horse mainly. And I wouldn't let a horse or a guy go to town on me.

Alcohol might make me more receptive to doing fat/ugly chicks, and certainly allowing them to do things to me...but thats not because I would have found the whole situation entirely undesirable, I am in fact a shameless horndog with relatively slack standards...its more like I "forgot" I was going to get teased incessently by others or the girl might turn out to be a nutjob. The desire was there...its just the reasons that overcome previously it became "blurry".

I would think any guy that let another guy go down on him had that desire in the first place, whether he admits it to himself or not. Not that I personally find anything wrong with it, I think my position as being a big proponent of gay rights is fairly clear. I'm just saying...if the guy said "whoa I was so drunk that I turned gay a little" is most likely full of it.

But from a strickly logical standpoint a mouth is in fact a mouth and you could argue with validity that if you close your eyes and tell him to shut up its just as good as a girl down there. Although, I would tend to disagree.

If I were drunk enough, and knew it would just be for fun, I doubt I would have a big problem with it. In fact it might be fun.
The question is, with the amount of alcohol I ingested, and the fact that I don't find girls attractive, would I be able to maintain anything anyway. More than likely not.

 

[Waylay00]

Originally posted by: Jnetty99
pics :camera:

Lol something about that made me laugh out loud literally. THe only thing people want on ATOT is pics.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
If I were drunk enough, and knew it would just be for fun, I doubt I would have a big problem with it. In fact it might be fun.
The question is, with the amount of alcohol I ingested, and the fact that I don't find girls attractive, would I be able to maintain anything anyway. More than likely not.

Why would you have to be drunk if you wouldn't have a problem with it? Take alcohol out of the equation.

The dynamics are sort of different because we're in different positions I think. There's of course societal pressures for men to be heterosexual, I suspect you would know this much better than I. I'd be swimming against the current and you'd just be sitting there and letting the current take you, if only for a moment.

Its hard to say whether my own feelings are a product of self reflection or my bending to the whims of social norms. But I consider myself a pretty introspective person that has a pretty good grasp on why I feel the way I do about things, so I believe its the former. Of course I'm bias since I also consider myself smarter most people...but what can I say I'm a conceited ass.

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

Originally posted by: Waylay00

Originally posted by: Jnetty99
pics :camera:

Lol something about that made me laugh out loud literally. THe only thing people want on ATOT is pics.

haha...didn't think of it like that...is he going to take pics of his dream?

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
If I were drunk enough, and knew it would just be for fun, I doubt I would have a big problem with it. In fact it might be fun.
The question is, with the amount of alcohol I ingested, and the fact that I don't find girls attractive, would I be able to maintain anything anyway. More than likely not.

Why would you have to be drunk if you wouldn't have a problem with it? Take alcohol out of the equation.

The dynamics are sort of different because we're in different positions I think. There's of course societal pressures for men to be heterosexual, I suspect you would know this much better than I. I'd be swimming against the current and you'd just be sitting there and letting the current take you, if only for a moment.

Its hard to say whether my own feelings are a product of self reflection or my bending to the whims of social norms. But I consider myself a pretty introspective person that has a pretty good grasp on why I feel the way I do about things, so I believe its the former. Of course I'm bias since I also consider myself smarter most people...but what can I say I'm a conceited ass.

If I took alcohol out of the equation, I wouldn't consider it. It's not something that is attractive to me. In other words, I could, but I wouldn't. I find that when I drink I will do things that I would normally not. But like you said, the social consequences wouldn't be as bad for me as they would for you. That's a factor my situation would be lacking...so it's easier for me to give in.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: walla
i had a strange dream today. but it was about a goat named ronald. he smelled like ovaltine.

are you sure his name wasn't Ralphie?