weird how did you get a picture of him and your girl... lol
your g/f was making out with him... and your pissed at him? the guy would be any of us.. just hitting on a girl. It's the girls call to tell him to back off... i got a bf etc. and if he still puts the moves on her. Proceed to kick his ass.
your g/f was making out with him... and your pissed at him? the guy would be any of us.. just hitting on a girl. It's the girls call to tell him to back off... i got a bf etc. and if he still puts the moves on her. Proceed to kick his ass.
OutHouse
Lifer
- Jun 5, 2000
- 36,410
- 616
- 126
dude you are getting played hard. She wants him to come over, if she didnt he wouldnt be there.
The "just friends" thing is nothing but a lie. he is giving her the tube steak dude.
Why dont you mention that you are having a girl come over to help you study or something to her. Tell her somebody she might know and see how reacts.
The "just friends" thing is nothing but a lie. he is giving her the tube steak dude.
Why dont you mention that you are having a girl come over to help you study or something to her. Tell her somebody she might know and see how reacts.
Ok, here is how you remedy your problem.
1) Post his cell number here on ATOT.
2) Stick your girl 1 last time and right after tell her that it is over, and you were just horny and she is a trampy biach.
3) Go to the next party and pick up a new piece of aiss.
Problem solved.
1) Post his cell number here on ATOT.
2) Stick your girl 1 last time and right after tell her that it is over, and you were just horny and she is a trampy biach.
3) Go to the next party and pick up a new piece of aiss.
Problem solved.
In all seriousness, you need to put that girl on the back burner and find yourself someone new.
As for the guy, screw him. Let him have her. She'll mess around on him eventually too, and then you can have the last laugh.
See, what she's doing right now is having fun with the fact that you're jealous. She's feeding her already inflated ego. She thinks shes hot sh!t right now, and she can keep getting away with it. You throwing it in her face that shes quite replacable will not only bring her back down to earth, it will also send a message to other women that you are a real man who will not be walked all over. Women like that -- its the whole alpha male thing.
Right now you're putting her on a pedestal, ignoring all the other beautiful young women just waiting for you if you'd get over the fact that this girl doesn't care about you, possibly never will, and definately only will long after you walk right out of her life and find someone new. You've got one-itis. You're afraid that if you walk away from her you'll look like a pansy to this other guy and to other women.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
What you need to get implanted in that high school aged brain of yours while it's still receptive to change is that you need to be willing to walk at the first sign of trouble. Think of the dating game like poker. The point of poker isn't to win, its to maximize profits and minimize losses. SAME WITH DATING. The guys who make the most money CONSISTANTLY, only go all-in on a sure bet. You've got to learn to get enjoyment out of the losses by knowing, not thinking, but KNOWING you will come out on top in the end.
When people say that theres 'a million fish in the sea' thats not just useless rhetoric. Thats hundreds of thousands of years of experience summed up in a nice little sentence. It's the truth. There are other girls, and while she's hot, if you were able to hook up with her you should be more than capable of hooking up with someone not only as good looking or better than her, but with a good personality too. She knows this. You know this. Why play along with her game? A real man wouldn't stress her or her thugged out other boyfriend. A real man would take control of the situation, walk away, and find another girl.
I don't know if you play poker at all, but maybe this analogy will help. This girl is like the pot in the middle after everyone else has folded, and you and this guy are the only players left.
Her thugged out boyfriend is the guy across the table betting an abnormally large sum on a small pot. You have to think like a pro and realize while it would be nice to win that pot, chances are he's already won and while you may have called his bet up until now, the small amount of money in that pot isn't worth what you could lose if you continue to play this hand. You have two pair right now. He could have 3 of a kind or anything more than that. You don't know, and it simply IS NOT WORTH IT TO FIND OUT. Cut your losses and wait for a better bet.
As for looking like a pansy, stop stressing that. Right now you look like more of a pansy, at least to other women (which is all that really counts, by the way), by letting her have control of the situation. You're thinking about that one reward, instead of the whole game. That other guy should be the last thing on your mind. If he were really interested in fighting you he would have done it by now, and vice versa.
You're trying to be the alpha male by asserting your control over this girl, but in reality she's the one controlling you - your emotions and your ability to see what's really going on. Be the alpha male by taking the control of your life out of her hands and putting it back where it belongs, in yours.
Eventually you will find someone who won't play stupid games and not only talks about wanting the relationship to work, but acts upon that talk too. Chances are its not going to happen in high school, so get that thought out of your mind and start being realistic.
Tomorrow you should call up some other girls and ask them if they want to hang out, even if you don't have an interest in them romantically. Ideally you should be talking to at least 2 other women all the time (don't advertise it to your main girl but don't hide it either) so you're prepared to move on if something like this happens -- that isn't cheating by the way, as long as its strictly friendly and flirtatious. It keeps your main girl on her toes and makes her value you more by letting her know that you have something to offer that other women want.
I hope you take my advice and do something with it instead of ignoring it and continuing to play yourself. Trust me, while I'm not THAT much older than you, I have learned quite a few things about women since I was in high school, and the most important thing I've learned is that you've got to be willing to walk away. If she really cares about you, she'll be BEGGING for you to come back and she will publicly make an ass out of this other guy, so what do you have to lose?
As for the guy, screw him. Let him have her. She'll mess around on him eventually too, and then you can have the last laugh.
See, what she's doing right now is having fun with the fact that you're jealous. She's feeding her already inflated ego. She thinks shes hot sh!t right now, and she can keep getting away with it. You throwing it in her face that shes quite replacable will not only bring her back down to earth, it will also send a message to other women that you are a real man who will not be walked all over. Women like that -- its the whole alpha male thing.
Right now you're putting her on a pedestal, ignoring all the other beautiful young women just waiting for you if you'd get over the fact that this girl doesn't care about you, possibly never will, and definately only will long after you walk right out of her life and find someone new. You've got one-itis. You're afraid that if you walk away from her you'll look like a pansy to this other guy and to other women.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
What you need to get implanted in that high school aged brain of yours while it's still receptive to change is that you need to be willing to walk at the first sign of trouble. Think of the dating game like poker. The point of poker isn't to win, its to maximize profits and minimize losses. SAME WITH DATING. The guys who make the most money CONSISTANTLY, only go all-in on a sure bet. You've got to learn to get enjoyment out of the losses by knowing, not thinking, but KNOWING you will come out on top in the end.
When people say that theres 'a million fish in the sea' thats not just useless rhetoric. Thats hundreds of thousands of years of experience summed up in a nice little sentence. It's the truth. There are other girls, and while she's hot, if you were able to hook up with her you should be more than capable of hooking up with someone not only as good looking or better than her, but with a good personality too. She knows this. You know this. Why play along with her game? A real man wouldn't stress her or her thugged out other boyfriend. A real man would take control of the situation, walk away, and find another girl.
I don't know if you play poker at all, but maybe this analogy will help. This girl is like the pot in the middle after everyone else has folded, and you and this guy are the only players left.
Her thugged out boyfriend is the guy across the table betting an abnormally large sum on a small pot. You have to think like a pro and realize while it would be nice to win that pot, chances are he's already won and while you may have called his bet up until now, the small amount of money in that pot isn't worth what you could lose if you continue to play this hand. You have two pair right now. He could have 3 of a kind or anything more than that. You don't know, and it simply IS NOT WORTH IT TO FIND OUT. Cut your losses and wait for a better bet.
As for looking like a pansy, stop stressing that. Right now you look like more of a pansy, at least to other women (which is all that really counts, by the way), by letting her have control of the situation. You're thinking about that one reward, instead of the whole game. That other guy should be the last thing on your mind. If he were really interested in fighting you he would have done it by now, and vice versa.
You're trying to be the alpha male by asserting your control over this girl, but in reality she's the one controlling you - your emotions and your ability to see what's really going on. Be the alpha male by taking the control of your life out of her hands and putting it back where it belongs, in yours.
Eventually you will find someone who won't play stupid games and not only talks about wanting the relationship to work, but acts upon that talk too. Chances are its not going to happen in high school, so get that thought out of your mind and start being realistic.
Tomorrow you should call up some other girls and ask them if they want to hang out, even if you don't have an interest in them romantically. Ideally you should be talking to at least 2 other women all the time (don't advertise it to your main girl but don't hide it either) so you're prepared to move on if something like this happens -- that isn't cheating by the way, as long as its strictly friendly and flirtatious. It keeps your main girl on her toes and makes her value you more by letting her know that you have something to offer that other women want.
I hope you take my advice and do something with it instead of ignoring it and continuing to play yourself. Trust me, while I'm not THAT much older than you, I have learned quite a few things about women since I was in high school, and the most important thing I've learned is that you've got to be willing to walk away. If she really cares about you, she'll be BEGGING for you to come back and she will publicly make an ass out of this other guy, so what do you have to lose?
I'm gonna add my voice to the other sixty replies stating the obvious, "You're a dumbass, your girlfriend's going for the guy, too." Deal with her first before taking it out on the guy, he's only taking advantage of the poontang.
BTW, if you want to know why I ranted on this and why I have the advice to give, its because I was just in your situation less than three weeks ago. I trusted my ex to hang out with this girl, they went out, met up with 2 guys and ended up partying back at their house. She ended up making out with the one guy. Her friend told me about it (her friend and I worked together) and that she was at a hockey game with the guy. I called her up 10 minutes later and told her to have fun with her new boyfriend.
The next night I called up a girl who I hadn't seen in a while and we went out and had a blast. We're now seeing each other. Now my ex is all depressed cause she blew a good thing, she calls me and tries to get together to hang out, and it feels fvcking excellent knowing that not only did i not allow her to play me, I let her play herself.
The next night I called up a girl who I hadn't seen in a while and we went out and had a blast. We're now seeing each other. Now my ex is all depressed cause she blew a good thing, she calls me and tries to get together to hang out, and it feels fvcking excellent knowing that not only did i not allow her to play me, I let her play herself.
It's like that old quote by Sacha Guitry. "When a man steals your wife there is no better revenge than to let him keep her."
Highschool romances are SOO temporary anyway. Just move on.
Highschool romances are SOO temporary anyway. Just move on.
MaxDepth
Diamond Member
- Jun 12, 2001
- 8,757
- 43
- 91
This is in high school? 
Oh man, that's when everything is soooooooooooooo important and crucial to every day life. Sorry, it really is hard for me to muster symapathy.
Since it is still grade school, you can do the juvenile thing and call him out. After school, behind the gas station. Be there. Beat his ass and then your chest, aaaooouugaaaa, ooooggoooo, behold the great monkey king! ooo-oooo-ooh! (Just remember, no guns.)
If you cannot kick his ass, then confront her and say "look, I don't mind being jealous of other guys but you gotta draw the line on this guy. " If she gets huffy and or does not comply, then start looking for another prom date. Preferably one of her female friends. The closer the better :evil:
I know you cannot visualize this yet, but she will not be your last girlfriend. College will be your playground, trust me.
Oh man, that's when everything is soooooooooooooo important and crucial to every day life. Sorry, it really is hard for me to muster symapathy.
Since it is still grade school, you can do the juvenile thing and call him out. After school, behind the gas station. Be there. Beat his ass and then your chest, aaaooouugaaaa, ooooggoooo, behold the great monkey king! ooo-oooo-ooh! (Just remember, no guns.)
If you cannot kick his ass, then confront her and say "look, I don't mind being jealous of other guys but you gotta draw the line on this guy. " If she gets huffy and or does not comply, then start looking for another prom date. Preferably one of her female friends. The closer the better :evil:
I know you cannot visualize this yet, but she will not be your last girlfriend. College will be your playground, trust me.
The Stigenator
Lifer
- Oct 9, 1999
- 15,216
- 3
- 81
i didnt read all the replies.. but she is encouraging it....
his conjucal visits are due to her patronising of his arrival, if she puts a stop on it, he will go away.. i bet she hasnt said anything to him yet.
his conjucal visits are due to her patronising of his arrival, if she puts a stop on it, he will go away.. i bet she hasnt said anything to him yet.
It's obvious she wants him coming over. She's playing you like a fool, and your getting so pissed off about it. Your ready to fight him over something little like that. If she wanted him to stop she can easily tell him. She probably likes him also. But anyway she is playing both of you for fools.
If the guy takes martial arts, he's going to put up a damn good fight for the most part, no matter how small he is. And by put up a good fight, I mean you two will either end a draw of he'll kick your ass. I wouldn't underestimate anyone who has been taught how to fight.
Now just focusing on size (I know, a little contradictory of me), but you're bigger than him and you're being a pussy. If you can only whine on AT while the guy is getting some of your girl's booty while you're going out with her, you might as well just hand her over to him right now.
Now just focusing on size (I know, a little contradictory of me), but you're bigger than him and you're being a pussy. If you can only whine on AT while the guy is getting some of your girl's booty while you're going out with her, you might as well just hand her over to him right now.
I found a theme song for you:
:music: Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date
But a year to make love she wanted you to wait
Let me tell ya a story of my situation
I was talkin' to this girl from the U.S. nation
The way that I met her was on tour at a concert
She had long hair and a short miniskirt
I just got onstage drippin', pourin' with sweat
I was walkin' through the crowd and gues who I met
I whispered in her ear, "Come to the picture booth
So I can ask you some questions to see if you are a hundred proof"
I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah
She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra
I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused
I said, "How do you like the show?"
she said, "I was very amused"
I started throwin' bass, she started throwin' back mid-range
But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange
Then when I asked, "Do ya have a man," she tried to pretend
She said, "No I don't, I only have a friend"
Come on, I'm not even goin' for it
This is what I'm goin' sing
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend
So I took blah-blah's word for it at this time
I thought just havin' a friend couldn't be no crime
'Cause I have friends and that's a fact
Like Agnes, Agatha, Germaine, and Jacq
Forget about that, let's go into the story
About a girl named blah-blah-blah that adored me
So we started talkin', getttin' familiar
Spendin' a lot of time so we can build up
A relationship or some undderstanding
How it's gonna be in the future we was plannin'
Everything sounded so dandy and sweet
I had no idea I was in for a treat
After this was established, everything was cool
The tour was over and she went back to school
I called every day to see how she was doin'
Everytime that I ccalled her it seemed somethin' was brewin'
I called her on my dime, picked up, and then I called again
I said, "Yo, who was that?" "Oh, he's just a friend"
Don't gimme that, don't ever gimme that
Jus' bust this
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend
So I came to her college on a surprise visit
To see my girl that was so exquisite
It was a school day, I knew she was there
The first semester of the school year
I went to a gate to ask where was her dorm
This guy made me fill out a visitor's form
He told me where it was and I as on my way
To see my baby doll, I was happy to say
I arrrived in front of the dormitory
Yo, could you tell me where is door three?
They showed me where it was for the moment
I didn't know I was in for such an event
So I came to her room and opened the door
Oh, snap! Guess what I saw?
A fella tongue-kissin' my girl in the mouth,
I was so in shock my heart went down south
So please listen to the message that I say
Don't ever talk to a girl who says she just has a friend
:music:
:music: Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date
But a year to make love she wanted you to wait
Let me tell ya a story of my situation
I was talkin' to this girl from the U.S. nation
The way that I met her was on tour at a concert
She had long hair and a short miniskirt
I just got onstage drippin', pourin' with sweat
I was walkin' through the crowd and gues who I met
I whispered in her ear, "Come to the picture booth
So I can ask you some questions to see if you are a hundred proof"
I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah
She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra
I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused
I said, "How do you like the show?"
she said, "I was very amused"
I started throwin' bass, she started throwin' back mid-range
But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange
Then when I asked, "Do ya have a man," she tried to pretend
She said, "No I don't, I only have a friend"
Come on, I'm not even goin' for it
This is what I'm goin' sing
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend
So I took blah-blah's word for it at this time
I thought just havin' a friend couldn't be no crime
'Cause I have friends and that's a fact
Like Agnes, Agatha, Germaine, and Jacq
Forget about that, let's go into the story
About a girl named blah-blah-blah that adored me
So we started talkin', getttin' familiar
Spendin' a lot of time so we can build up
A relationship or some undderstanding
How it's gonna be in the future we was plannin'
Everything sounded so dandy and sweet
I had no idea I was in for a treat
After this was established, everything was cool
The tour was over and she went back to school
I called every day to see how she was doin'
Everytime that I ccalled her it seemed somethin' was brewin'
I called her on my dime, picked up, and then I called again
I said, "Yo, who was that?" "Oh, he's just a friend"
Don't gimme that, don't ever gimme that
Jus' bust this
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend
So I came to her college on a surprise visit
To see my girl that was so exquisite
It was a school day, I knew she was there
The first semester of the school year
I went to a gate to ask where was her dorm
This guy made me fill out a visitor's form
He told me where it was and I as on my way
To see my baby doll, I was happy to say
I arrrived in front of the dormitory
Yo, could you tell me where is door three?
They showed me where it was for the moment
I didn't know I was in for such an event
So I came to her room and opened the door
Oh, snap! Guess what I saw?
A fella tongue-kissin' my girl in the mouth,
I was so in shock my heart went down south
So please listen to the message that I say
Don't ever talk to a girl who says she just has a friend
:music:
jamautosound
Diamond Member
- Oct 15, 2000
- 6,754
- 0
- 76
Your girlfriend is making out with another guy and you are talking about making his pimping ability look like a joke? You're a moron and deserve whatever you get.
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