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Originally posted by: EmperorIQ
i agree with anyone that says blame your gf. If he doesn't feel that he has a chance why would he keep trying?

i agree...takes two to tango....if "your" girl really wants to make it work between you two, she'd close her options and the "other" guys WILL OBVIOUSLY know...if he doesn't know, unfortunately it's cuz your girl isn't letting it be known....

And that's the truth.
 
Dude, she is smokin hot!!

I'd be playing pimp masta flex to hit that😀:beer:



Edit: You look like a Columbian drug lord.
 
the solution seems fairly obvious. if you can kick his ass i would do it, if not i would let your girlfriend know that it makes you uncomfortable and that you will leave her if she doesnt get rid of the other dude.

but since im sure you thought of this im gonna guess that you arent pushing the issue because you arent really so certain that if given a choice she would pick you.
 
Originally posted by: thetruth21
the solution seems fairly obvious. if you can kick his ass i would do it, if not i would let your girlfriend know that it makes you uncomfortable and that you will leave her if she doesnt get rid of the other dude.

but since im sure you thought of this im gonna guess that you arent pushing the issue because you arent really so certain that if given a choice she would pick you.

But why even stay with such a fake bitch?
 
Originally posted by: rbloedow
Originally posted by: thetruth21
the solution seems fairly obvious. if you can kick his ass i would do it, if not i would let your girlfriend know that it makes you uncomfortable and that you will leave her if she doesnt get rid of the other dude.

but since im sure you thought of this im gonna guess that you arent pushing the issue because you arent really so certain that if given a choice she would pick you.

But why even stay with such a fake bitch?

For ass?? 😀
 
He's a cutie! Sorry man, but you have some competition!

Besides, if it bothers you and she doesn't care, then she's not worth it.

Not to mention you slept around to show her she's expendable? That's so weak. Man, you deserve this.
 
[simpsons quote]
If it does make you feel any better....they're probably doing it right now...
[/simpsons quote]

btw. she looks nice for an asian girl !
 
Originally posted by: MAME
He's a cutie! Sorry man, but you have some competition!

Besides, if it bothers you and she doesn't care, then she's not worth it.

Not to mention you slept around to show her she's expendable? That's so weak. Man, you deserve this.

She treated me like sh!t because she thought I'd always be around. She started treating me like trash, I walked. Thats whats happening right now.
 
Man, if don't play that game. If she's a keeper, then she'll know what to do, you won't have to worry about it. Other than that, get what you can, for as long as you can, and just let it be.

With my gf, I let other guys take her to the mall, shiet, you think I want to walk around for hours? I trust her, as much as I trust myself, cuz she knows, I can very easily do what she won't do, worse.

Oh, btw, my gf adds "pathetic1" to this post.
 
something in addition:

Why do you post your "keep your hands off...." HERE ???????
Sometimes it might work wonders to show some balls and tell that him in real life, and stand up and articulate loud and clear what you want !
Girls like that !

The fact that you complain here (for what bizarre reason ever)..does NOT change anything in your life....and it might also be a hint that you dont have the balls to say it to him in real life ? She might (MIGHT) be all over you seeing you 'fighting' for her....but dont beat 'em up..would achieve the opposite. (Despites i dont know if you'd be able to beat 'em up....)

 
Originally posted by: flexy
something in addition:

Why do you post your "keep your hands off...." HERE ???????
Sometimes it might work wonders to show some balls and tell that him in real life, and stand up and articulate loud and clear what you want !
Girls like that !

The fact that you complain here (for what bizarre reason ever)..does NOT change anything in your life....and it might also be a hint that you dont have the balls to say it to him in real life ? She might (MIGHT) be all over you seeing you 'fighting' for her....but dont beat 'em up..would achieve the opposite. (Despites i dont know if you'd be able to beat 'em up....)

I already told him, I also told him again tonight that I would beat his ass to pulp if he did anything. I needed to vent on here.
 
Originally posted by: HotChic
She needs to put her foot down. The only reason it continues is because she hasn't. If he keeps doing it and she keeps throwing it in his face and complaining to you about it, she's exonerated and he's a tard and you don't need to worry.

HOTCHIC IS A MOD!
 
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: MAME
He's a cutie! Sorry man, but you have some competition!

Besides, if it bothers you and she doesn't care, then she's not worth it.

Not to mention you slept around to show her she's expendable? That's so weak. Man, you deserve this.

She treated me like sh!t because she thought I'd always be around. She started treating me like trash, I walked. Thats whats happening right now.

Then why do you care? She sucks and suck. You guys are just going to make it worse. No one who wants to have a relationship sleeps around to get revenge or to prove a point.

You need to find someone who's more stable.
 
btw....ok...did i get this right ??? (reading again because i didnt trust my eyes 🙂... HE is sending YOUR gf stuff for v-day ???? Ok.......i'd say this is *slightly* (cough) odd......
 
First time I actually clicked the picture link. Hey man... I say dump her. And then introduce her to me. 🙂

I kid...
 
Well, just from what information I can gather from this thread, you seem like the kind of guy who highly values the appearance of "being a man". In those terms, this guy is calling you out. He knows she's you GF and he's planning on sending her stuff for V-day means he's doesn't respect you at all, he thinks you are a chicken-sh!t who won't do anything.

Does that mean you should beat him with a bat? Not at all. But you have to give some thought into the face you present to the world. People will only give you respect if you earn it. The real thing you want here is to make people think you are perfectly willing to snap and beat their skull in, even if you aren't (or maybe especially if you aren't). When it comes down to stuff like this, that's what's important to some people. I have never had to "fight" for any of my former girlfriends like this, and no one that knew we were dating ever made a move. Even though I'm the last person to get in a fight, if people believe you will, that's just as good, if not better.

By the way, I'm kind of stretching things a little bit here, but it's still worth thinking about. Just from your picture I'm not sure I'd put you on my "don't mess with" list or anything. No offense intended, really.
 
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