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RbSX

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Background

Ok well I've been going out with this chick for about 6 months. We broke it off for a little while and while it's off this guy gets this idea that he's all hot sh!t and can have her whenever he wants. Thinking he's the P.I.M.P. gangster he is, he's arrogant, cocky, and thinks he can get play from ANY girl he wants. He started making out with her at the Chinese Family Ball right after we got back together.

Fast forward to now

We got back together about 2 months ago, this guy, who I confronted said that if we started going out again he would leave her alone, he's not. He's going over to her place all the time, and claims that they are just 'friends'. It's blatantly obvious (whether he knows it or not) that he wants his hands down her pants, simply because of his nature. Anyways this valentines day I find out, that he's sending her valentines gifts and stuff.

KEEP YOUR FREAKING HANDS OFF OF MY GIRLFRIEND YOU DAMNED 'TARD! Jesus h. Fvcking Christ!

Edit: After reading some of my comments I'd like to add something. I made a HUGE mistake when we broke up, so did she. We both regret it and have reconciled. I've felt very bad.


 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: zzzz
what does your "girlfriend" say about this?

My 'girlfriend' says that they are just friends. Anyways, we have this mutual trust thing. She has access to my email so she can make sure that chicks aren't sending my overzealous email, and the same thing goes for her email. I find an email mentioning them having sex and keeping it a secret. I'm 99% sure it's joking, but damnit it's annoying.
 

AreaCode707

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She needs to put her foot down. The only reason it continues is because she hasn't. If he keeps doing it and she keeps throwing it in his face and complaining to you about it, she's exonerated and he's a tard and you don't need to worry.
 

stev0

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Originally posted by: PipBoy
doesn't sound like your 'gf' is complaining too much.

step 1) kick his ass
step 2) dump her ass
step 3) get drunk and/or get high
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Feldenak
Sounds like he's not the only willing participant.

Thats what I said.

So you manage to chase off this guy....what about when the next one comes along?

Kick her to the curb.
 

fredtam

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Don't blame him. Its your girlfriend who doesn't have any respect for you. Find a new one. She has figured out that she can keep both of you around. Bad news.

Edit: Given the fact that she was making out with him after you got back together and she has him over all the time I can assure you the sex email was no joke. Seen it. Done it. You will learn.
 

EvilYoda

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and you're all of 16 years old...? When I was that young (all that long time ago ;)), I didn't have the internet to "guide" me in my mistakes. Go live your life, don't ask us what to do with some stupid girl. and sorry, but if you can't spot the fool at the table...
 

bleeb

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Originally posted by: stev0
Originally posted by: PipBoy
doesn't sound like your 'gf' is complaining too much.

step 1) kick his ass
step 2) dump her ass
step 3) get drunk and/or get high

get drunk and/or get high....

YOU FOO. It's not a question of doing either, it's ALL or NONE.
 

theNEOone

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Feldenak
Sounds like he's not the only willing participant.

Thats what I said.
so then what the hell are you still doing with her? either get some ass on the side, or shut the hell up.


=|

 

EXman

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yo yo yo Dawg!

I find an email mentioning them having sex and keeping it a secret. I'm 99% sure it's joking, but damnit it's annoying.

Da Nile isn't just a river in Egypt. :p
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: theNEOone
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Feldenak
Sounds like he's not the only willing participant.

Thats what I said.
so then what the hell are you still doing with her? either get some ass on the side, or shut the hell up.


=|

Oh believe me, I got some ass on the side. She tripped out about it. Got laid twice during our break to show her that she was expendable.
 

Mookow

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: zzzz
what does your "girlfriend" say about this?

My 'girlfriend' says that they are just friends. Anyways, we have this mutual trust thing. She has access to my email so she can make sure that chicks aren't sending my overzealous email, and the same thing goes for her email. I find an email mentioning them having sex and keeping it a secret. I'm 99% sure it's joking, but damnit it's annoying.

That is pretty much the exact opposite of my definition of "trust". If you actually trusted her,
A) you wouldnt care about this guy, because you trust her not to cheat, and
B) you wouldnt feel the need or even desire to check her emails
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: Jigga
Pity, I've never been to a Chinese Family Ball...:(

oh believe me, I haven't and I dont' want to. I'm not chinese.
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: theNEOone
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Feldenak
Sounds like he's not the only willing participant.

Thats what I said.
so then what the hell are you still doing with her? either get some ass on the side, or shut the hell up.


=|

Oh believe me, I got some ass on the side. She tripped out about it. Got laid twice during our break to show her that she was expendable.

Oh yeah, sounds like you really showed her!
rolleye.gif
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: zzzz
what does your "girlfriend" say about this?

My 'girlfriend' says that they are just friends. Anyways, we have this mutual trust thing. She has access to my email so she can make sure that chicks aren't sending my overzealous email, and the same thing goes for her email. I find an email mentioning them having sex and keeping it a secret. I'm 99% sure it's joking, but damnit it's annoying.

That is pretty much the exact opposite of my definition of "trust". If you actually trusted her,
A) you wouldnt care about this guy, because you trust her not to cheat, and
B) you wouldnt feel the need or even desire to check her emails

That was the first time i ever checked it, I don't feel any perticular need to. Except in this one instance. He's the most manipulative lil' sh!t i've ever met.
 

EvilYoda

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Jigga
Pity, I've never been to a Chinese Family Ball...:(

oh believe me, I haven't and I dont' want to. I'm not chinese.

I was wondering about that ;)

<Looks at "Ryan Sengara">
<Looks at "Chinese Family Ball">

I am confused.
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: Feldenak
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: theNEOone
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Feldenak
Sounds like he's not the only willing participant.

Thats what I said.
so then what the hell are you still doing with her? either get some ass on the side, or shut the hell up.


=|

Oh believe me, I got some ass on the side. She tripped out about it. Got laid twice during our break to show her that she was expendable.

Oh yeah, sounds like you really showed her!
rolleye.gif


Believe me, I told her that I was getting sick of her escapades. She made a bluff and I called it.