I'm confused. A launcher stopped working, you made a suggestion about updates for some reason and they called you stupid? What does a non-functional launcher have to do with updates?
Side note - I wish I had kept notes on what I found to be broken in each distro I tried before settling on LM; I think if it failed on stuff like simple-scan not working as it should (weird issues like having to wait ~45 seconds between scanning one page of a doc and the next), it went in the figurative bin and I moved on to the next one. I think I went from Lubuntu 18.04 (satisfactory), to Lubuntu 20.04, onto Kubuntu 20.04, onto Debian (presumably 11) in quick succession. Other stuff like a note in my linux journal about uninstalling libreoffice-qt5 so printing worked properly, or a super-annoying bug in LO Calc whereby the column sort UI (Data > Sort...) would take yonks to open or apply a change, I can't remember which. I should have taken more notes because I would have to be pretty optimistic that I'm going to be Linux Mint for life!