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bleeb

Lifer
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Sounds like she isn't ready for a relationship... but I suggest just being friends.... and looking for other girls....jealousy might work in your case.

Cheers,
Bleeb

Edit: I Apologize for the repetition of questions. It was EARLY in the morning.
 

Mill

Lifer
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Her saying she isn't worth it, or that she has been lied to has nothing to do with past relationships. It is her way of letting you down easy. She doesn't like you, now move on.
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: bleeb
Sounds like she isn't ready for a relationship... but I suggest just being friends.... and looking for other girls....jealousy might work in your case.

Cheers,
Bleeb
After IM'ing with Deslocke for a bit, I'd agree with this advice and suggest the same. Good luck:)
 

WinkOsmosis

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Forget about her NOW. I have experience with this. I couldn't just forget about her though, because she liked me too. But liking her was very bad for me. I wish I realized that sooner.
 

IcemanJer

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Originally posted by: Deslocke
what is this?! 20 questions? :p
dude, when you said you don't feel like explaining the story, you're bound to get a load of questions thrown at you.
 

thirtythree

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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Step away from the Computer and go out and meet women in real time.
go to hell. you don't know anything about me or about her. yes, I met her online. what difference does it make? she's still a real person and I can still have real feelings for her. I drove 3000fucking miles to see her ballet recital and be with her for a few hours. I didn't even know what she looked like then. you'll just say I'm desperate but you know what? I don't care what you say. I've known plenty of "real time" girls. they aren't that great.

and tuffgirl, I appreciate you trying to help. maybe I'll talk to you about it later. to answer your question: four and a half months.