let this miserable thread die

[thirtythree]

sweet .. my first one of these. I don't feel like explaining the story so I probably won't get any helpful advice. oh well. I wasn't planning on it anyway. just woke up...

 

[Chaotic42]

Unhealthy or illegal?

 

[thirtythree]

Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Unhealthy or illegal?

unhealthy.

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: Deslocke

Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Unhealthy or illegal?

unhealthy.

Well, that's good. Better to get it out of the way.

Is it physical or emotional attraction?

 

[thirtythree]

what is this?! 20 questions?

emotional.

 

[Zebo]

ex or prospect?

 

[thirtythree]

Originally posted by: Zebo
ex or prospect?

prospect.

gee, this is fun.

 

[zantac]

Move the hell away from her for starters?

 

[thirtythree]

Originally posted by: zantac
Move the hell away from her for starters?

I am away. far, far away.

 

[zantac]

Well then, get out the lotion and let the good times roll?

 

[thirtythree]

Originally posted by: zantac
Well then, get out the lotion and let the good times roll?

no.

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: Deslocke
what is this?! 20 questions?

emotional.

Well, I ask because from the people I've known in similar situations who have physical obsessions with a girl, going out and getting laid a few times and depriving themselves of pictures of and overexposure to the girl in question usually works.

 

[Zebo]

Well then it's easy, ask her out and be a gentleman about it...Be cool...No girl/woman like a desperate dude..

 

[Wallydraigle]

I think it's time to off her and get on with your life.

 

[thirtythree]

chaotic42: I actually have no pictures of her and don't see her much, seeing as she is far away (as stated earlier).

zebo: it isn't a possibility at the moment and I highly doubt she is interested.

lirion: what did you have in mind? murder? :evil:

 

[jjones]

Get laid, take shower, repeat as necessary.

 

[gotsmack]

I remember the first girl I asked out in college. I really liked her and she said yes, but I messed things up because I was inexperienced.

I still think about her more then I'd like, but theres nothing I can really do about it. I asked her out and tried my best at the time. Thats a lot better then having a secret crush on someone.

 

[bleeb]

Originally posted by: Deslocke
sweet .. my first one of these. I don't feel like explaining the story so I probably won't get any helpful advice. oh well. I wasn't planning on it anyway. just woke up...

Since all situations are different, you will have different answers based upon different parameters. Therefore you NEED to include a story or at least a summary (a.k.a. Cliff Notes)

 

[Schadenfroh]

Originally posted by: Deslocke

Originally posted by: zantac
Well then, get out the lotion and let the good times roll?

no.

already tried that eh?

 

[thirtythree]

jjones: is that your solution to everything?

gotsmack: it's not a secret. I don't know what I'm doing either.

bleeb: sorry, I'm too lazy. ask me a question if you'd like. I'm not really expecting atot to solve my problems anyway. just trying to pass the time.

 

[thirtythree]

Originally posted by: Schadenfroh

Originally posted by: Deslocke

Originally posted by: zantac
Well then, get out the lotion and let the good times roll?

no.

already tried that eh?

no. masturbating or getting laid is not going to help.

 

[bleeb]

X questions:

1. What's her name?
2. How do you know her?
3. Why are you doubtful that she might be interested in you?
4. Have you at least talked to her?
5. Have you read Amnesiac's thread regarding Geeks and Women?
6. What does she look like?
7. Pics?
8. Have you even talked to her?
9. Where do you know her from?
10. Does she have cute friends?
11. Are you some kind of perv to just obsesses about girls and yet never does anything to talk to them?
12. Are you the person to fall in love first, get to know the girl second?
13. Have you ever had a girlfriend before?
14. Do you consider youself somewhat decent looking?
15. Do you have a job?
16. What is so special about this girl?
17. Do you have anything in common with her?
18. ATOT is the wrong place to ask for Girl advice and yet i'm worried because there are so many YAGTs.
19. How old is she?
20. How far are you willing to go to meet/date/dhitb?

 

[gotsmack]

Originally posted by: Deslocke
jjones: is that your solution to everything?

gotsmack: it's not a secret. I don't know what I'm doing either.

bleeb: sorry, I'm too lazy. ask me a question if you'd like. I'm not really expecting atot to solve my problems anyway. just trying to pass the time.

You start with hello, end with goodbye, and just make up the rest as you go.

Took me two years of college to figure that out.

If you're 21+ and in school always make the first date lunch at the pub. I figured that out when I was 22.

get in practice by just hanging out your lady friends, but if you don't have any, just sharpen your conversation skills by hanging out with your friends with with GFs and talking to them (your friend's gf).

 

[thirtythree]

oh sh!t that's a lot of questions. hold on.

 

[thirtythree]

Originally posted by: bleeb
X questions:

1. What's her name? allison
2. How do you know her? we met online, talk for two to three hours almost every night, have talked on the phone, have met in real life.
3. Why are you doubtful that she might be interested in you? we've talked about it. she never came out and said that she wasn't interested though. it was more like "I'm not worth it" or "it just wouldn't work out." she really doesn't sound interested in a relationship with anyone right now. she's been taken advantage of and lied to by people before. she doesn't want to get close to anyone because it always ends with her getting hurt.
4. Have you at least talked to her? already answered this question.
5. Have you read Amnesiac's thread regarding Geeks and Women? no. where is that? EDIT: just read it. it's sort of common knowledge isn't it?
6. What does she look like? if you can tell me why this question matters, I will tell you.
7. Pics? read the thread (I don't have any). I wouldn't post them even if I did.
8. Have you even talked to her? you already asked this question.
9. Where do you know her from? I told you.
10. Does she have cute friends? not important.
11. Are you some kind of perv to just obsesses about girls and yet never does anything to talk to them? I hope not. maybe.
12. Are you the person to fall in love first, get to know the girl second? not really. I think you have to be friends with someone before you can love them.
13. Have you ever had a girlfriend before? no (surprise, surprise).
14. Do you consider youself somewhat decent looking? you tell me.
15. Do you have a job? no. I've worked the past three summers though. I have a good amount saved up. why is this relevant?
16. What is so special about this girl? I wrote four pages about why I like her if you want to read it (I told you I was obsessive). she has a great personality, she's very talented/creative, open minded, attractive, I love talking to her, etc.
17. Do you have anything in common with her? yes.
18. ATOT is the wrong place to ask for Girl advice and yet i'm worried because there are so many YAGTs. not a question.
19. How old is she? 17.
20. How far are you willing to go to meet/date/dhitb? far. I'm not looking for sex though. she is a virgin by choice, as am I (though she's really the only one who has to do any choosing).

will that do? I'm 17 too, btw.