Central, but yeah... If the state had an actual @$$hole, it would be Camden.
Isn't that where people from Patterson look at and say "No way man, much to much crime in that s.hole!"?
Northern NJ is not that bad, especially when you get OUT of the industrial areas (like Hackensack, Patterson, Bayonne...). There are nicer areas in even some of those places.
But you get to areas like Upper Saddle River and Franklin Lakes and you know where all the money went in NJ. Some REALLY nice places.
Also, areas like Hoboken have cleaned up, and other town centers in areas like Ridgewood and Rutherford are nice as well.
As for taxes? Yes. If you do too well as a state the country does not give you any money back. Since NJ schools did so well (on average compared to the nation) it gets almost nada. Same thing for a lot of stuff.
Also, since everyone commutes and it is one of the densest populated states in the union (I think it is THE densest) the demand for roadways is more than anywhere else.
So, although many of the things to hate about NJ are there, it is still in a pretty nice spot. Close enough for a day's drive to NE, DC, Phili, NY, and even some places further south.
It has TOLERABLE weather shifts, and the air in MOST areas is really clean. It has many reserves and parks and is a pretty interesting state in and of itself (go to Kansas and take a look around....).
If you like most of the pros from NJ, I have heard and would recommend Atlanta and the surrounding area. If you like more of a generic 'burban area (with a proliference of McMansions, BTW) Florida might be more your liking (although I have heard that the weather in the summer makes it so most do not get out much... same for areas of Texas...)
I wish you luck in looking, and if it was not for my own family connections, I think I would be looking in some of the more populated areas of GA or the Carolinas......