Leaving a job in a few days... But became close with a co-worker..

[AllenK]

As title. What do? She is pretty cute and I do want to ask her out but don't know how to make it seems like some half-hearted attempt before leaving the job.

 

[purbeast0]

So you want to ask her out but you aren't sure what to do? If that's the case all hope is lost.

 

[shortylickens]

PICS!!!

 

[highland145]

Just Trump her...duh.

 

[Skyclad1uhm1]

Didn't we have this exact thread half a year ago or so? I vaguely remember a girl having smiled in someone's general direction and him assuming she wanted him because of that.

 

[BudAshes]

I recommend chaining her up in your basement for a few months, just so she can really get to know your personality.

 

[Pantoot]

Tell you are going to try something new, and stick out your hand.

 

[PricklyPete]

Just tell her you didn't want to miss an opportunity and ask her. If you guys really have gotten reasonably close as co-workers, shouldn't be that hard.

 

[sdifox]

are you still in the same city? if so, why not? why does this even need to be on forum?

 

[ControlD]

Leave a photocopy of your junk on the copy machine with a note. Something like "if you want the real thing, give me a call". Seems like it should work. Can't really see a downside to this plan.

 

[Jeeebus]

Walk up to her, extend your hand, and say "Come with me if you want to live."

 

[Cappuccino]

Mayne second account. Trying to seduce his mother.

 

[Ns1]

Tell you are going to try something new, and stick out your hand.

since we are limited to one like per post, I am going to quote this as well.

 

[Krazy4Real]

Tell you are going to try something new, and stick out your hand.

This is the winner!

 

[Eug]

Wrong forum

 

[SaltyNuts]

Is this real life? AFTER you leave, you call her and say you always wanted to ask her out, but since you worked together felt it would be awkward/inappropriate. But now since you are gone its time to hit the town for dinner and drinks.

Then you bang her.

Then you post pictures (or her, not you, you weirdo) here.

If you don't make it to this last part, given how I've spelled it out so easily for you, I pray to the good lawd above that you be banned forever from this site.

 

[AllenK]

So you want to ask her out but you aren't sure what to do? If that's the case all hope is lost.

I mean to ask her out in a way that wouldn't her feel like I'm just doing this because I'm leaving... You know?

 

[Homerboy]

Just Trump her...duh.

Gotta take her furniture shopping first though.

 

[Homerboy]

Tell you are going to try something new, and stick out your hand.

Like others have said, this post wins.

Can anyone find the original?

 

[pete6032]

I mean to ask her out in a way that wouldn't her feel like I'm just doing this because I'm leaving... You know?

Will you still work nearby? Any chance for a meet and catch up lunch or coffee a few weeks into the new job?

 

[SearchMaster]

I mean to ask her out in a way that wouldn't her feel like I'm just doing this because I'm leaving... You know?

PricklyPete had it right - tell her that you don't think dating co-workers is a good idea but now that's not an issue so you'd like to get to know her better. It's not that hard dude, and the best thing is if she says she's not interested you'll never have to see her again so it minimizes any chance of embarrassment.

 

[Ns1]

Like others have said, this post wins.

Can anyone find the original?

https://forums.anandtech.com/thread...irl-includes-breakdown-on-date-costs.1354121/

When you re-read it 12 years later, my god the OP is so fucking bitter. I wonder how he's doing now...

 

[PricklyPete]

Tell you are going to try something new, and stick out your hand.

Jesus Christ that was on point.

 

[Homerboy]

https://forums.anandtech.com/thread...irl-includes-breakdown-on-date-costs.1354121/

When you re-read it 12 years later, my god the OP is so fucking bitter. I wonder how he's doing now...

OMG Thank you. This is one of the all time classic ATOT threads.

 

[dave_the_nerd]

Shouldn't have waited.