Ladies, i need a tip for a gift

AznAnarchy99

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I want to get a girl a gift for Christmas/1 month annivesary. On a budget and i want to get her something nice and pretty. Im pretty set on getting her a necklace, one from the site below. Theres alot of them so im asking which one would you like the best?

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sixone

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You didn't say what kind of anniversary - dating, wedding, etc. I'm gonna go on the assumption that you've been dating for a month - if that's wrong, then take this accordingly:

I would stay away from anything with the hearts on it, because that's pretty symbolic for most girls, and it reads as clingy after only one month. Same goes for lockets, unless you have something in mind to go inside that doesn't fall under the above.

The others that are shown there are pretty, I'd go for a lariat myself, but use your best judgement of what you think she'd like.

 

EmperorIQ

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what you linked were pendants. It will come with a chain, but a really really crappy chain. You might have to spend an extra 80 bucks for a better chain. But my opinion would be the bottom center heart outlined one, if you love her. I got one of those for my gf after 6 months.
 

dawnbug

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The pearls are quite pretty, as KarenMarie said, and I agree with sixone that you should probably stay away from hearts and lockets, especially so early on in the relationship.
 

Bryophyte

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The gold or silver single pearl. Look at which she wears (gold or silver) to make the decision on which color of chain. The lariat necklaces are ok, but she might not like that style (I personally don't.) She'll expect something to be in the locket, and the heart is a little sentimental for 1 month. The bead ones and the Byzantine chain are a little plain. The pearl ones seem like the safest bet.
 

AznAnarchy99

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She doesnt wear any other necklace so yea. I really like the hearts, but are they like really that clingy? Dont want to come off as clingy. Some other girls that i asked reconmended hearts.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: AznAnarchy99
She doesnt wear any other necklace so yea. I really like the hearts, but are they like really that clingy? Dont want to come off as clingy. Some other girls that i asked reconmended hearts.

Don't give her a heart unless you have or will give her yours. I know that sounds corny, but most of us are corny about that kind of stuff. If you've known each other for a long time, but just started dating, it would maybe be okay. But if you've only known her a month, and you think you're in love already, that's too fast.

 

AznAnarchy99

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ive known her for about 6 months, and i see her everyday, but i dont know if i "love" her yet...
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: AznAnarchy99
ive known her for about 6 months, and i see her everyday, but i dont know if i "love" her yet...

No hearts. But ask her about it after you've given her the gift. No better way to get ideas for Valentine's Day. :)
 

AznAnarchy99

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hm now im thinking about that lariat, but do most girls like lariats? i dont see many people that wear them
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: AznAnarchy99
hm now im thinking about that lariat, but do most girls like lariats? i dont see many people that wear them

I have a lot of necklaces, but not one lariat. Part of the charm is that a lot of people don't wear them.

 

AznAnarchy99

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Originally posted by: Xylitol
The silver cross FTW

dont want anything religious unless she is really devoted.

Imma ask some other people that i know about the lariats, and if we're still together by Valintimes Day, i think the heart will be nice. Thanks for the help!
 

Adica

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Sterling Silver Bead Lariat Necklace no doubt.

BTW, make sure that she is not a "gold "girl, because buying SS would be useless.
 

AznAnarchy99

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Originally posted by: flawlssdistortn
Why don't you get her something personal, that only you would know to get her.

weird colored socks ? =P

BTW, make sure that she is not a "gold "girl, because buying SS would be useless.

ill try to leach some info tomorrow