After this episode I really fear for this country and what she stands for; free speech and privacy (among others). I feel like I was watching a disapproving, mob descend on Mr. Sterling. Again I couldn't disagree with him more.
My dad and grandma were very racist. It wasn't politically correct, but they knew to not broadcast it publicly, like Mr. Sterling.
We're collectively shaming this man from our guts (where TMZ's attraction lies), but can we not see with our brains that in public this NAACP award winner was for the most part not racist, and that privately he held different beliefs.
What if we all were held to a standard of what our private feelings are about anything. Plenty of people from both races feel uncomfortable with the other race and hold such thoughts. George Jefferson, like Archie Bunker, was based on reality.
Sterling's ex-girlfriend knew just what to do and say to get this recording to be able to hurt this guy via his own private thoughts, and we fell for it and became a virtual torch-wielding, simian mob. I'm sorry, but I'm ashamed for society with this episode.
I see your point, but personally I think we need more shaming, not less. Making such behavior acceptable in private just means educating the next generation that it's okay to hold such views, just not okay to express them in public. Is that really where we want to be as a society? From my own life, my mother and father may well have their own racist thoughts but were death on any such talk in our house. Consequently I grew up believing that such beliefs were not okay, even though as a Southerner I was exposed to them continually. (As an aside, my father does still look at me like I've grown a second head when I say gay marriage should be legal, so YMMV.)
I might have more sympathy for him except that apparently he has in the past put such thoughts into action AND he was taking advantage of his wealth to screw a young half-black gold digger even though he did not want blacks in his owner's booth. Her relatively powerless success in striking back does whet my fancy. But just to reiterate: I have no problem with him holding these views or having whomever he wants in his owner's booth. I just think that IF such views come to light, through whatever means, then he deserves the natural consequences - including a good public shaming. The same with anyone, although admittedly it's not as important when one has no power to put such thoughts into action.
I'm not particularly concerned about Sterling, since I can view his punishment as being long overdue. But the implications for ordinary people are frightening, so I'll repeat my implied question:
Should non-public figures and non-executive-level workers, working for companies that don't have official policies concerning PRIVATE behavior, be punished for words they utter that the person reasonably believes to be private?
Sorry, I guess I didn't adequately answer you. I think the bar is much lower for non-public figures and non-executive-level workers than for resource owners like Sterling who wield true power, but ultimately, yes, I think that if one expresses repugnant views which are damaging to one's employer or other associations, then one deserves the social (but not governmental) consequences involved even if one had a reasonable expectation of privacy at the time. The alternative is to all pretend the person did not metaphorically shit his pants - although as that would likely be an accident of occurrence rather than a mere accident of public knowledge I'd have a lot more sympathy for the befouler.
Put it this way - if a friend expresses an occasional racist view and I happen to overhear it I'm not going to abandon that friend. We all have our warts. But I'm not going to pretend I didn't overhear it and support him for, say, city council. I can't unhear it, and I see no reason to pretend I can simply because he said it with an expectation of privacy.
C'mon don't trivialize the word racism or what racists truly believe to try to make a cheap point that doesn't exist.
Yes, the richness of experience that she speaks of is a strictly minority thing. Just as the richness of experience in regards to being pregnant is strictly a woman thing. I am inherently unable to ever understand what a woman deals with while pregnant. I see nothing wrong in that. It just means I have to defer to them to understand and be more empathetic to try to appreciate what they go through during that process. Do you think that makes me inherently inferior?
Dude, that is straight up racism, the belief that your particular race (or apparently, that any non-white race) is inherently better than another.
With respect to your hypothetical, I do not think that makes you inherently inferior. If however a woman insisted that having been pregnant makes her a superior judge, I'd regard her as poorly as I do Sotomayor.
Look, there is no "black experience" or "Latina experience" or "white experience". There are myriad life experiences, some of which may be more common statistically among certain skin tones or cultures but the vast majority of which are colorblind. We all experience some subset of these experiences and more importantly we all learn different things from them. Saying that minorities have richer experiences than do whites is no different from saying that blacks have an inferior culture - it's a way to seek a benefit without actually earning it as an individual.
This has a potential to directly harm you and yours as well. Hispanics will be the majority is a few decades. If Sotomayor's oft-expressed viewpoint that Latinas are wiser because of their richer experiences becomes societally accepted, why would you expect Hispanics to share that advantage with non-Hispanic blacks? Your grandchildren might well find themselves once again being disadvantaged because of their skin color.