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Kindergartner's peanut allergy infuriates some school parents

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Kindergartner's peanut allergy infuriates some school parents
The Associated Press
Last Updated 3:38 a.m. PDT Tuesday, September 9, 2003

WALNUT CREEK, Calif. (AP) - Controversy simmered Monday night at a parent-teacher meeting that didn't involve test scores, dog-eared study books or even the Pledge of Allegiance. It was all about peanut butter and one student's serious allergic reaction to it.
Valle Verde Elementary School has put in motion a "peanut reduction policy" to accommodate the needs of Leora Cope's 5-year-old son. So serious is his allergy to peanut products that a mere smudge of peanut butter left on the monkey bars for him to touch could send him into anaphylactic shock or possibly trigger a deadly reaction.

But some parents are miffed about the ban and say the boy should be home schooled instead of creating widespread changes that affect all the other students. Upset parents have even begun to circulate an online petition through the PTA membership.

"There have to be reasonable accommodations," said parent Amy Casey, who started the protest petition. "(But) they're searching my kid's backpack. There's no reading specialist, but (they hired) a 30-hour a week aide who's a nurse?"

Another parent, Carol Gross, suggests Valle Verde may not be the place for the boy, considering his condition.

"If their child has such severe allergies, I suggest that they home school their child," Gross said. "I would like to know what this family does out in the world. They expect over 600 families to conform to their unfortunate situation."

Children have begun to complain that their lunch bags were being searched for peanut goods, parents said.

The Cope family went to the school district and insisted on accommodations for their son under the American Disabilities Act. They originally wanted the entire school designated a peanut-free zone.

Instead, a compromise was struck. Kindergarten classrooms and a special playground area at Valle Verde would be peanut- and tree nut-free and vigorous hand-washing by students and visitors would be emphasized and monitored.

Also, peanut products would be discouraged throughout the campus at Valle Verde.

School district spokeswoman Sue Berg says officials are doing everything they can to keep the Cope child safe. The boy's mother insists banning the lunch bag staple of peanut butter is part of the solution.

"This is an intensive peanut and tree nut environment," Cope said. "You don't have 90 peanut butter sandwich-toting kids (in everyday situations). If this was high school, you wouldn't be having this discussion."

Indeed, it's tough hiding from peanut butter in the Mount Diablo Unified School District. Under the "What's for lunch?" link on the district's Web site for Monday's menu, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and chicken quesadillas shared top billing.
 
Hmm... I can see both sides. I tend to agree with the majority in this case. Perhaps they can train a teacher 🙂o Teature--WTF was I thinking?!! I am giving myself a weeks vacation for that... ) or school nurse to apply the special shot if a peanut product is injested somehow? Not sure that would work well... and probably leaves the school district and nurse open to liability if something happens, but, argh, this sucks.
 
As a parent, I would be sympathetic to the child's family because no one wants to lose their baby. But on the other hand, I can also sympathize for the other parents as it restricts what they are allowed to do also.

Hard call here.
 
If it's that big of a problem, then I agree he should be home schooled. Forcing hundreds of other families to conform to their son's unfortunate illness is unreasonable IMO. If I were deathly allergic to milk... would they ban that from school?
 
Welcome to the new america. Home of the babied.

The school should just flat out say "no"

They originally wanted the entire school designated a peanut-free zone.
We can't all get what we want.
 
"Perhaps they can train a teature" what? A who?

I never remember so much hype about peanut butter when I went to school. And if someone was allergic then the parents took care of it when the child started school. Actually I don't know because I never heard anything about it. I am allergic to cats and rabbits. When I was in 5th grade I kept getting headaches on Mondays. I was told that I was allergic to school and to get over it. Well I told them it was the rabbit that was in the 5th grade room all weekend without having its cage cleaned. They didn't believe me. So one day I said I'll sit in another room for the day and I didn't get a headache. They wanted me to finish the school year that way but my parents said the rabbit goes, and it did! I don't know where I was going with that story but it was fun to look back. 🙂
 
This allergy is not really very uncommon. Peanuts are also banned from the child care centers where my wife works. These asshats would surely be singing a different tune if it was thier own child. It's bad enough that they have to worry about thier child's health, but to have to also listen to self-important fvcksticks in thier own community putting their own convenience above this child's health must be unreal.
 
Sorry I forgot that the possibility of ever having sex and thus a child would be a prerequisite for empathy here. Most of you are excused.
 
I'm still laughing.

"They wanted the whole school to be peanut and nut free"

Somebody really outta just beat the parents real good, that'll teach 'em.

 
Originally posted by: dman
Hmm... I can see both sides. I tend to agree with the majority in this case. Perhaps they can train a teature or school nurse to apply the special shot if a peanut product is injested somehow? Not sure that would work well... and probably leaves the school district and nurse open to liability if something happens, but, argh, this sucks.

not much training needed. Just an epi-pen shot in the mid lateral thigh. You cant really screw it up, its self injecting. The trick is getting the child to the hospital in time after the shot, because its only a temp solution.
 
I'm kinda split. I definitely feel the school should do some things to accommodate that kid with the allergies but to search backpacks and lunches? That's a bit too far. Just let him eat at a separate time or a separate area (perhaps in the office?)
 
Originally posted by: CChaos
This allergy is not really very uncommon. Peanuts are also banned from the child care centers where my wife works. These asshats would surely be singing a different tune if it was thier own child. It's bad enough that they have to worry about thier child's health, but to have to also listen to self-important fvcksticks in thier own community putting their own convenience above this child's health must be unreal.



You have an option what child care center you take your kid to. You don't have an option where your kid goes to school. This twat expects the ENTIRE school to go peanut free for one kid? PB&J sandwiches are a staple of childhood, for christ's sake. Screw that. Pay for the district to tutor this kid off campus. But expecting the entire world to revolve around him is ludicrous.

 
Home school him and fire whomever decided to search the children's lunches.

God I hate the school systems in America.
 
My wife's actually got a student with this exact same problem in her class this year. His allergic reaction isn't as bad as this, but they've still got to be MAJORLY cautious.

I can understand the parents' perspective. They just want their kid to have as normal a childhood as possible. But the fact of the matter is that when you have an allergy (or some other impairment) of this magnitude having a typical childhood is all but impossible. It's just like the whole idea of 'inclusion' (incorporationg kids with EXTREMELY special needs into a regular classroom environment primarily for the sake of socialization.) I understand the good intentions behind it and it's shown positive benefits in some cases. But at some point (usually a fuzzy point best handled on a case-by-case basis) you've got to draw the line. But our PC-society hates to be hardnosed on issues like this, especially when it comes to children.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
I'm still laughing.

"They wanted the whole school to be peanut and nut free"

Somebody really outta just beat the parents real good, that'll teach 'em.

I disagree with having a NUT-Free Zone. Is there going to be someone at the door checking lunch boxes for PB&J? The child has an allergy. I have allergies I deal with the. If I hang out with cats I go to the emergency room, I know better now. Not that the child has to learn a lesson and possibly die but the child knows, don't go by peanut butter. Yes there are times where you don't know like when I went to an old friend?s house. Fifteen minutes later I was on my way to the emergency room because he has cats that I didn't know about and he put in the basement for the night (normally roam free in the house). The school should be prepared for emergencies like that. Difficult to call... I don't think I would ask the school to be nut free if either one of my boys were allergic. But I don't know.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
I'm still laughing.

"They wanted the whole school to be peanut and nut free"

Somebody really outta just beat the parents real good, that'll teach 'em.

beat the parents?? which ones?? the ones requesting that their child be in a healthy enviroment? or the ones that want to protect their freedom to choose?

this is an issue thats difficult to take sides in.

maybe just have ALL the parents beaten up on principle huh??
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<spock> The needs of the many outway the needs of the one or the few </spock>

Basically yeah this kid needs to be kept away from things that cause allergic reactions but it should not have such a wide impact.

 
Originally posted by: Demon-Xanth
I'm allergic to stupid people and noone seems to be conforming to my needs...

Are you ok? I'm worried that Demon-Xanth is having a severe allergic reaction from typing "noone" instead of "no one" - someone should call 911.

😉
 
this is an issue thats difficult to take sides in.

I guess I don't see the difficulty. The school should not be forced to pander to the needs of one whiney defective (yes I said it, he's defective as in not working properly) student.

What next? Somebody has difficulty with sugar so therefore it has to be eliminated from any and all food at school?

 
Originally posted by: Lucky
Originally posted by: CChaos
This allergy is not really very uncommon. Peanuts are also banned from the child care centers where my wife works. These asshats would surely be singing a different tune if it was thier own child. It's bad enough that they have to worry about thier child's health, but to have to also listen to self-important fvcksticks in thier own community putting their own convenience above this child's health must be unreal.



You have an option what child care center you take your kid to. You don't have an option where your kid goes to school. This twat expects the ENTIRE school to go peanut free for one kid? PB&J sandwiches are a staple of childhood, for christ's sake. Screw that. Pay for the district to tutor this kid off campus. But expecting the entire world to revolve around him is ludicrous.

i agree that trying to force a Nut Free zone is pretty ridiculous, but WHAT IF THAT WAS THE SCHOOLS CHOICE?? IF the govt and the school district is going to FORCE parents to send their children to school and they cannot provide the child with a reasonably safe enviroment, then the GOVT should provide for the childs education safely elsewhere. home shool what have you,

but i'm willing to bet that if the OP had been, such and such school district is paying $300k / year to provide such and such child Home schooling because he is allergic to peanuts and the school cannot provide him a safe enviroment.

many of the same people bitching now would be bitching about the other arrangements. and the SAME fvcking parents that bitch about not being able to send PB to school would be b1tching about how much it costs them to school this allergic child.
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Originally posted by: spidey07
Welcome to the new america. Home of the babied.

The school should just flat out say "no"

They originally wanted the entire school designated a peanut-free zone.
We can't all get what we want.

They got the treatment because of the Americans with Disabilities act. They would probably be violating federal law if they flat out said no.

-geoff

 
It seems like there are other solutions. If all lunches are all kept in one place until lunch time, and all of the kids have to wash their hands immediately after eating, then 99.9% of the potential threat is eliminated.
 
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