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Just got robbed

El Guaraguao

El Guaraguao

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...by my own damn wife. We have been separated for a couple weeks and looking to get a divorce. When we first got together we went to Wells Fargo and made a joint account and I put some money in it. Then we left it there and used our own different banks. Looked this morning to find it sapped of funds...transferred to her account. I'm gonna find this bitch and break both her god damn mother fucking legs.
 
When you're married that's not called getting robbed, that's called getting screwed.
 
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Who in their right mind is dumb enough to get a joint account --I guess the same people who are dumb enough to get married? Married or not, keep your own money separate.
 
"we went to Wells Fargo and made a joint account" "We have been separated for a couple weeks and looking to get a divorce"

Your still married, its a joint account and she legally has a much right as you to withdraw or transfer it. Oh, and don't do anything stupid.
 
Sorry to hear that, OP, hope it wasn't life-changing money.

ThinClient said:
Who in their right mind is dumb enough to get a joint account --I guess the same people who are dumb enough to get married? Married or not, keep your own money separate.
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I'm quite sure I'm in my right mind, and I did both of those things. No problems. I do agree on no joint accounts prior to marriage, though.
 
Its just money. When I look back at the amount I was screwed over on a monthly basis and still struggle from some of "our" bills I was saddled with....I just think, was cheap price to pay to be rid of the BS and aggravation. Only 11 more years until I can completely ignore her forever.
 
That sucks. Something similar happened to my friend. His ex-wife took over $50k from savings account and disappeared. He never saw her or the money again.
 
I would think, if you are getting a divorce, it could probably be good. Keep records of it, when your lawyers meet to figure settlements, show how irresponsible and selfish she was and use it.
 
ThinClient said:
Who in their right mind is dumb enough to get a joint account --I guess the same people who are dumb enough to get married? Married or not, keep your own money separate.
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My wife and I have had our money in a joint account for 22 years. So I guess I'm an idiot.
 
My wife and I will have been married 5 years this year and our money's been in a joint account the whole time. We have separate checking and a joint savings. She also has access to both of my high limit credit cards and can sign checks from my account.

Moral of the story is don't marry someone you don't trust and she won't fuck you over.
 
You guys know about the 7 year itch.

Some of you guys are going to find out about the 20 year ditch.

I guarantee it.
 
Geeze welcome to my world. Thank god we each split the funds in our joint account and got ones of our own, but her car loan is still in my name and guess who's paying that this month?
 
El Guaraguao said:
...by my own damn wife. We have been separated for a couple weeks and looking to get a divorce. When we first got together we went to Wells Fargo and made a joint account and I put some money in it. Then we left it there and used our own different banks. Looked this morning to find it sapped of funds...transferred to her account. I'm gonna find this bitch and break both her god damn mother fucking legs.
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Albatross said:
You might want to delete that threat if you are trying to divorce her.
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Too late. I'll be willing to delete it from this post. For a small fee. :sneaky:
 
Thing is OP when the divorce is filed that will be considered "community money" and she will be forced to split it with you 50/50 unless as someone else mentioned it was a huge chunk and she skips town with it, now you might not ever find it/her and if you do years later it will be "sorry, I spent it". I'd get a lawyer ASAP dude.
 
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