Originally posted by: DLeRium
3 seconds rule. I follow that when traffic is sparse. I live in the East Bay. I got off the Bay Bridge onto 80 East. Do you know how many cars get off at Ashyby and University exits? Do you know how immensely packed I-80 is? Those 7-8 lanes that start after the MacArthur maze merges down to 5 by University Ave. You have to expect slowdowns and a bottleneck. You follow the 3 second rule all the time and you'd be getting into more trouble.
		
		
	 
See, the thing about heavy traffic is that it slows down traffic.  And when you're driving slowly, the required following distance is reduced.  If traffic was so heavy, then you'd have been going slow enough to stop.  However heavy traffic was, you were too close to the car in front of you for whatever speed you were going.  
	
	
		
		
			I can almost assure you I was about 3 seconds away from the car when I saw the slowdown. I slowed down accordingly. I saw the slowdown occur in the next lane at first and I braked in precaution. My guess was correct as the car in front of me did slow down right after.  I was probably down to around 2 seconds or so by then in distance.
		
		
	 
Riddle me this, Batman - you started slowing down before the car in front of you, but by the time they started slowing down you were CLOSER to them?  That's not possible unless you were driving faster than them and closing rapidly before you started braking.
	
	
		
		
			You're right, if I slammed my brakes with 3 seconds to spare I would've made it out of there, however it's the initial slowdown in traffic that got me to close the gap. Otherwise I wouldn't have been tailgating. So what am I supposed to do? Treat the 3 second rule like a concrete wall? The instant I get to 2 seconds in distance I slam the brakes so I get back to 3 second distance? No. You and I both know that it's not realistic. If there's a slowdown in traffic, and a bottleneck, you get closer without a doubt, but once you adjust to that speed and distance, you further your distance back up again as traffic eases so you can maintain a safe distance again. That was exactly what I was doing. I just saw and reacted to the sudden braking too late.
		
		
	 
Do you think California is the only place with traffic?  We all drive in it all the time, and if you can't manage to do it without crashing into the car in front of you, plan an alternate route.  You seem completely unwilling to accept the fact that this accident happened because you screwed up.  
	
	
		
		
			Anyways, this teaches me to be a lot more cautious. I will watch my distance from now on. Part of me wonders if I had an empty car instead of a 5 occupants, if I could've stopped in a shorter distance. Part of me felt that the stopping distance was weak tonight.
		
		
	 
Probably.  Passengers are a distraction, too.