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Originally posted by: MCrusty
Originally posted by: minendo
if she doesnt want to lose me and still loves me then why dump my ass?
Girls try to be nice during break ups so they feed you that I still love you bullshit hoping that your stupid ass will sit around and wait for them to come back to after she is done knocking boots in an attempt to find herself.

Roger that!



Just dont get sucked into their games, if she wants you back she will come back. Don't try and chase her, it will just make her not want to go back to you.

thats another thing ive been wondering about... i called her last night when i was drunk and this morning again and after that decided i wasnt going to call her anymore. im thinking of dropping a card with some flowers off at her place but not for another week at least. i really want her back i am not going to move on right now.
 
TommyVercetti well I tried to tell that its possible to defy human nature and be without! That anyone can live alone very happily because its more peaceful than it is not. You have no freedom when in a relationship. None.
 
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.


brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

Would you shut the hell up already? No one gives a rat's ass about your sexually frustrated views on life. I can't think of a single forum member here who tolerates you, let alone one who likes you.

Leave - and this time, don't come back

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.


brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

Would you shut the hell up already? No one gives a rat's ass about your sexually frustrated views on life. I can't think of a single forum member here who tolerates you, let alone one who likes you.

Leave - and this time, don't come back

- M4H

Well he doesn't lie, it is possible to lead a single life with no sexual contact.
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.


brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

Would you shut the hell up already? No one gives a rat's ass about your sexually frustrated views on life. I can't think of a single forum member here who tolerates you, let alone one who likes you.

Leave - and this time, don't come back

- M4H


MercenaryForHire thank you.

I can tell you are part of my generation as well with the tone you are speaking in. Now I know why.
 
Yep...two weeks apart, eh?

She met someone else who said all the right things and made her feel all giddy inside so she thought..."hmmm...I deserve better. This guy really treats me great!"

She's just placating you to keep you on-deck as a backup so she's not alone at any point.

Forget her and move on.
 
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.


brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

Piss off, you muppet.

You're messed up, mate. I know exactly what're you're like. The soul-destroying depression and self-hatred has
faded into all that acceptance rubbish, hasn't it? No, you haven't seen the light. You're a boring, pretentious, irritating little tick.

You hate what you cannot have. Stop making excuses and suck it up.

You tit.
 
Sorry to hear. I do believe she's found someone else. It's obvious from how she's acting from what you've told us.
 
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.


brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

Piss off, you muppet.


You're messed up, mate. I know exactly what're you're like. The soul-destroying depression and self-hatred has
faded into all that acceptance rubbish, hasn't it? No, you haven't seen the light. You're a boring, pretentious, irritating little tick.

You hate what you cannot have. Stop making excuses and suck it up.

You tit.


brigden haha actually I can tell from the tone of your voice you are jealous of someone or something. Not sure what but there is something you don't have that you are jealous of. It could be a friend, etc.

Thank you.
 
Originally posted by: brigden
How old is she?

She could just be going through that phase that many girls hit in their late teens, early twenties. Her friends are all single and enjoying an active social scene when she's spending her weekends with a boyfriend. She feels she's missing out on a big time in her life and panics.

Let me tell you something; it sucks right now, but before you know it you won't feel anything for her. You'll be with another girl and everything will be sweet. Hard words to swallow at the momment, I know, but it's the truth, bra.

Go out and crank it up with the lads.

you might have a point... she's 20... i was her first bf and we been goin out since the start of uni a year and a bit ago... thing is she always goes out with her friends like at least once or twice a week and i get a couple days too... its weird maybe thats it but i dont get it... a lot of her friends are single tho....

i just thought she was the one u know ... got sloshed last night, got kicked out of the bar for being too drunk after spending 40 dollars on 8 buck pitchers...

man this sucks ok im done ranting now!
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: shuan24
alrite dude, I know its kind of a repost, but here's some advice.

:beer:😀

That'd be valid if he was chasing her. Which AFAIK, he doesn't seem to be.

Let her come crawling back - then tell her off. 😀

- M4H

well technically, its the opposite of persistence....so instead of trying to be persistent and make it work, he should "let her go".



:beer:😀
 
I gave a line like this to a girlfriend.. of course, in reality, i just wanted to hook up with other people guilt-free.

Don't become a whiny man-bitch, dude. Being dumped sucks, but if she knows she can treat you like this now and you come crawling back, what's any future relationship going to be like? If she comes back and you take her, you're giving her the green light to cheat on you whenever she wants, because you're too "in love" to not have her around. Sleep with her best friend or something, it'll make you feel a lot better.
 
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.


brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

Piss off, you muppet.


You're messed up, mate. I know exactly what're you're like. The soul-destroying depression and self-hatred has
faded into all that acceptance rubbish, hasn't it? No, you haven't seen the light. You're a boring, pretentious, irritating little tick.

You hate what you cannot have. Stop making excuses and suck it up.

You tit.


brigden haha actually I can tell from the tone of your voice you are jealous of someone or something. Not sure what but there is something you don't have that you are jealous of. It could be a friend, etc.

Thank you.

Yeah, no.

You're a bitter critter, aren't you? Unacceptance by your peers has left a deep emotional scar, hasn't it? Rejection got you down?

I hope you're just a wanker having a lark and not truly as sorry as you sound...
 
Originally posted by: imtim83
TommyVercetti well I tried to tell that its possible to defy human nature and be without! That anyone can live alone very happily because its more peaceful than it is not. You have no freedom when in a relationship. None.
How many relationships have you been in? None? Right. Don't even try to lie and say that you've been in one, I won't beleive it. Just because you can't get a girlfriend doesn't mean that being alone is the best.

You are pretty damn bitter and if I had to guess the fairer sex hasn't been the only sex to reject you. I bet it hurts but pretending that you like being alone does not do you any good.
 
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
Originally posted by: brigden
Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.


brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

Piss off, you muppet.


You're messed up, mate. I know exactly what're you're like. The soul-destroying depression and self-hatred has
faded into all that acceptance rubbish, hasn't it? No, you haven't seen the light. You're a boring, pretentious, irritating little tick.

You hate what you cannot have. Stop making excuses and suck it up.

You tit.


brigden haha actually I can tell from the tone of your voice you are jealous of someone or something. Not sure what but there is something you don't have that you are jealous of. It could be a friend, etc.

Thank you.

Yeah, no.

You're a bitter critter, aren't you? Unacceptance by your peers has left a deep emotional scar, hasn't it? Rejection got you down?

I hope you're just a wanker having a lark and not truly as sorry as you sound...

He can't be a wanker, he can't wank.
 
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
i cant believe this... i treated her like gold and did everything for her...

Could this be the problem? Ever seen that South Park episode where Satan has boyfriend named Chris and his ex is Satan?

someone else also brought this up in this thread...

maybe its true... i thought she liked it though, like im not a pussy or anything i just believe in treating girls good u know... but yeah when she comes crawling back (i hope she does) ill be rough 😀
 
Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: imtim83
TommyVercetti well I tried to tell that its possible to defy human nature and be without! That anyone can live alone very happily because its more peaceful than it is not. You have no freedom when in a relationship. None.
How many relationships have you been in? None? Right. Don't even try to lie and say that you've been in one, I won't beleive it. Just because you can't get a girlfriend doesn't mean that being alone is the best.

I never said I couldn't get a girlfriend. Heck I been asked before by a lot of females but do you know what I said everytime? No. No. No. No. No. N. O. No. Only once of course. If they needed to hear it more than once thats fine. It will always be No.



 
wow, that sounds like something i just went through. Seriously man, don't chase and don't talk to her. I don't know if there was somebody else but fankly you shouldn't care about that. Don't let that thought eat away at you. Even if there wasn't somebody else, does it make a difference?

If she asks to be friends, just say no, or you need more time.

And as they say, nothing takes the pain away like some mindless banging.
 
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