Just got back from my cousin's wedding.

fuzzybabybunny

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My cousin's 28 and the groom is 30. Both are absolutely beautiful people (both physically and mentally) and had been dating for 4 years. They are absolutely the right people for each other. Both embody the essence of their parents' hopes and dreams.

My cousin used to work at Agilent in IT. She graduated at the top of her class in college. She now does real estate, buying homes and fixing them up and reselling them.

The husband worked for Intel designing processors for the server market. He now works somewhere else designing hardware for the server market.

They live in California in a 1.4 MILLION dollar house literally a stone's throw away from the Stanford campus. They eat out five days out of the week and are thinking about buying a BMW X3.

They've traveled to literally every continent except Antarctica. They have a web gallery and there are all these pictures of them in China, in Taiwan, in South America, in Japan, etc. The bachelor party was in Spain and they got their engagement photos done by some famous photographer in Taiwan, who did an absolutely masterful job for $4,000. They paid for the entire wedding themselves ($50,000), which took place at a luxurious Ritz Carlton/golf course at Half Moon Bay overlooking the ocean. There were two photographers, two videographers, and a 5 course gourmet meal.

During the dinner they showed a slideshow of their pictures on their $2K 30" Apple monitor and a slideshow on a projector. One of the pictures showed the husband with the job offers he got straight out of college. The stack was about a foot and a half thick.

I love my cousin so much. She was like a sister to me when I was young and always took care of me. But it's just so hard to ignore their sheer level of success. These are people who are absolutely set for life, and they aren't even past 30. I'd be lucky to get one job offer out of college and to have even a quarter of their financial success by the time I'm 30. Not to mention I feel that there is no chance in hell I will have found anyone who loves me so much at that age, nor will I have visited nearly the number of places they've been.

The icing on the cake is that my parents are just outright envious, and the first thing they did was ask "why can't you be more like your cousin?"

*sigh*

Now I'm back home in bumblefuck Ohio preparing to hand my craptastic resume out to employers who probably won't even give me a second look at the career fair on Wednesday. *cries*
 

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During the dinner they showed a slideshow of their pictures on their $2K 30" Apple monitor and a slideshow on a projector. One of the pictures showed the husband with the job offers he got straight out of college. The stack was about a foot and a half thick.

lol, that's pretty douche/arrogantastic
 

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Originally posted by: FoBoT
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And always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the right side of life...
(Come on guys, cheer up!)
Always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the bright side of life...
(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)
Always look on the bright side of life...
(I mean - what have you got to lose?)
(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.
What have you lost? Nothing!)
Always look on the right side of life...
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:laugh:
 

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Ah.... the competitive taiwanese parents.

Only thing I'd have to say is that you're comparing yourself to other people just like your parents, and you'll never be happy when you do that.

 

compuwiz1

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Not to worry, if they live in Californicate, they are just broke at a different level than you. ;)
 
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Seems a bit arrogant to show off pictures of his Job Applications, but I guess when you are that successful, you can afford to do things like that. Of course, moderation is key.

 

fuzzybabybunny

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Originally posted by: spp
Ah.... the competitive Chinese parents.

Only thing I'd have to say is that you're comparing yourself to other people just like your parents, and you'll never be happy when you do that.

Fixed. But yeah, same thing.
 

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Originally posted by: fuzzybabybunny
Originally posted by: spp
Ah.... the competitive Chinese parents.

Only thing I'd have to say is that you're comparing yourself to other people just like your parents, and you'll never be happy when you do that.

Fixed. But yeah, same thing.

hrmmmm ... strange enough that you remind me of someone i know
 

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If you need lavish homes and items to have a good life, I don't think you're set to have one...
 

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How do 20 somethings afford a 1.4 million dollar house? That's a huge mortgage payment.
 

Phokus

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Haha, yeah, 'millionaires' aren't what you think they are in some parts of california.
 

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Originally posted by: uhohs
During the dinner they showed a slideshow of their pictures on their $2K 30" Apple monitor and a slideshow on a projector. One of the pictures showed the husband with the job offers he got straight out of college. The stack was about a foot and a half thick.

lol, that's pretty douche/arrogantastic

I have to agree. They are entitled to their success but you don't flaunt it at your wedding. That's tacky in the extreme.
 

ponyo

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At least you got a great place to stay for free when you visit California. :)

Some people will always be richer and better off than you. Nice thing is you have a family relative who's successful. Rich/ successful people know more rich/ successful people. The key to becoming rich/ successful yourself is to use their resources, contacts, and knowledge to emulate them. Rich have opportunities and by associating with them you can sometimes tag along or have access yourself.
 

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I dunno, living that large is pretty stupid if you ask me...

The richest person I know is making about $20K/year less than I do and she's in Myanmar working with people that could live for a month with what we spend on a visit to Starbucks.

Guess I measure success on a different scale than most.
 

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There's a lot more to life that what you drive and how big your house is.

I've met miserable rich people and happy poor people.
 

richardycc

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thats ALL? am I the only one that isn't totally impressed by that? flipping houses in CA was easy in CA few years ago, any monkey can do that, she made the right move and was lucky the market was good. and the groom is still working for someone else, a big U.S corp that pays a pretty good salary, stories like these are dime a dozen...I'd be a lot more impressed if she were to own her own a chain of real estate companies, it's not that hard to become a broker, and he owns a multi-million computer business.