I've been having problems on and off with my girlfriend ever since we got back together. She convinced me that our realationship could be open because I wanted to see other women and she want to be with me at the same time. THAT NEVER WORKED! I just got tied tighter on a closer leash and made it more agrivating. Last night the marriage topic got brought up about one of her friends and I stated my thought and views about marriage. SOMETHING I SHOULD HAVE DONE YEARS AGO! She blew up at me and chewed my ear off the entire way home on our trip home from the bar.
Then when I dropped her off cause I didn't want to hear her any longer, but then she bitched me out online. Now I've been planning on setting up a time to tell her all my feelings and how there were very few I still had and the realationship for the both of us was quite dull and agrivating and I needed both of us to see this. But last night was the last straw and forced me to rethink this almost 3yr realationship. The next day I had everything I wanted to say on paper, called her up, and told her I needed to get out what I needed to say(I was going to do it in person but she minipulates my words and thoughts so eaily the phone was deffinately better) and I need her to listen, she did for the most part and at the end sounded kinda upset with maybe a tiny tearing and a little ticked off but it seems like it could have been a lot worse.
I just want to thank all the posts that were written about what to do. I was just browsing the forum when I saw the realationsip posts but it deffinately had some good insite. So the final breakoff technique was, kinda "like a bandaide, right off" but it was informative so she could better herself and it was straight forward and comepletely honest and clear. I learned a lot from this realationship as it was my first and I do not regret it. But thanks to everyone here for all the input.
ZCP is in effect>>>>>
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Then when I dropped her off cause I didn't want to hear her any longer, but then she bitched me out online. Now I've been planning on setting up a time to tell her all my feelings and how there were very few I still had and the realationship for the both of us was quite dull and agrivating and I needed both of us to see this. But last night was the last straw and forced me to rethink this almost 3yr realationship. The next day I had everything I wanted to say on paper, called her up, and told her I needed to get out what I needed to say(I was going to do it in person but she minipulates my words and thoughts so eaily the phone was deffinately better) and I need her to listen, she did for the most part and at the end sounded kinda upset with maybe a tiny tearing and a little ticked off but it seems like it could have been a lot worse.
I just want to thank all the posts that were written about what to do. I was just browsing the forum when I saw the realationsip posts but it deffinately had some good insite. So the final breakoff technique was, kinda "like a bandaide, right off" but it was informative so she could better herself and it was straight forward and comepletely honest and clear. I learned a lot from this realationship as it was my first and I do not regret it. But thanks to everyone here for all the input.
ZCP is in effect>>>>>
Happy
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