with all my intellectual might, it took me a YEAR to get my step dad to quit.
shrug.. it was brutal. they totally fvking brainwashed the dude

he stopped goign to church, was always away at convensions, had meetings here at the hosue with all these hicks from Richmond..it was really awful.
Worst of all, these people were in my FVKING HOME, and pestering me about their sh!t. He too wouldn't stop.
I finally put my foot down and told him something like this:
Francisco, you have atalent few pocess. you have the ability to wield wood like no man I have ever met, and seeing you throwing your life away for what is obviously a dead end is jsut saddening. Me and my mom won't hate or loath you, but we do and will continue to feel pity that you are throughing your talents away. YOu know I love you, and would do anythign to help you, but havign to listen to you preach this stuff and see you ignore things you used to like like goign to church and stuff, is just depressing.
We are in the process of starting our own contracting business right now.
We jsut had yet another 12+hr day ..I am exhausted...and couldn't be happier.
If anything, his quixstar episode is what motivates me.
BTW, he rakes in $80k by himself...we are hoping to pull well over 6 figures as a team this year...
All I telll them if they ever bother me is that my goal in life is to bring meanign to my life. Their organizations remove meaning from my life. I do not want to be rich. I want to work for every fvking dime, thorugh the mud and rain, so then, whatever it is that I make, even if I live day by day, is worth the world to me.
Edit: and my step dad is now a sunday school teacher at his church and regularly helps out
<---doesn't goes to church but very glad to see my step dad doing well and I support him everyday 100%