she is in the "look and slap my ass" position. If you had a daughter (or gf) that did that, you would be beating the living shit out of anyone who looked at her ass.
I am sure you think this...but in reality you'd be that poor old man all beat up with a daughter crying over "daddy I didn't do anything wrong!!!!".
I have beat down your types. Just because I was flirting and having fun with your daughter doesn't mean I was raping her. Fuck, the day my ex-wife and I found out she was pregnant (we weren't married then), I called her dad up to tell him I wanted to have a discussion with him, her mother and us.
He slammed the phone down saying "YOU AREN'T MARRYING MY DAUGHTER!"
Anywho...long story short, he was an ordained minister...she grew up home-schooled then in Christian school. They caused her to lose our baby...
We still married. Lasted 4.5 years after. She broke her neck, got hooked on drugs and her parents then defied my wishes again to get her professional help on the drugs saying it was all me.
She's now in a relationship with a black guy that's just a travelling musician (they were racist, I personally don't care and I have grown to loath all black people are criminals), she posts up pics almost every month or so of her passing out somewhere with a fifth, tits out etc....people still call me almost every month looking for her and asking for money. They don't have much, but she's having fun. They travel town to town and do gigs. She used to claim she was an Architect. Now that's gone from her profiles.
In the end, your daughter after 16 or so will set her own path. If you did the RIGHT thing prior to that you will be ok. If you ruled with an iron fist and stomped on her dreams at 9, by 18 she will be stomping on yours.
Don't expect her at your funeral to be wearing black and being somber.