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littlegoku

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: littlegoku
Your dissertation in your first post implies that Asians are " taking advantage of it just a bit," , which is ludicrous.
Not all Asians, in fact very few have cultures similar to that of the Japanese.

In China for example, such a belief, that "married men are not allowed to have a girlfriend, but it's okay to have a sex friend, so long as they pay for it with money, and not their heart" is considered wanton.
I don't know why it's a big deal. That statement was made tongue in cheek and I thought it was obvious.

Clarification: I knew asians were philosophical about everything... but I think the Japanese are taking advantage of it just a bit, don't you?

:beer:

se7enty7: you can stfp
 

Mookow

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Originally posted by: Rage187
My friend at work(Gopal) is from India (Bangalore).
He's getting married in 2 weeks.
He got to pick his bride from 10-20 different pictures.
His mom's job was to get the pictures of the 10-20 different girls.

= India peeps pwn

My co-worker is from India, went back to get married. Same set-up as you described. The marriage ceremony was a year ago. She wont be over in the USA for another 6 months. In the meantime he has visited there several times. He still hasnt gotten anything more than kissing, no tongue.

Bwhahahhaha, someone is getting used for a ticket into the USA.
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: Rage187
My friend at work(Gopal) is from India (Bangalore).
He's getting married in 2 weeks.
He got to pick his bride from 10-20 different pictures.
His mom's job was to get the pictures of the 10-20 different girls.

= India peeps pwn

My co-worker is from India, went back to get married. Same set-up as you described. The marriage ceremony was a year ago. She wont be over in the USA for another 6 months. In the meantime he has visited there several times. He still hasnt gotten anything more than kissing, no tongue.

Bwhahahhaha, someone is getting used for a ticket into the USA.
Well not even that... how do you expect someone who was "chosen" to love you and mean it ? I think the guy has it pretty bad also. Do they have no choice or are they just following custom ?
 

ThaGrandCow

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Originally posted by: Pepsei
But the last episode of Southpark, I learned that Japanese men have small PE-ness.

<CEO>American have BIG PENIS!!! Japanese have small penis. </CEO>
<asian flunkie>HEHEHE... SO small </asian flunkie>
 

LongCoolMother

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: littlegoku
Your dissertation in your first post implies that Asians are " taking advantage of it just a bit," , which is ludicrous.
Not all Asians, in fact very few have cultures similar to that of the Japanese.

In China for example, such a belief, that "married men are not allowed to have a girlfriend, but it's okay to have a sex friend, so long as they pay for it with money, and not their heart" is considered wanton.
I don't know why it's a big deal. That statement was made tongue in cheek and I thought it was obvious.

Clarification: I knew asians were philosophical about everything... but I think the Japanese are taking advantage of it just a bit, don't you?

good. japanese do not represent all asians. in other (and i would guess most) parts of asia a "sex partner" is unethical.
 

ThaGrandCow

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Originally posted by: littlegoku
Your dissertation in your first post implies that Asians are " taking advantage of it just a bit," , which is ludicrous.
Not all Asians, in fact very few have cultures similar to that of the Japanese.

In China for example, such a belief, that "married men are not allowed to have a girlfriend, but it's okay to have a sex friend, so long as they pay for it with money, and not their heart" is considered wanton.

The joke involving the food item made from some meat rolled inside of a large piece of noodle is right there on my mind, I just can't seem to form it into words to type on my keyboard :(
 

Mookow

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: Mookow
My co-worker is from India, went back to get married. Same set-up as you described. The marriage ceremony was a year ago. She wont be over in the USA for another 6 months. In the meantime he has visited there several times. He still hasnt gotten anything more than kissing, no tongue.

Bwhahahhaha, someone is getting used for a ticket into the USA.
Well not even that... how do you expect someone who was "chosen" to love you and mean it ? I think the guy has it pretty bad also. Do they have no choice or are they just following custom ?

He met roughly 20 girls (that he selected out of a catalog of roughly 300-400) breifly, and then made his decision.
 

rh71

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Aug 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: LongCoolMother
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: littlegoku
Your dissertation in your first post implies that Asians are " taking advantage of it just a bit," , which is ludicrous.
Not all Asians, in fact very few have cultures similar to that of the Japanese.

In China for example, such a belief, that "married men are not allowed to have a girlfriend, but it's okay to have a sex friend, so long as they pay for it with money, and not their heart" is considered wanton.
I don't know why it's a big deal. That statement was made tongue in cheek and I thought it was obvious.

Clarification: I knew asians were philosophical about everything... but I think the Japanese are taking advantage of it just a bit, don't you?

good. japanese do not represent all asians. in other (and i would guess most) parts of asia a "sex partner" is unethical.
Alright, this is getting to me. When I said "but they're taking advantage of it just a bit" ... I did mean the Japanese OUT OF THE ASIAN RACE are taking advantage of the general asian tendency to be philosophical. Is it really IMPOSSIBLE to see this ?! :disgust:
 

Svnla

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It is amazing to see that some of you guys showed how much you have between your brains by your **Blanket** statements and opinions WITHOUT any facts or evidences/researches to back you up.

Do you know the old saying....It is better to keep your mouth shut and let others think you are dumb ...than open your mouth and REMOVE ALL DOUBTS!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

adelphi

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well there's an old chinese saying, don't ever feed your wife full til she's past 40

cos once their bellies get food itellya, they start wanting other stuff