Gather up a half dozen candles.... (light them)... then run a hot bath..
(I prefer bubbles

)..... put on Adagio for Strings... (from Platoon)...
and just sink down in that tub..... and breathe deep and slow (ok you can think of me at this point)....
Then when we're all through...er I mean when you are all through with your hot bath (say 25 minutes should do "without me"

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Take half a dozen pillows (don't light them).... put them in a tight circle in front of your fireplace (if you don't have one...... I do)...
Pour yourself a nice glass of Chard..... and snuggle up (next to me would work best).... and .... and.......... zzzzzzzzz.....zzzzzzzz....
snor....zzzzzzzzzzz.......zzzzzzzzzzz....
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