Is working out consistently with weights (as a female) worth it?

MrsBugi

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I have been working out with a personal trainer 2x/week for the past 4 months. I am happy that I can finally do push-ups and pull-ups, but was disappointed to have lost so much strength after taking a 2-week vacation and not working out during that time. I work out primarily for health reasons, as I am getting older (currently 27) and would like to maintain/increase strength and stamina.

My normal workout routine involves going to the gym for 1-2 hours/day, 4-5 days/week. When I am not with my personal trainer (1 hour each time, 2x/week, weights and machines only), I take classes (yoga, core conditioning, "boot camp" workouts, etc.) or use the elliptical machine.

I guess my question is two-fold:

1. Is it worth it for me to continue to use weights in my fitness routine when I am significantly weaker after not working out steadily for 2 weeks (taking a 2-week break)? I don't want to get big and bulky, but I would like to stay strong. Can this be achieved through classes alone?

2. Is personal training worth it? It's not cheap, and I'm not sure the results justify the cost.
 

paulxcook

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Maybe to get a basic idea of what to do, personal training would be worth it. But after a while, once you get the concepts, I would think you could handle it on your own.
 

GenHoth

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Paul covered it pretty well. Use the trainer to get an idea of what to cover. Then do it yourself. As for weights, they are always worth it. In my experience women who lift weights have always had a large head start on those who don't!
 

SearchMaster

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My wife is almost 38 and lifts weights several times a week. She constantly gets comments about how good she looks, it makes her especially happy when they come from teenagers :). Just the other day her best friend, who is a teacher, made a comment about my wife and one of the kids said, "the one with the killer body?"

Yeah, I recommend it.
 

Alienwho

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I'm starting to take my fiance to work out with me because she's really interested in it. I don't want her to follow my routine around, but i'm not sure what girls do in their workouts. What's a good girly workout? So far i've just had her focus on legs/abs and some arm stuff.
 

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Originally posted by: MrsBugi

1. Is it worth it for me to continue to use weights in my fitness routine when I am significantly weaker after not working out steadily for 2 weeks (taking a 2-week break)? I don't want to get big and bulky, but I would like to stay strong. Can this be achieved through classes alone?
Lift weights and lift heavy. Unless you're eating a gainer's diet (and/or taking some kind of hormones) you won't get "big and bulky." Lifting before cardio will actually increase the number of calories you would've otherwise burned if you did the cardio without lifting before. (EDIT FOR CLARITY: I mean that 1 hour of running burns X calories, but 1 hour of running after lifting burns X+Y calories, ignoring the calories you also burned doing the lifting itself)

SVT Cobra or Special K (I forget which, maybe both) often comment on this general fear in women that they will end up looking like those huge female bodybuilders if they aren't careful, as if one could "accidentally" put on 30lbs of solid muscle by picking up weights instead of doing spinning classes. That's just not the way it works. :)

2. Is personal training worth it? It's not cheap, and I'm not sure the results justify the cost.
Insofar as a personal trainer can teach you how to workout properly, they are useful. After you've learned proper lifting and exercise technique, they are useless except as motivators to those that can't properly motivate themselves.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: MrsBugi
I guess my question is two-fold:

1. Is it worth it for me to continue to use weights in my fitness routine when I am significantly weaker after not working out steadily for 2 weeks (taking a 2-week break)? I don't want to get big and bulky, but I would like to stay strong. Can this be achieved through classes alone?

2. Is personal training worth it? It's not cheap, and I'm not sure the results justify the cost.

1) Yes. Most women will get osteoroposis due to them not doing any weights when they were younger. Doing weights will make your bones denser and keep osteoroposis away from you!

Yes not training for 2 weeks will drop your strength levels. The longer you train the shorter your strength drop will be. You have only been training for 4months also. Women are generally weaker to start off with compared to men so your strength drop will be faster coupled with the relatively short training period

2) If you know the basics ditch the personal trainer. Sure one is good to get to get to grips with the basics. Try gumtree or craigslist to find a training partner. What about the husband? Get him down as well and you can spot each other :)

Most women are SCARED of weights. They naively think they will balloon up to look like the incredible Hulk! They won't, not enough testerone in their body to get them that big.

It's very good to see you doing weights!

Get a training partner and get on the weights. Your body will be so much harder and in shape then the women that do not go near weights. Just watch your body change over the next 6-8-12 months and watch the women that only do CV get no change at all...

Squats, Deadlifts, bench press, pull ups, dips, bent forward rows, incline sit ups, hyper extensions,. Pick a few exercises and bash it out. You don't need anything more advance imo until at least 6months time.

I've gotten past gfs to train at the gym with me and they love it. Once they know what to do and that they will not get huge they love it. One loves to squat and she has an amazing ass and gorgeous legs :thumbsup:

Koing
 

TallBill

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Yes, my wife does everything that I do during workouts and is loving it. Her body needs more stretching then mine so I kinda screwed up on that but she's feeling the difference already.
 

MrsBugi

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Thank you for the feedback. My trainer is gone until mid-January and today I did a usual routine with weights myself. He is pressuring me to buy more personal training sessions but since I know how to use the weights and equipment, I think I will decline but continue to work out on my own, with weights and without.
 

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I suppose the personal trainer also depends how you feel about them. Like how you feel when you are with them, how they are training you. I go to a trainer 3 times a week and have been for the past 3 months. I enjoy her she's fun especially since I know absolutely no one to go to the gym with, and the fact that she's constantly teaching me so much about everything I'm doing and whatnot, and not to mention she changes my weights for me :)
 

GoatMonkey

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Women should definitely lift weights. Building muscle makes it easier to burn fat. You will not balloon up with muscle overnight.

I wish it worked that way, I've been trying for years to build muscle mass. It takes a lot of time and effort.

I like working out with a trainer also. I may add more sessions once I get going on a new job. They watch you to make sure you do the exercises right, and push you so that you make gains that you might not have otherwise.
 

TallBill

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Originally posted by: MrsBugi
Thank you for the feedback. My trainer is gone until mid-January and today I did a usual routine with weights myself. He is pressuring me to buy more personal training sessions but since I know how to use the weights and equipment, I think I will decline but continue to work out on my own, with weights and without.

See how things work out on your own for a while. Have some other gym-rat check your form if absolutely in question.
 

SVT Cobra

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Hell yes!

And for the guys getting their SO to work out, just show them how to use machines and let em be. Help them out when you see they need it and they will learn.

Just don't waste your $$$ on a PT they pray on women.
 

SludgeFactory

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Originally posted by: MrsBugi
I work out primarily for health reasons, as I am getting older (currently 27) and would like to maintain/increase strength and stamina.
When I saw "older" I wasn't expecting to see 27 for your age. :laugh:

If you want strength, then you need to do some type of resistance exercise. I wouldn't be that discouraged by losing some after 2 weeks, detraining is to be expected, and the strength will come back fast.

Putting a load through your bones will gradually increase their density as Koing pointed out, strength training is generally a good idea for women for that very reason.

Moving big heavy stuff around just burns a lot of calories period. If you never gained an ounce of muscle, I'd still do it just for the immediate and sustained calorie burn that you get from activating energy hungry muscle tissue. My experience has been that I keep weight off easier with lifting alone than with cardio alone, plus it's a ton more fun.
 

Muse

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Originally posted by: SearchMaster
My wife is almost 38 and lifts weights several times a week. She constantly gets comments about how good she looks, it makes her especially happy when they come from teenagers :). Just the other day her best friend, who is a teacher, made a comment about my wife and one of the kids said, "the one with the killer body?"

Yeah, I recommend it.

Most of the women who visit my gym don't go into the weight training area. However, I think it's a good idea. I think the concept that adding muscle will make a woman look less sexy isn't valid in most cases. It takes much more work and dedication to put on the amount of muscle that would make a woman look unfeminine than almost any woman is going to put in. OTOH, the strength they are likely to gain is going to contribute in many ways to better living: strength, endurance, energy and sexiness!

I've never used a personal trainer, personally. I used to watch fitness shows produced by top weight training professionals on ESPN, recording them and rewatching them. I'm not cutting edge knowledgeable, but I pretty much know what I'm doing. I agree, that once you know what you are doing, you can go it alone. Or, you can get a training partner. If money isn't an issue, a PT won't hurt, certainly.
 

Bleeding Jawa

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You sound as though your basic goal is to get/stay healthy.
The generic "Five Areas of Health-Related Fitness" are:
- Cardiovascular Fitness
- Muscular Endurance
- Muscular Strength
- Flexibility
- Body Composition (ie percentage of body fat to lean tissues)

1. It it worth it weight train? Absolutely. It has nothing to do with gender. If anything, women in general may have more to gain because they tend to do fewer muscle-developing activities in general. Weight training will directly increase your muscular strength & endurance, and may indirectly benefit your body composition (bigger/stronger muscles burn more energy/food).

99% of women will never get "bulky" muscles because they simply don't have the hormones to do so. Don't ever compare to female body-builders. They look like men (or overgrown men) because they are injecting testosterone. Plus, they work out 8+ hours a day, eat a TON of food, and take steroids. It's not going to happen....don't worry about. Women are generally more level-headed about their fitness routines than their male counterparts. Men may say they want to "stay in shape," but they mean "I want to get big." That isn't always even possible for most men, and it shouldn't even be a concern for most women.

What you CAN do is make your muscles stronger and increase their endurance. Perceived strength is increased in a couple ways: increasing their effectiveness and increasing the diameter of the muscle fibers (hypertrophy). As a generalization, women will not experience as much hypertrophy or growth as men, but your muscles can and will grow a reasonable amount, and over time, you are bound to be pleased with the results, but in terms of your ability and in terms of aesthetics.

As far as the effectivness of your muscles, you are likely to see really large gains in "strength" during your first few weeks of working out, but it really doesn't mean much. You might start out bench pressing 100 lbs, and 3 weeks later, you can do 130 lbs for a 30% increase. Unfortunately, you didn't get 30% stronger. You simply practiced for a few weeks and essentially got better at bench pressing. Your brain, nervous system and muscles improved their ability to coordinate together in order to do that particular exercise better. Unfortnately, that increase doesn't necessarily transfer over into other activities or even other lifts. In your case, if you had only been working out for a few months, you may have seen a "decrease" after taking a 2-week break, but what likely happened is that you were more "out of practice" than "out of shape." While you might feel a bit of difference after taking two weeks off, it's really not enough time to lose much of your basic fitness level unless you are an athlete trying to maintain a peak level of performance. In your particular situation, you are really just getting to the point (after 4 months) where you might start seeing genuine improvements in your fitness level and health. Long story, short...DON'T STOP! :)

2. Is personal training worth it? It can be IF you have the money to spend on it AND you get someone who is GENUINELY qualified and GENUINELY cares.
- To be a personal trainer, you do NOT need a college education, much less a degree in Exercise Physiology, Physical Education, or Kinesiology.
- To be a personal trainer, you do NOT need any certification. Some may be "certified," but basically all that means is that they paid some money and MAYBE had to take a test. If your trainer is certified through the National Strength Coaches Association (NSCA), then they at least took a somewhat challenging test to get their certification, but really that's all it means. Other organization are even less demanding.
- To be a personal trainer, you do NOT need to know a darn thing about fitness...you just need to be able to convice people that you do.

During my college days, I was a manager at a local health club (big chain that starts with a B). I was paid strictly on commission. I was not paid if the customers got in shape. I was not paid if the club was clean or people were happy. I was paid to sign up new members and get their money. Period. I personally had a background in exercise science, but most of my peers did not. The training program consisted of 5 days of BASIC fitness information and 5 days of sales training. During about a years time at this club, I was "shopped" by 3 local car dealers. That is, the managers came in and posed as a customer to see how good I was as a salesman. I had a Chevy dealer and a Saturn dealer try to get me to leave the club and come sell cars. When you are dealing with health club people, you are generally dealing with used car dealers. Some may be nice, and some may be knowledgable, but most of the time, they are only paid to sell you something...always keep that in mind. With personal trainers, it can be even worse because most of the time, they don't have to answer to anyone as most work for themselves.

There ARE good trainers out there, but I would go so far as to say that most are not. If you genuinely feel that you benefit from having someone there to "motivate" you and you can afford it, then by all means go for it. If you are simply looking for someone to teach you the basics, you might look into taking a basic weightlifting class through your club, your local rec department or through your local community college. The information will probably be pretty basic, but that's ok. It doesn't have to be complicated.

Sorry if I got a bit overzealous. I've been away from anandtech for several years and just logged back in. I was excited to find this forum. Since I am kind of out of the loop on current computer hardware, I thought I'd chime in on something I do know a little about. :) For whatever it's worth...I have a BS in Physical Education, MS in Biomechanics, CSCS (Certified Strength & Conditioning Specialist), have been a Physical Education teacher for 11 years (including weight lifting courses) track & field coach for 14 years, and as I mentioned, have many horror stories to share about the health-club industry.

Good Luck !!!