Is this sort of crap a common occurance??

[Isla]

ROTFLMAO at lucidguy!

Some of us have never lacked for willing partners and yet still hold on to the ridiculous belief that sex is somehow sacred.

What do you make of 'attractive' people who associate sex with love and long term relationships?

 

[Bateluer]

<< I was talking to a friend of mine (female) who's away at school over AIM. She starts talking about this friend of her's who has a a fiance but also 3 other &quot;boyfriends.&quot; She's basically sleeping with 4 guys. And my friend kept on going on about her getting a lot of &quot;ass&quot; and she said that she always sends her these graphic emails with the details. I'm pretty disgusted at this point, so I ask what the hell is her problem? Then she (friend) starts getting all defensive for this whorebag friend of hers and we start an arguement (hehe, we always argue). I called this friend of her's a slut (wouldn't you?) and it just generally pisses me off that people are so direspectful. Can you imagine if your girlfriend, let alone FIANCE was sleeping with 3 other guys? And I couldn't believe my friend was defending her by spouting off BS such as &quot;to each their own.&quot; I also said this little whore will get what's coming to her (maybe an STD or getting pregnant). Then my friend left a little mad, but I don't give two sh!ts.

anyway, is this kind of crap common? I mean I've never even heard of a guy sleeping around that much. blah. this is just sickening to me and I don't know how I'd react if I found out something like this was happening to me. :| I know the ladies in here are better than this, so please post and give me some hope. :frown:

PS. my friend and this girl are 20. >>



Some guys. . . . :disgust:

1:1 people, 1:1

 

[lucidguy]

<< What do you make of 'attractive' people who associate sex with love and long term relationships? >>



I spoke of attractive people having sex on their own terms.

If you're an attractive person, and if you have decided that your terms are to save yourself for marriage, then great! Suit yourself!

But most attractive people know better.

EDIT: Changed a word to clarify meaning.

 

[StageLeft]

lucidguy

You sound a bit like Lozer.

Anyway your second last post is so hopelessly clueless that all you did was confirm Pulp's post that you have never had a meaningful relationship. You keep screwing the bar-dirtys until you're 40 and we'll see if it makes you a happy person.

 

[pulpp]

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<< What do you make of 'attractive' people who associate sex with love and long term relationships? >>



I spoke of attractive people having sex on their own terms.

If you're an attractive person, and if you have decided that your terms are to save yourself for marriage, then great! Suit yourself!

But most attractive people know better.

EDIT: Changed a word to clarify meaning. >>




lol, i see sex education have worked its wonders with lucid, yea just have a condom and be fvck happy

 

[lucidguy]

<< your second last post is so hopelessly clueless >>



It doesn't agree with your position. That makes it clueless?

Anyone who disagrees with you is clueless?

What a guy.

 

[TripleJ]

To answer the question, I don't think it's too common. Especially not with 4 partners!

All the guys must know about this surely. Polygamy with 4 guys would be damn hard to get away with if they didn't know. I was thinking that it would be too hard to get away with with 2 girls(thankfully, I didn't follow through with it). Screwing around with 4 guys is pretty unbelievable, literally. I doubt that this is actually true. Sounds like this chic is just trying to impress your friend with her polygamous bullsh!t.

 

[Bellgoody]

Thoughts:
Does the fiance know? If so, then there is NO problem or the they would not still be betrothed.

*No one commented on the virtue or lack thereof re:the other 3 men. Why?

*What right does anyone have to pass judgement on anyone not directly involved in this foursome/moresome?

If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with...or more if it's consenting.

 

[kami]

The fiancee does not know, but I don't see how this dirty secret of hers will last long. Word will get around.

 

[StageLeft]

Anyone who disagrees with you is clueless?

If that person's opinion is based upon idiocy yes, that makes it clueless.

*What right does anyone have to pass judgement on anyone not directly involved in this foursome/moresome?

People judge people all the time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with judging a person's actions. If you don't judge you have nothing to go by yourself.

 

[mrCide]

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<< your second last post is so hopelessly clueless >>



It doesn't agree with your position. That makes it clueless?

Anyone who disagrees with you is clueless?

What a guy. >>



So, are you trying to stir up a frenzy in some of these threads? You talk as if you're mature yet what you say is pure ignorant jibberish. In this thread and others, unfortunately.