Is this sort of crap a common occurance??

[kami]

I was talking to a friend of mine (female) who's away at school over AIM. She starts talking about this friend of her's who has a a fiance but also 3 other "boyfriends." She's basically sleeping with 4 guys. And my friend kept on going on about her getting a lot of "ass" and she said that she always sends her these graphic emails with the details. I'm pretty disgusted at this point, so I ask what the hell is her problem? Then she (friend) starts getting all defensive for this whorebag friend of hers and we start an arguement (hehe, we always argue). I called this friend of her's a slut (wouldn't you?) and it just generally pisses me off that people are so direspectful. Can you imagine if your girlfriend, let alone FIANCE was sleeping with 3 other guys? And I couldn't believe my friend was defending her by spouting off BS such as "to each their own." I also said this little whore will get what's coming to her (maybe an STD or getting pregnant). Then my friend left a little mad, but I don't give two sh!ts.

anyway, is this kind of crap common? I mean I've never even heard of a guy sleeping around that much. blah. this is just sickening to me and I don't know how I'd react if I found out something like this was happening to me. :| I know the ladies in here are better than this, so please post and give me some hope. :frown:

PS. my friend and this girl are 20.

 

[khc200]

was she the one on jerry springer?

 

[Platypus]

That is disturbing dude, I would have said something to. Whatever happened to being faithful?!

 

[GL]

She said "to each their own" and then got massively offended by your opinion? Hahaha.

 

[lucidguy]

This sort of thing is not common among geeks, and people who befriend or date geeks.

This sort of thing is indeed common (reasonably common) among the so-called normal people.

 

[pulpp]

that is sad...

 

[The Dancing Peacock]

no, this girl probably has some serious mental issues...issues with sexual intimacy etc.....



late.


TDP

 

[Argo]

<< This sort of thing is indeed common (reasonably common) among the so-called normal people. >>



Not true. This sort of thing isn't common at all. I know girls who who are flirting/going out with several guys, but sleeping with all of them, especially if one of the guys is her fiance, this is really sick.

 

[HansHurt]

Welcome to the '90's and '00's dude. It digusts me also. There are tons of high school girls around here that have slept w/ like 12 guys by the age of 15. This is why I almost exclusively date European women, they are not as sucked into the media/music generated playa attitude that seems to be pervasive throughout the younger gen. in N.America.

 

[lucidguy]

Whores are an essential part of any society.

Where would we be without whores?

Please do not discriminate against whores.

 

[shiner]

God bless the sluts and the fine work they do.

Acutally I find it sickening but it seems to be very pervasive in our culture today. What can you expect when for the last 8 years we had a President doing the very same thing and setting a bad example for kids.

 

[Elita1]

Wow, that sounds really sad.
I can assure you there are lots of girls out there with an infinitely better sense of integrity and dignity. That girl must have some serious issues/insecurities to have to resort to going around with 3 other guys. Not to mention no respect for her fiancee.

 

[lucidguy]

<< That girl must have some serious issues/insecurities to have to resort to going around with 3 other guys. >>



But I bet she's damn phine.

And I bet she's getting more and better sex than you ever had.

I personally am no sex fiend, but I know better than to rag on others who have more fulfilling sex lives than my own. This sort of attitude is very childish. Stop it.

 

[Azraele]

That is really sad.

What's worse is that I've known people like that (my freshman year roomie for one :|), but thankfully, not all girls are like that. Don't let a few bad apples ruin your imperssion of the bunch.

 

[GL]

Oh Optimus.....time to brag and be rewarded for it

 

[Triumph]

<< This sort of thing is not common among geeks, and people who befriend or date geeks. >>



one of the biggest geeks i ever met was a father at age 18, with a 33 year old woman, who was married. him and the woman first hit it off in the back seat of her geo while the husband was driving. talk about a trailor trash geek.

 

[lucidguy]

Someone please tell me what is exactly wrong with having a satisfying, fulfilling sexual life.

Of course, if one does not practice safe sex, then he or she is plain ignorant, and it doesn't matter whether he or she goes with one or ten partners at any given time. He or she will still spread diseases around.

But assuming safe sex, what exactly is the problem with having more than one sexual partner?

 

[LordMaul]

I['ll solve it all. Give me this &quot;fiance's&quot; email address and phone #.

Problem Solved.

 

[StageLeft]

Hey Kami send us some of those graphic emails

lucidguy

How old are you?

This sort of thing is indeed common (reasonably common) among the so-called normal people.

So called TRASH. I've never personally heard of stuff like this except on springer. Who you hanging around with, man?

I know better than to rag on others who have more fulfilling sex lives than my own. This sort of attitude is very childish. Stop it.

Well you're not going to be saying that when your fiance acts this way now will you? Screwing 4 guys is one thing. That is a sex life. Having a fiance and screwing other guys is not a sex life - thats trash. When you grow up you'll realize that this isn't harmless whoring. This is the sort of thing that degenerates into a quick divorce and a couple of kids running around with their dad cause their knocked up HIV mom is too dumb to be a real parent.

edit: you're clearing missing the point. This isn't about a healthy sex life. Screw 10 people for all I care. I think that anybody with a shred of decency does not get engaged to their boyfriend/girlfriend and then screw 3 other people at the same time. That is the difference and its a critical one.

 

[lucidguy]

<< him and the woman first hit it off in the back seat of her geo while the husband was driving. >>



Something tells me that in that situation, the husband was consenting, because he must definitely have known what was going on.

Which is fine. If the husband enjoys being cuckolded, and enjoys watching it happen, that's his pleasure. Different strokes for different folks.

 

[Isla]

To tell you the truth, I did know 2 girls like that when I was younger.

One had been in an incestuous relationship with her father AND brother. Her father was a powerful member in the community and she was torn between loving him and hating him. Last I heard, she left a message with my parents telling them that she had found God and wanted me to know she was OK. She and I were close friends in junior high school... that is how I found out about her.

The other girl was the daughter of a prominent doctor in our community but she had been smoking pot since she was 8. Most of the time she got it from her father's nightstand. I did everything I could to be a good influence on her but finally I had to give up.

I sincerely believe that most women who act this way are deeply hurt. Wherever you see a 'whore', I see a little girl who has been terribly wounded.

Just my .02

 

[kami]

lucidguy, I would think some kind of commitment should go along with having a fiancee.

Lord Maul, LOL. yeah that's what I'd like to do.

Skoorb, I'm workin on it.

 

[pulpp]

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<< That girl must have some serious issues/insecurities to have to resort to going around with 3 other guys. >>



But I bet she's damn phine.

And I bet she's getting more and better sex than you ever had.

I personally am no sex fiend, but I know better than to rag on others who have more fulfilling sex lives than my own. This sort of attitude is very childish. Stop it. >>




sorry lucid, but what you said is even sadder, i assume sex to you is just a physical pleasue? sorta of like humping a doll?

i take it for granted you never cared enough for someone or felt loved enough by someone to see whats making love with someone is all about.

when you have the fortune of making love to someone you admire and love for who they are, and all the little things about them first, you will see the true meaning of it.

we are not just animals humping each other. at least thats not how i see it

 

[kami]

well said pulppstah

 

[lucidguy]

<< i assume sex to you is just a physical pleasue? >>



Sex is just a physical pleasure.

Unattractive or antisocial people usually have to resort to months of courting and dating to get sex, so they often associate sex with long-term relationships and love.

Attractive people can get sex on their own terms. Sometimes they prefer sex as part of a longer term relationship, which is what you call &quot;making love&quot;, and at other times, they prefer meaningless short term sex, which is just that, sex.

Just because you're not attractive enough to have sex on your own terms, you cannot rag on others who can and who do.

EDIT: Corrected typo.