Hehe i dont really believe all he says, but for this guys situation, I would really listen to Tom. A lot of stuff he says makes sense and do work.
-fk
Hehe i dont really believe all he says, but for this guys situation, I would really listen to Tom. A lot of stuff he says makes sense and do work.
-fk
He needs to see a psychologist before he actually does kill himself. You can save your friend's life if you really care about him
Sometimes some ppl just dont get the point, and wont give up.
Maybe its just tough love.
Your opinion is biased as you are his friend, and probaly dont see things from her side.
Sometimes the best thing to do is just slam the crap outta someone and force them to hit rock bottom. Otherwise they go on and on and on and on and have this stupid hope of something thats impossible.
Maybe its just tough love.
Your opinion is biased as you are his friend, and probaly dont see things from her side.
Sometimes the best thing to do is just slam the crap outta someone and force them to hit rock bottom. Otherwise they go on and on and on and on and have this stupid hope of something thats impossible.
As mean as she was, I wouldnt want the stress of someone who is going to kill themselves if they cant be with me. Ive been there, and its not pretty. I didnt ask for that. She has every right to be mad at him.
Well maybe not mad, but I dunno. Think about how screwed up she must be feeling cause this kid keeps trying to kill himself cause of HER. Thats too big a burden to be asked to carry. No wonder she wants out.
Well maybe not mad, but I dunno. Think about how screwed up she must be feeling cause this kid keeps trying to kill himself cause of HER. Thats too big a burden to be asked to carry. No wonder she wants out.
Man talk to your friend, tell him he doesn't need this. There's better girls out there for him. Just tell him to forget about her.
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I swear to God that you just typed my life story when I was in high school. Except for the fact of actually trying to kill myself. Other than that that is my life story throughout 9-11th grade. I feel for your friend, I know exactly what he's going through. I've been there before. Man that sucks a fat one.
She's a bitch, he's got issues.
Tell him to run...as far and as fast as possible. Also, send him to get some help. He obviously needs it.
Tell him to run...as far and as fast as possible. Also, send him to get some help. He obviously needs it.
lose that bitch, as you get older you will realize that a ton of women are ruled by the power of their pussy. end of story. your friends bitch is a mental case, he isn't too far behind. just tell him he will be okay without her, even better. her vagina is not the only one. he just needs to step back and take another look at the whole picture, not now in the moment and reflect on the reality of situation, not be ruled by the immediate emotion. if she said she was going to start seeing other guys, good for her, i hope she gets a disease.
he can't changer her, she is mental and she obviously love hurting people emotionally. she will get hers, mark my words. they all do. she will probably end up pregnant with a guy who beats her.
was this your friends first love?
he can't changer her, she is mental and she obviously love hurting people emotionally. she will get hers, mark my words. they all do. she will probably end up pregnant with a guy who beats her.
was this your friends first love?
he doesn't need to forget about her,he needs some help to start remembering himself.[/
this is an excellent quote and so true.
I am against any violence to women....but with that one it would take a lot of restraint!....he is best out of that.
One of my girlfriends used to call me and then hang up if I said something which wasn't her way.....used to really p!ss me off!
One of my girlfriends used to call me and then hang up if I said something which wasn't her way.....used to really p!ss me off!
Your poor friend! He really does sound emotionally fragile (ok, WEAK), but we all know how it is to be SO into someone that we get caught up in the relationship and lose perspective (maybe not to the point of attempting suicide though).
When he gets past this, and he will, he'll be able to see it all very clearly... and hopefully that will prevent him from repeating this scenario. If he's in the hospital for the attempt, he'll have to be cleared by a mental health pro to go home (and that's when they get a referral for outpatient counseling).
And yes, the girl is mean, she's an f'ing creep.
When he gets past this, and he will, he'll be able to see it all very clearly... and hopefully that will prevent him from repeating this scenario. If he's in the hospital for the attempt, he'll have to be cleared by a mental health pro to go home (and that's when they get a referral for outpatient counseling).
And yes, the girl is mean, she's an f'ing creep.
Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
How would YOU know? I date younger men and I've never displayed ANY of the behaviors this girl did.
age has nothing to do with a person being mental. his girlfriend is mental, he needs to ditch her.
That's a load of crap. He's in there because of his own issues.
Anyway, they are both fvcked up and are better off without each other.
The fact that you call Tom Leykis' radio show "therapy" says a lot of sad things about you. Tom needs therapy himself.. never in my life have I heard someone as insecure as him. He shows it a lot on his show, when he'll occasionally go off on rants like "all you bitches in high school hated me then and now I'm screwing 10's!" - if he's in his 30's and still combatting "damage" done to him in HS, he's got plenty of issues of his own. And that's just one example.
As for how he gets 10's - I'd be willing to guess it ain't cause of his looks or personality, but what's sitting in that wallet tucked somewhere in that large ass of his. If this guy in question wants to attract more shallow headcases, then Tom is the way to go. Otherwise.. calling what he does "therapy" is a complete joke.
As for the poor guy, he needs to go out and get some professional help, see a doctor or something. As for her, wow. What a bitch. Definately not enough to give up on life over though. I think a lot of people here who make fun of him or claim he's "6-foot vagina" or something need to realize when you're in high school and around then, priorities can get messed up and they people can definately "lose" themselves in situations. Anyone on this board who's in their 30's should be able to attest that emotionally, they've matured greatly since their teenage days. You learn things and you learn how to cope w/ things. But when someone is young, probably already suffering from depression (which is a chemical imbalance, not just a state of mind - real depression is, at least), and taking abuse from this person he's grown attached to, it can blow up in his face and make it seem like his world is ending, especially if he's made that girl his world.
The people who ridicule this guy for feelings he probably has trouble controlling, and the actions he takes because of it, are just as bad as the little bitch that pushed him off the edge. I'd hate to see how those people would ever treat their friends if they were in the same situation.
Edit: And before I get flamed or something by everyone, yeah, I agree this guy has problems, as does she. I'm not in denial of that...it's just the mean things some people say about others in sad situations like this that drive me nuts. I guess I'm just naive or something by expecting people to have compassion for others in need of help.
I truly hope that no one really takes the advice from people of this forum. If they do they are idiots and deserve what they get.
It sounds like they both have problems. Him more so than her. If she can walk away and he can't he's the one that needs admiting.
She just needs to work on her people skills and learn to feel a bit more compasion.
The only advice I have for you would be to just be his friend. Show him there is more than life. Dont tell him, show him. Actions speak louder than words. If they didn't he wouldnt be so heart broken with her "actions" towards him.
Just a thought.
It sounds like they both have problems. Him more so than her. If she can walk away and he can't he's the one that needs admiting.
She just needs to work on her people skills and learn to feel a bit more compasion.
The only advice I have for you would be to just be his friend. Show him there is more than life. Dont tell him, show him. Actions speak louder than words. If they didn't he wouldnt be so heart broken with her "actions" towards him.
Just a thought.
Yeah, all too often there are people who are thinking and typing with their a$$es rather than their brains and hands.
Jamie
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