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Is this bad...?

Don't worry people, the OP itself will be in cliffs:

1. Had known this girl back in HS- not too close, we hung around several times then.

2. We met up recently (Both of us are fresh out of college, making the dough). I remember sort of being turned off because: A- she got really obese, B- her personality just turned me off- using profanity, etc... something just wasn't right.

3. Weeks later she asks me to be her date for her sister's wedding. I declined saying I was busy with traveling.

4. I talked to my friend about this situation. He says, "Go enjoy yourself- free food, free booze, get to meet potentially hot other bridesmaids." He made a good point.

5. Just today, she asks me again if she needs a date. This time I said yes.

For some reason I feel bad. There is no valid reason to, really. I'm not a fake person at all. And it feels like I'm fake because I'm going not because of her. Damn me for my straight-as-arrow personality...
 
Don't feel bad about going to a wedding to booze it up and mack on hot bridesmaids... Owen Wilson and Vince Vaughn did it and they turned out semi-ok. 😛
 
you are a fake person.

I can smell your fakeness from your fake post with your fake keyboard in your fake shirt with a fake logo. :roll:

you think too much. mr. fake.
 
Just tell her you are going as her friend and nothing more so she doesn't get her hopes up. It still beats going alone.
 
Originally posted by: MustangSVT
you are a fake person.

I can smell your fakeness from your fake post with your fake keyboard in your fake shirt with a fake logo. :roll:

you think too much. mr. fake.

lol
 
So you know for sure she doesn't want to just go as friends? What makes you think she wants something more than company at a wedding?
 
This isn't necessarily bad but you're putting yourself in a possible awkward and uncomfortable situation. I wouldn't have done it if I were you.

When she asked you to be her date did she specify that you two were going as friends? How did she actually ask you?
 
Dude take your chubby friend to the wedding b/c there will be plenty of hot chicks there and you can pretend to be mr. sensitive/nice guy who came with his old friend and get some numbers or more. Worst case you get hammered and bone the fattie. Just make sure it's not at your place.
 
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