Honda paint is shit. Every Honda/Acura I have owned or my family has owned has started oxidizing/failing within 6-8 years. All of them have had annual waxing, at minimum. The list of cars we've owned includes:
1996 Integra - red (oxidation)
2000 Odyssy - grey (spiderwebbing)
2001 CL - green (oxidation)
2005 TL - grey (spiderwebbing)
2008 civic - blue (oxidation)
The Toyotas, BMWs, Mercedes, and Mazdas haven't had any issues.
Could it be BECAUSE you did annual waxing?
You do realize when you wax the car you take off layer of clearcoat/paint right?
: D
What you said is true though, Honda's paint is kind of crappy. But they are not the only one.....