<< go to start then run
type in cmd
it will bring up a command prompt
then....right as you receive a message from them, type netstat and it will list all current connections, just figure out which one is their ip address 🙂
*hint* do a before and after netstat and find out which one is theirs >>
nope... that wont work. works for icq if you use direct connections, but the default is not to, so that script kiddies dont mess with other people. all connections default to go through the aim servers