The movement is actually right at the connection of the tripod, basically the part that holds the lens is where the movement is. (these big lens have their own tripod mount, you don't mount the camera or it would be too top heavy) So a weight or sand bag would just move along with it. though I may have to try my idea of using two tripods, one at the lens and one at the tripod. Will be a bit harder to aim though, I can adjust the legs on one of the tripods to do that, I guess.
The more I look at it though I think it is infact the movement that is causing the blur. IT may look like it stopped shaking by the time I take the pic but there's probably still some movement. With a regular lens it's not as bad.
Also if I set to infinity it's totally blur, the sweet spot is somewhere in the middle, it's just hard to know if it's exact as I'm going by my eye in the dark. I guess it's a trial and error thing, can try a pic then zoom in on the LCD. I can also use a nearby cell tower as reference, it seems if I focus to the antenna then the moon and sky is not too bad. I would need to do this during the day perhaps then not touch the focus and wait for night.
Went out just now to mess around real quick.

Took this one at a faster shutter speed and just enhanced a bit.

This one is unmodified, but guess it's still fairly clear, maybe only slightly out of focus.
Can't set F stop on my tele lens unfortunately.
Here's a few I tried with a 35mm, they seem clearer, so maybe tripod shake is really my main issue and not my eye sight/ability to see if I'm well focused.
