Look, I love what Tesla is doing and my next car will probably be a Tesla, but it's not the best option for someone who can't spend $60k for a car, or someone who can't wait 1+ years before receiving a car.
But to the OP- just suck it up and pay full price, or whatever default savings they offer you. Any other purchase you make, you can potentially save a lot more money by going through the "hassle" of waiting weeks for the best deal, coupon, or whatever. In practice, car negotiations will usually cut 3-6% off MSRP. It's amazing how the same people who are perfectly happy paying full price for a computer or TV will spend hours and hours to save an extra 2% off the price of a car.