is skywalker66/gjeste actually in a better position than some of us here?

[skim milk]

Note: This does not apply to those that currently have girlfriends

I mean, from his threads, he seem to be around hot females and he actually tries/pursues the opposite sex even though he gets rejected often


I, on the other hand, as well as some people here i bet, don't pursue females period. Maybe my standards are too high or something, I can never get the balls to approach a good looking female I'm interested in. If i see a girl that looks good, I avoid them and make them think I don't like them. I guess somewhere in my childhood, i began to fear rejection. If I lower my standards, maybe I can approach average looking girls and be myself with them? lol
someone break me out of this shell

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

does it matter?

 

[AvesPKS]

My advice: Lower your standards. Girls with little to no self esteem should be your primary target. Even the minimal confidence you exude will seem like a great deal more to them. After you have completed this step, you will begin to gain more confidence, and can raise your standards a corresponding amount. However, be forewarned: chicks with low self esteem usually come equipped with a great deal of emotional baggage, so be ready to cut them loose at the first signs of attachment.

 

[DrNoobie]

A guy that can't get a girl, and doesn't know if she should stay in college or not being in a better postion that me...yea, I don't think so.

 

[Bootprint]

Originally posted by: AvesPKS
My advice: Lower your standards.

Is this low enough?

 

[jonMEGA]

find a girl with a big bank account.....

 

[skim milk]

Originally posted by: AvesPKS
My advice: Lower your standards.

I want the best of the best, the cream of the crop

maybe that's why i'm girlfriendless

 

[minendo]

You can't take him seriously. He things anything with boobs is hot.

 

[AvesPKS]

Originally posted by: fritolays

Originally posted by: AvesPKS
My advice: Lower your standards.

I want the best of the best, the cream of the crop

maybe that's why i'm girlfriendless

Okay, that's fine, for a girlfriend. But you have to start somewhere...and if you're worried about what your friends think, find some away from home...

 

[skim milk]

Originally posted by: AvesPKS

Originally posted by: fritolays

Originally posted by: AvesPKS
My advice: Lower your standards.

I want the best of the best, the cream of the crop

maybe that's why i'm girlfriendless

Okay, that's fine, for a girlfriend. But you have to start somewhere...and if you're worried about what your friends think, find some away from home...

honestly, i'm not really desperate to have a female companion in my life.... I'm young 19 and clueless, even though I would to have some experience with females.

Somewhere down the road, I will probably get desperate enough to pursue females, it just hasn't hit me yet.


I'm not worried about what my friends think... i only keep close with the true friends, so they understand me from every angle.

 

[Buttzilla]

are you in college? just go to frat party and put on ur beer goggles

 

[PlatinumGold]

Originally posted by: fritolays
Note: This does not apply to those that currently have girlfriends

I mean, from his threads, he seem to be around hot females and he actually tries/pursues the opposite sex even though he gets rejected often


I, on the other hand, as well as some people here i bet, don't pursue females period. Maybe my standards are too high or something, I can never get the balls to approach a good looking female I'm interested in. If i see a girl that looks good, I avoid them and make them think I don't like them. I guess somewhere in my childhood, i began to fear rejection. If I lower my standards, maybe I can approach average looking girls and be myself with them? lol
someone break me out of this shell

standards my @ss.

if there is chemistry there is chemistry, if not then not.

quite wasting your time looking and get involved with PEOPLE first, then if among one of those people you meet someone you have chemistry with pursue it.

i've only felt chemistry for 5 girls in my life and i dated 4 of them and married the last one.

i've never dated anyone i didn't feel chemistry with.

there have been many women that looked pleasing to my eyes and some of them my friends, but because there was no chemistry, i never pursued it.

chemistry, to me, is more than hormones, it's just clicking with someone in such a way that you feel that you belong together.

 

[Red]

You need to listen to Bush (the band) and listen up on chemisty, bitch.

 

[hevnsnt]

Originally posted by: fritolays
Note: This does not apply to those that currently have girlfriends

I mean, from his threads, he seem to be around hot females and he actually tries/pursues the opposite sex even though he gets rejected often


I, on the other hand, as well as some people here i bet, don't pursue females period. Maybe my standards are too high or something, I can never get the balls to approach a good looking female I'm interested in. If i see a girl that looks good, I avoid them and make them think I don't like them. I guess somewhere in my childhood, i began to fear rejection. If I lower my standards, maybe I can approach average looking girls and be myself with them? lol
someone break me out of this shell

LOL.. I just don't get this.. Get drunk, act like a fool, and chicks will come running.. What is so hard about that?

 

[ThePresence]

Originally posted by: fritolays
Note: This does not apply to those that currently have girlfriends

I mean, from his threads, he seem to be around hot females and he actually tries/pursues the opposite sex even though he gets rejected often

He's living in a dream world.

 

[skim milk]

Originally posted by: hevnsnt

Originally posted by: fritolays
Note: This does not apply to those that currently have girlfriends

I mean, from his threads, he seem to be around hot females and he actually tries/pursues the opposite sex even though he gets rejected often


I, on the other hand, as well as some people here i bet, don't pursue females period. Maybe my standards are too high or something, I can never get the balls to approach a good looking female I'm interested in. If i see a girl that looks good, I avoid them and make them think I don't like them. I guess somewhere in my childhood, i began to fear rejection. If I lower my standards, maybe I can approach average looking girls and be myself with them? lol
someone break me out of this shell

LOL.. I just don't get this.. Get drunk, act like a fool, and chicks will come running.. What is so hard about that?

it's not hard
with alcohol.. i can do anything.

but it's not really my thing

 

[par]

Originally posted by: fritolays
Note: This does not apply to those that currently have girlfriends

I mean, from his threads, he seem to be around hot females and he actually tries/pursues the opposite sex even though he gets rejected often


I, on the other hand, as well as some people here i bet, don't pursue females period. Maybe my standards are too high or something, I can never get the balls to approach a good looking female I'm interested in. If i see a girl that looks good, I avoid them and make them think I don't like them. I guess somewhere in my childhood, i began to fear rejection. If I lower my standards, maybe I can approach average looking girls and be myself with them? lol
someone break me out of this shell

Here are some steps to get you out of your shell, hope it helps some.

1)Admit to yourself that your standards aren't too high and go talk to hot chicks.

2)Talk to ALL girls hot or not WHENEVER you see them, it'll help build your girl talking skills.

3)Be yourself. YOURSELF

4)Learn to dance; go take some dance classes there will be plenty of girls in there to talk to and dance with. This is going to be the hardest step for you but do yourself a favor and GO DO IT! It will boost your self esteem and girls really really really dig guys who can dance.. and if you can dance well, that's even better.

Get those steps down and report back to us.

 

[skim milk]

Originally posted by: PlatinumGold

Originally posted by: fritolays
Note: This does not apply to those that currently have girlfriends

I mean, from his threads, he seem to be around hot females and he actually tries/pursues the opposite sex even though he gets rejected often


I, on the other hand, as well as some people here i bet, don't pursue females period. Maybe my standards are too high or something, I can never get the balls to approach a good looking female I'm interested in. If i see a girl that looks good, I avoid them and make them think I don't like them. I guess somewhere in my childhood, i began to fear rejection. If I lower my standards, maybe I can approach average looking girls and be myself with them? lol
someone break me out of this shell

standards my @ss.

if there is chemistry there is chemistry, if not then not.

quite wasting your time looking and get involved with PEOPLE first, then if among one of those people you meet someone you have chemistry with pursue it.

i've only felt chemistry for 5 girls in my life and i dated 4 of them and married the last one.

i've never dated anyone i didn't feel chemistry with.

there have been many women that looked pleasing to my eyes and some of them my friends, but because there was no chemistry, i never pursued it.

chemistry, to me, is more than hormones, it's just clicking with someone in such a way that you feel that you belong together.

can you school a young 19 year old about chemistry?


I feel like i have chemistry with just about every girl i make eye contact with. When we do end up talking, i feel anxious, excited, a little intimidated, etc..etc.. that sort of thing and everything ends on a good note.


if the "real" chemistry develops after getting to know girls well and they get to know me well, then i have yet to experience it.

 

[fs5]

Originally posted by: fritolays
can you school a young 19 year old about chemistry?


I feel like i have chemistry with just about every girl i make eye contact with. When we do end up talking, i feel anxious, excited, a little intimidated, etc..etc.. that sort of thing and everything ends on a good note.


if the "real" chemistry develops after getting to know girls well and they get to know me well, then i have yet to experience it.

this is worse than skywalker66's threads...

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: fritolays
it's not hard
with alcohol.. i can do anything.

Keeping it hard is usually a problem when alcohol has been consumed.

 

[AvesPKS]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: fritolays
it's not hard
with alcohol.. i can do anything.

Keeping it hard is usually a problem when alcohol has been consumed.

The curse of ol' whiskey dick...

 

[fs5]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: fritolays
it's not hard
with alcohol.. i can do anything.

Keeping it hard is usually a problem when alcohol has been consumed.

minendo speakth the truth.

 

[par]

Originally posted by: fritolays


can you school a young 19 year old about chemistry?


I feel like i have chemistry with just about every girl i make eye contact with. When we do end up talking, i feel anxious, excited, a little intimidated, etc..etc.. that sort of thing and everything ends on a good note.


if the "real" chemistry develops after getting to know girls well and they get to know me well, then i have yet to experience it.

chemistry is when you can chill with a girl and you guys just feel comfortable around each other.. there isn't alot of awckwardness.. if there is silence.. it's ok.. the two of you are just chillin'

think of how you are around your best friend.. that's kinda how it is, but with extra stuff (boobs, etc..)

 

[par]

Originally posted by: fivespeed5

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: fritolays
it's not hard
with alcohol.. i can do anything.

Keeping it hard is usually a problem when alcohol has been consumed.

minendo speakth the truth.

if i drink alot of whiskey i'm usually more ready to go than not.. and thnx to the whiskey maybe a lil desensitized so it holds up longer...

maybe i'm a freak

 

[DaWhim]

Originally posted by: par

Originally posted by: fritolays


can you school a young 19 year old about chemistry?


I feel like i have chemistry with just about every girl i make eye contact with. When we do end up talking, i feel anxious, excited, a little intimidated, etc..etc.. that sort of thing and everything ends on a good note.


if the "real" chemistry develops after getting to know girls well and they get to know me well, then i have yet to experience it.

chemistry is when you can chill with a girl and you guys just feel comfortable around each other.. there isn't alot of awckwardness.. if there is silence.. it's ok.. the two of you are just chillin'

think of how you are around your best friend.. that's kinda how it is, but with extra stuff (boobs, etc..)

can you have chemistry with your best female friend?