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Is phone sex cheating?

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Lifer
I apologize if this topic is of an unacceptable nature, but I just want an opinion.

Lets assume you were seriously dating someone, but that your ex called for some "conversation", would you say this was cheating?

Thanks.
 
what do you get out of phonesex? ive never actually understand if people get off from it. ive had offers, but i just evade the subject.


well, to answer your question, in part it is, you are sending signals to your x that might lead to something else.





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I don't get much out of it, really. Twas just a weird situation that I don't plan on being in again.

I just felt like a scumbag for whatever reason, and was wanting some opinions on my instance of infidelity.
 
Robert Dinero put it quite eloquently in the movie Ronin...

"If there's any doubt, then there's NO doubt."

You are having doubts about what you did, which means there's no doubt what you did was wrong.
 
Well if it's with an ex, yes. If it's a 900 number, no. I would consider a 900 number to be equivalent to watching a skin flick. Anyone who thinks that watching porn is cheating has some severe repression issues. 😛
 
If it was phone sex, then yes, that's cheating. If your ex called and you talked about everyday stuff or whatever, then, no, that's a phone conversation. This is a double edged sword, but you might consider telling your gf that she called (you may or may not want to include the phone sex part, that's not my place to tell you what to do. The important thing is you tell her that she called). If she finds out that she called and you didn't tell her, she'd be upset. Then again, she might also be upset if you tell her she called because she might get jealous. However, if it is a serious relationship based on caring and trust, I think she'd appreciate your honesty.
 
It is cheating, no way around that. What you have to do is justify if this level of cheating is important to you.

Or if it is important to the one you are with now. Think about it, if your current gf was doing this with another man, would it be a problem for you?
 
It's not cheating IMHO....

























....until she catches you. Then your ass is a good as gone. Hehe. But seriously though, don't do it. ex's aren't worth sh*t, that's why they're "ex's". Stick with whatcha got, if you can't then let her go. Don't drag her along on your sick twisted fantasy. 😉


-MzTyKaL (I hate people who cheat on their wifes/girlfriends)
 
If you are enjoying it, yes i think so, lol.

So that by definition, if you have sex with her, BUT don't enjoy it, IT'S NOT CHEATING! 😉

Hahahah, lol.
 
its just conversation no touching is involve heck you dont even see the person....just like talking over the internet
 
Only if your jerking off at the same time your taking. Then it's cheating. But if you do it after your done talking it's not cheating.
 
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