Well, we've been dating for about 5 months now. Everything has always been good between us. Part of his job description is working 14+ hours a day, so we usually only see eachother weekends and some weeknights. But about 5 of the 7 days/nights of the week I know exactly where he is and what he is doing.
But here's what makes me suspicious. The other night he invited me to go out with him and his friends but I didn't feel like it. So I told him to call me when he got home. He did and I went over to his place. He was, of course, completely drunk. Right as we're about to climb into bed he grabs his cell phone and starts going out the door. When I ask him what the heck he thinks he's doing, he says "I need to make a phone call. We were supposed to meet up with some people and they're probably waiting." Immediately I'm suspicious for two reasons, one he'd been home for like an hour now and just now decides to call? And two, he's never been bashful about talking to any of his friends in front of me.
So I put my foot down and tell him that its 3:30am and no one is waiting and make him to go to bed. But he already started dialing. But before he says anything, he hangs up and passes out. By this point I'm fairly annoyed and get up and leave. But not before I look at his cell phone (I know, I know) and the person he dials has a female name. Very interesting.
My question, whats the chances that this isn't exactly what it seems and maybe it was an innocent phone call. And what should I do?
But here's what makes me suspicious. The other night he invited me to go out with him and his friends but I didn't feel like it. So I told him to call me when he got home. He did and I went over to his place. He was, of course, completely drunk. Right as we're about to climb into bed he grabs his cell phone and starts going out the door. When I ask him what the heck he thinks he's doing, he says "I need to make a phone call. We were supposed to meet up with some people and they're probably waiting." Immediately I'm suspicious for two reasons, one he'd been home for like an hour now and just now decides to call? And two, he's never been bashful about talking to any of his friends in front of me.
So I put my foot down and tell him that its 3:30am and no one is waiting and make him to go to bed. But he already started dialing. But before he says anything, he hangs up and passes out. By this point I'm fairly annoyed and get up and leave. But not before I look at his cell phone (I know, I know) and the person he dials has a female name. Very interesting.
My question, whats the chances that this isn't exactly what it seems and maybe it was an innocent phone call. And what should I do?
