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Is love overated?

Vonkhan

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I'm 24, been thru 3 SERIOUS relationships, on my 4th one now ... altho I'm in love, I dont feel nothing like the first time.

Am i just jaded or is love plain overated and sex is the only thing that really counts?
 

Regine

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I've given up on love at the moment... my life is such a mess right now though.

I still can't help but hope that I'll find someone that will be right for me...
 

SilentZero

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If your thinking its over-rated, then your probably not in love. I don't think its over-rated. Been married going on 6 years now and things are only getting better.
 

Vonkhan

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Originally posted by: SilentZero
If your thinking its over-rated, then your probably not in love. I don't think its over-rated. Been married going on 6 years now and things are only getting better.

what, wife's eased up on the whipping lately? :D
 

yobarman

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yes i think so, im in it for the booty now. but seriously, nothing beats it... i thought i was in love once but i was young and stupid, but it was good the whole time. I can't wait to find the "girl of my dreams" but for now im just living it up
 

OS

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Originally posted by: Vonkhan
I'm 24, been thru 3 SERIOUS relationships, on my 4th one now ... altho I'm in love, I dont feel nothing like the first time.

Am i just jaded or is love plain overated and sex is the only thing that really counts?

hahaha, serious. The first one or two times its like, I can't live without you baby, and then after that it's just more pretty faces that come and go in life. With all the cheating/affairs and divorces in the world, love is a joke.
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: Vonkhan
... altho I'm in love, I dont feel nothing like the first time.

Am i just jaded or is love plain overated and sex is the only thing that really counts?
Multiple misspellings, lack of apostrophe in the contraction, double negative, lack of capitalization. Bravo. You're definitely an ATOTer.
 

Vonkhan

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Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: Vonkhan
... altho I'm in love, I dont feel nothing like the first time.

Am i just jaded or is love plain overated and sex is the only thing that really counts?
Multiple misspellings, lack of apostrophe in the contraction, double negative, lack of capitalization. Bravo. You're definitely an ATOTer.

ur website SUCKS :D ;) :beer:



back on topic - can u be in different degrees of love? like .... a little in love, crazyily in love, just love :confused: Is love relative or absolute?

i need a :beer:
 

gUEv

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love is overrated....when your single, alone, or never been in love ;)

all of this is imo...but no, i dont think love is "absolute", all-or-nothing, pwned or not. you can love someone in many different ways, but when two people are truly in love (not infatuated)...bam...that is the crap that they make radio syrup about, that is what hollywood capitalizes on, and that is what every man and woman strives to feel at sometime in their life, whether they want to admit it or not. whatever, call it stupid, call it chemicals, it doesnt matter.....it feels great. cherish it if it ever comes your way (beacause it doesnt happen for all of us).

my answer i guess is.. if you have to ask, then youve never been in love.

(sorry, im not trying to make it sound like a super-secret kewl club or something...you just...have to experience it)
 

flxnimprtmscl

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*shrugs* whether it is or not depends on the person. Personally, I'd say it probably is. For some people it's not though... All depends on the individual.
 

tk149

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Call me disillusioned, but after my last relationship, I quit looking for "Mrs. Right" and started looking for "Miss Right NOW."
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: jsbush
Originally posted by: Walleye
is sex overrated?

If you have to ask, it's because you've probably never experienced it. ;)
You must have missed his username... that post was from Walleye. You should edit that "probably" out of your message.
:)
 

thomsbrain

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yeah, doesn't sound like you're in love to me. you may love the person, but there's a difference between "love" and "in love"
 

Siddhartha

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Originally posted by: Vonkhan
I'm 24, been thru 3 SERIOUS relationships, on my 4th one now ... altho I'm in love, I dont feel nothing like the first time.

Am i just jaded or is love plain overated and sex is the only thing that really counts?

This does not sould like you are in love.
 

EagleKeeper

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Big difference between Love, Lust, Like and Sex
 

BlamoHammer

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My answer is unequivocally no. When love goes bad it is the absolute worst feeling in the world, but when its right...WOW.
 

FrOsTxxbYtE

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i've been in love only one time and when she left me for another guy i was so hurt that i never bothered falling in love again...women are just objects now, whom i can respect and LIKE, but not love
 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: jsbush
Originally posted by: Walleye
is sex overrated?

If you have to ask, it's because you've probably never experienced it. ;)
You must have missed his username... that post was from Walleye. You should edit that "probably" out of your message.
:)

ZING! :p