Originally posted by: SunnyD
Why am I paying for you to live the American Dream when I can't afford to myself?
The people you are referring to are hardly living the American Dream.
To the posters who are talking about how buying a home is not supposed to be easy, consider the past. It used to be A LOT easier to buy a home even when taking inflation into consideration. I have spoken with a lot of adults in their mid 50's about this topic and all of them agree that they do not understand how young people (late 20s to early 30s) are able to afford it these days. They realize that people figure out ways, but what they are witnessing is that homes are being owned less and less by the middle class and lower-middle class compared to the past. To me, that is a very bad thing. If it was possible for people who fit in those classes to comfortably afford homes like that in the past then why should we not be aiming for the same level of ease today? Something has gradually gone horribly wrong. It should not be this difficult. Life in general in this country is not better that way.